Cant you just ignor him? The rest of us do :) hehehe. Seriously though, I know it's difficult when emotions are involved, it's hard to separate the past from the present and move on. Some mates of ours further north have encountered a similar problem. Emotions can be volitile and destructive if we let them, and sometimes our passion for what we want to do (fire-dance) is shadowed by passion of destructive emotion. It's all a learning experience for being human, wether you learn anything or not is another story. (Lesson 2: don't screw the crew. Lesson 1: Don't take anyone/anything personally or seriously - we're all flawed)
hmm, I try put myself in that position - like if my (so called by me) evil ex wanted to start spinning and hanging out... well, we had quite a few social situations where we had to be in the same room/vicinity as each other, and we did very well at ignoring each other and enjoying the people/event we came to (being in the present). I don't take what I percieve as her 'bad behaviour' personally. (or her mine, takes two to tango). So, be that what it may, it comes down to what this is about - Fire dance. I like both Marla and Myles, and everyone for that matter, no matter what percieved or real 'bad behaviours' we may display to each other, because to me, you're just fire dancers/lovers of movement/ music/dance. I'm sorry if we lose Marla or anyone for that matter, but there's not much we can do is there? We can't say 'Myles stop being mean to Marla' when he probably doesn't think he is - y'know what I mean? It's just one of those stupid human situations where when people can't stop their giving and recieving of bad emotion, it takes over from the core of your work. Whichever is stronger for you - your passion for fire or your passion to a) be a dick or b) be a reciever of dickness, is whatever lesson your entangled with in the moment. I urge you to take Lesson 1 to heart, which will enable you to focus on the task at hand - fire-dance. It's not a matter of 'trying to be nice' to anyone - it's a matter of getting on with what really matters. namaste children. On Aug 3, 4:35 pm, Kitty Cat <[email protected]> wrote: > myles the reason i want to leave this group of levely people is you! > im sick of trying to play nice when u are a condecending wanker most of the > time. u are the one that called me a stupid female dog for no actual reason. > u are the one that picks the fights. > i have noticed an improvement in my health since i moved out and if i remove > you from my life then my health will improve more.. > > and everyone else sorry for the public petty shite... but he wont listen to > me in private > > On Mon, Aug 3, 2009 at 2:24 PM, Emma Necus <[email protected]>wrote: > > > > > > > from what ive seen your very good with your toys lady so dont stop > > > i second what bron has said, hugs x > > > 2009/8/3 Jodi York <[email protected]> > > > Agreed! > > >> On 3/08/2009, at 1:41 PM, Wendy wrote: > > >> pfaffing is an Important Life Skill. > > >> 2009/8/3 ffirebell <[email protected]> > > >>> Hey I used to be a good toy thrower when I took everything under the > >>> sun personally, so I know what it's like. I didn't grow out of it till > >>> I was about 33, but then I didn't have any one around to explain it to > >>> me... sad but true, aren't you guys glad you know the older bron and > >>> didn't know the younger bron! > > >>> Fire and music saved me! (and learning to pfaff) > > >>> On Aug 3, 1:32 pm, Myles White <[email protected]> wrote: > >>> > For the record, I think Marla should stay on the list and going to > >>> fire... I > >>> > am not sure what she was throwing her toys about. > > >>> > On Mon, Aug 3, 2009 at 1:26 PM, ffirebell <[email protected]> > >>> wrote: > > >>> > > Dude it's O K, no worries! It's fine to post things of interest, and > >>> > > yes some people are interested, and some of us aren't! Don't take > >>> > > stuff personally - there's no point! you're not the one putting on > >>> the > >>> > > party (then you could take it personally - but even then I don't > >>> > > recommend ever taking anything personally - there's no point.) > > >>> > > MOST of us would not like you to leave the group, and don't take the > >>> > > one or two people personally who might. Do I sense a theme here? > > >>> > > I used to take heaps of stuff personally, before I realized it was a > >>> > > waste of time and there was much more fun things to do and think > >>> > > about. Like fire and dance. > > >>> > > On Jul 31, 4:25 pm, Kitty Cat <[email protected]> wrote: > >>> > > > is there any way i can take this whole thread down? im sorry for > >>> the > >>> > > > issues and the stress i have gained. this was not ment to be a fire > >>> > > > gig. i put it here for those that are interested. it is not jono > >>> > > > doing this. im also gonna leave group. its just all a bit too much. > > >>> > > > On 7/31/09, Myles White <[email protected]> wrote: > > >>> > > > > the "auto reply" is being selective. > > >>> > > > > I sent an email to it yesterday and not heard back yet. > > >>> > > > > I'd say it is Jono... > > >>> > > > > On 7/31/09, ffirebell <[email protected]> wrote: > > >>> > > > >> However - I got an autobot reply message - maybe it's Emz mate > >>> Floyd > >>> > > > >> and his crew that just did the paint party? I remain dubious as > >>> none > >>> > > > >> of them know any of us fire ppl, if they did they would have > >>> invited > >>> > > > >> us! Unless it's one of those weirdo crews that dont like fire. > >>> Boo to > >>> > > > >> the dj's who don't like fire! Yay to Risto and the dj's who do!! > > >>> > > > >> WAREHOUSE RAVE in Wellington > > >>> > > > >> Welcome to a special once-in-a-lifetime treat for those who've > >>> never > >>> > > > >> been to a warehouse party, or were too young to go in 1989. > > >>> > > > >> This is a true "old school" map-point rave created by people > >>> > > > >> who were there. > > >>> > > > >> Saturday 22 August, Wellington. > > >>> > > > >> $10 tickets can be purchased from those in the know. Limited to > >>> 500. > >>> > > > >> When they sell out (and they will), there will be no more. > > >>> > > > >> ABSOLUTELY NO DOOR SALES. If you don't buy a ticket, you will > >>> not get > >>> > > > >> in. We are firm on this. > > >>> > > > >> ===== > > >>> > > > >> How it works: > > >>> > > > >> 1. You email [email protected] to get on the list > > >>> > > > >> 2. You buy a ticket. > > >>> > > > >> 3. You will be emailed further instructions including a map > >>> point to > >>> > > > >> meet at on the night. > > >>> > > > >> 4. On the night from 10pm to 11pm a crew member will be at the > >>> map > >>> > > > >> point to give directions to the party location. > > >>> > > > >> 5. Doors open at 10:30pm. Doors shut at 11:30pm. If you are not > >>> > > > >> inside by 11:30pm, you will not get in. No pass-outs. (Smokers > >>> will > >>> > > > >> be catered for.) > > >>> > > > >> 6. Party!!! > > >>> > > > >> ===== > > >>> > > > >> We have professional security and a large crew. Don't bother > >>> trying to > >>> > > > >> text your friends on the night, they will not get in. If you > >>> don't > >>> > > > >> have a ticket and you are not there between 10 and 11pm on > >>> August 22 > >>> > > > >> you will miss out. > > >>> > > > >> We have been doing this for a long time and we know what we're > >>> doing. > >>> > > > >> While we do our best, we take no responsibility for your > >>> experience on > >>> > > > >> the night. Your safety is your own responsibility. Fucktards, > >>> bad > >>> > > > >> elements and troublemakers will be turned over to the Police > >>> > > > >> immediately with no second chance. > > >>> > > > >> This is an event for people of good will who know how to enjoy > >>> > > > >> themselves and treat others with respect. > > >>> > > > >> 500 tickets only. You will not see advertising. > > >>> > > > >> Pass it on: email, text and word of mouth only. > > >>> > > > >> This is not a hoax. > > >>> > > > >> From August 1 this automated response email will also send out > >>> > > > >> locations where you can buy tickets. > > >>> > > > >> ===== > > >>> > > > >> "But what is actually going to happen at the rave?" > > >>> > > > >> That's for you to find out ;) > > >>> > > > >> Tip: Rent the movie "Groove" to find out what a map-point > >>> > > > >> rave is like. > >>> > > > >>http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0212974 > > >>> > > > >> On Jul 31, 1:55 pm, ffirebell <[email protected]> wrote: > >>> > > > >>> Oh come on, like some people check their mail daily? 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