Re: [wc] Re: Poll

Thu, 03 Aug 2006 05:16:41 -0700

We med the end of Septemeber my freshman year (his senior year). I had a horrible roommate and so I slept in his room as friends for a while and then we just moved in together after my first semester. We broke up for awhile my Senior year but got back together. He stayed and got his Masters and teaching cerificate (which he doesn't use) while I completed my undergrad.
Reading it is sounds sort of pathetic.... But I had been a little free wheeling in high school so he wasn't my first boyfriend.
Daria

 
On 8/2/06, Ellen <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

did you meet on the 1st day of freshman year or something like that?


--- In [email protected], "Daria Akers"
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> **shaking head in disbelief** Yes I got married to my college sweetheart
> when I was 22 (Almost 23). We were together for 5 years before we got
> married too. It hasn't been perfect but we have been to hell and back
> together so we are in it for the long haul.
> Wow before I was an item with my husband I had mostly males for
friends so
> we all hung out together and sleeping in the same bed (couch, floor) was
> always an option. I always thought I was just one of the guys. But I
think I
> was sort of clueless...
>
>
> On 8/1/06, Ellen <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >
> > late 30's---wow you're 32 and married 10 years? Impressive! No I
> > don't think I have ever been able to share a bed with a member of the
> > opposite sex that I wasn't dating, not that the opportunity presented
> > itself all that often. Or rather shall I say wasn't dating and didn't
> > WANT to be dating.
> >
> >
> > --- In
[email protected]<weingartenchatters%40yahoogroups.com>,

> > "Daria Akers"
> > <daria.akers@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Ok let's add another variable to this...AGE
> > > Ellen, if you don't mind, how old are you?
> > > See when I was in my late teens and early 20s I felt totally ok with
> > > spending the night with the other sex and it could be totally
> > platonic. Now
> > > at 32 (married and 32).... there is no way I could do that. I don't
> > think it
> > > is the marriage thing but I could be wrong.
> > > Could it be that once we "Grow up" we realize that we might be
> > sending the
> > > wrong signals? Or do we not trust ourselves enough?
> > >
> > > On 8/1/06, Ellen <ellengoodman6@> wrote:
> > > >
> > > > I'm sorry, I still stand my original statement that I can't
share a
> > > > bed with a member of the opposite sex that I'm not dating. I don't
> > > > think I'm alone in this, but obviously if I'm not spending the
evening
> > > > with my SO, traveling or otherwise than I must be alone by
definition.
> > > >
> > > > --- In
> > [email protected]
<weingartenchatters%40yahoogroups.com>
> > <weingartenchatters%40yahoogroups.com>,
> >
> > > > "hermespal" <hermespal@>
> > > >
> > > > wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > I think you've hit it on the head. It's a matter of expressing
> > intent
> > > > > if one is trying to move things to another level. I've slept
in the
> > > > > same bed with male friends where there was nothing sexual
about it.
> > > > > Hell, we even spooned. But it was just platonic love/affection.
> > Or, as
> > > > > one of them put it before gathering me in his arms, "it's just
> > > > > horizontal hugging--we do it vertically, so what the hell,
c'mere.
> > > > > Sweet dreams."
> > > > >
> > > > > --- In
> > [email protected]
<weingartenchatters%40yahoogroups.com>
> > <weingartenchatters%40yahoogroups.com>,
> >
> > > > "dvm8375" <muellerdana@>
> > > > > wrote:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > I just don't think it's that black and white. Haven't you ever
> > > > > > shared a hotel room platonically? What, are you people
made out of
> > > > > > money? I have definitely shared rooms, and even beds, with
friends
> > > > > > of both sexes to reduce vacation costs. I don't think it
would be
> > > > > > weird for coworkers, that are long-time friends, that have
> > NEVER had
> > > > > > a romantic/sexual involvement to travel together and share
a room
> > > > > > and not have sex. Now if it's the guy's (or girl's)
intention to
> > > > > > move things to a new level, he (or she) should make that clear
> > > > > > before asking for a travel buddy.
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > --
> > > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > >
> >
> >
> >
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