I didn't know who killed JonBenet... My husband and I did have a talk about what we would do if our son (we don't have one) some how killed his sister as an accident. Would we turn him in? Imagine in one evening losing both of your kids... one because their died and the other because they were going to jail. We didn't come to a conclusion on what we would do BTW.
I think that this entry pretty much says that many of us have been saying. My big example is Richard Jewel... his life is still ruined over the Olympic Park bombing when he didn't do it but many people still think that he did.
It's like the 60% of Americans who think Iraq has WMD.... not much is going to change their mind.
Take Care,
Daria
 
On 8/17/06, Ellen <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

Covering a big chunk of what we have been discussing lately:

Posted at 01:37 PM ET, 08/17/2006
JonBenet and Jumping to Conclusions

(Posted by guest blogger Valerie Strauss)

Upon learning that a non-family member is being held as a suspect in
the slaying of JonBenet Ramsey, a friend told me that her first
reaction was shame.

She, like so many of us, thought someone in the family was responsible
for the 6-year-old's death 10 years ago.
The initial botched police investigation and the media leaks that came
out over the years certainly fueled our interest--and our suspicions.

So too, perhaps unfairly, did the parents' sexualization of their
6-year-old in the world of young beauty pageants (so aptly portrayed
in the current movie "Little Miss Sunshine."), something that seemed
to be unusual at the time. Not anymore. Even if many of us disliked
that whole scene, its defining characteristics have since her death
become popularized throughout the culture. Walk into a store for young
girls and look at the booty shorts and the shirts with come-hither
messages written across the chest.

If there is an admittedly obvious but real lesson to learn from this
turn of events (and assuming that the suspect will be found guilty),
it may be that we too often jump to conclusions about important things
with pretty much no evidence on which to base them.

My husband used to look at me increduously when I guessed who killed
the little girl, pointing out, correctly, that nobody but the cops and
the killer had any real clue.

Perhaps we ought to stop relying--and pretending to be--instant
experts on every topic imaginable. Real experts on any subject are few
and far between, and they know they don't know everything. But then
what would the cable television industry do to fill all those empty hours?

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But even she says "assuming that the suspect will be found
guilty"--haven't we JUST learned that assuming ANYTHING is dangerous?
And she says this in a column CONDEMNING ASSUMPTIONS!


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