Hi Pax, I agree that blaming the victim is an unsatisfactory resolution.
On the other hand, defining what is meant by "incivility" and "harassment" can be very tricky. Just because there is a strong disagreement doesn't imply that people are being uncivil, and we cannot expect that no one will ever lose his or her temper when provoked. Similarly, a pattern of disagreement doesn't necessarily imply harassment, and the presumption of good faith is rebuttable which means that questioning the motives of others is occasionally OK. So, as Sumana once said, we have a tricky situation with regards to balancing free speech with hospitality. I think there are situations in which behavior is egregious enough that it is a net harm to community health and cannot be excused. For example, comments that demean someone on the basis of race, gender, age, nationality, or religious or political beliefs, are generally out of bounds. I'd be interested in hearing your thoughts about how we should define harassment, and how we should seek to reduce the frequency of it on Wikimedia sites. Thank you for speaking up. Pine On Jun 4, 2016 19:15, "Pax Ahimsa Gethen" <list-wikime...@funcrunch.org> wrote: > Hi all, I'm Pax aka Funcrunch . I've been a Wikipedian since 2008, but > this is my first post to this mailing list. (I've been reading list > messages on the archives page occasionally for the last several months.) > > I'm writing because of a concern I have about the community's attitude > toward harassment on Wikipedia. I got a Wikinotice about this month's > Inspire Campaign, which specifically asks: "What ideas do you have that can > help prevent and generally address cases of harassment?"  As a victim of > several of the harassing behaviors mentioned as examples - " name calling, > threats, discrimination, stalking, and impersonation" - I was encouraged to > see that this problem was (hopefully) being taken seriously by the > Foundation, and submitted a proposal. > > Looking at the other proposals submitted, I soon noticed that the most > popular "ideas" on the list included complaints of "political correctness" > and suggesting we shouldn't be so sensitive , and that we should just > get some sleep and exercise and reconsider why we're so offended.  (That > first "idea" has since been recategorized by a WMF staffer to remove it > from the current campaign.) > > It really bothers me that a campaign specifically designed to combat > harassment - which is a very serious and real problem for people of > marginalized identities like myself - is being co-opted by people saying > things like " Harassment doesn't cause actual damage," " The existence of > harassment is an opportunity to improve ourselves further through > self-discipline," and " Harassment on Wikimedia has been exaggerated." I > suggest that people who honestly believe this, but are willing to accept > that they might be wrong, read a recent essay about online harassment by > Anil Dash: "The Immortal Myths About Online Abuse."  > > I'm not "looking to be offended," and I'm not trying to "censor" people > who simply disagree with me. I'm trying to help build an encyclopedia, > without being harassed by block-evading stalkers hurling hate speech my > way. The existing tools and policies are *not* sufficient to deal with > this. That's (what I thought was) the point of this Inspire campaign, not > complaining about censorship and " crybullying." > > I've posted a much shorter version of this concern on the Inspire Campaign > talk page , so feel free to weigh in there instead of here on the list > if that's more appropriate. Thank you for reading. > > - Pax, aka Funcrunch > > >  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User:Funcrunch >  https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/Inspire >  > https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/Stop_%22Political_Correctness%22_as_gauge > ! >  https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/Don't_feed_the_trolls >  Queer, trans, and black, in my case. >  > https://medium.com/humane-tech/the-immortal-myths-about-online-abuse-a156e3370aee >  > https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants_talk:IdeaLab/Inspire/Meta#Blaming_the_victim > > -- > Pax Ahimsa Gethen | p...@funcrunch.org | http://funcrunch.org > > > _______________________________________________ > Wikimedia-l mailing list, guidelines at: > https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Mailing_lists/Guidelines > New messages to: Wikimediaemail@example.com > Unsubscribe: https://lists.wikimedia.org/mailman/listinfo/wikimedia-l, > <mailto:wikimedia-l-requ...@lists.wikimedia.org?subject=unsubscribe> _______________________________________________ Wikimedia-l mailing list, guidelines at: https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Mailing_lists/Guidelines New messages to: Wikimediafirstname.lastname@example.org Unsubscribe: https://lists.wikimedia.org/mailman/listinfo/wikimedia-l, <mailto:wikimedia-l-requ...@lists.wikimedia.org?subject=unsubscribe>