[Winona Online Democracy]

To those of you who are tired of the analysis of WOD process, feel free to delete at this point--sorry, but it happens to be a subject of interest to me, so I'll be self-indulgent here.

The past few days I've been reading words like "commoner" and references to individuals "casting themselves as superior" which reminds me of the parable of "ups" and "downs" (see http://www.augsburg.edu/education/edc210/dumb-ups.html)

I think that it is true that we are all both "ups" or "downs" at one point or another. I know that I have felt unfairly labeled "elite" in this forum--not a term that feels comfortable to me. I happen to be outspoken in a lot of "group discussion" situations because I know participation is essential to discussion. I do it in face to face situations, too, but I love being able to take time to choose my words and compose my thoughts in this medium.

But I digress...in thinking about this nature of ours to place others and ourselves in some sort of social hierarchy, I realize that in many ways, this forum has allowed me to converse with folks that I most likely would never have spoken with face to face--most likely because of feeling that they were of some "higher status" than myself. So for me this has been much more empowering than other ways of discussing these kind of issues. I think that is part of what the mission of WOD is supposed to be.

As far as being "common" vs. "elite" I find myself amazed every day at things I've been able to do that my grandparents could not even imagined. My grandfather was a custodian at Purdue (cleaned bathrooms on campus) and my grandmother cleaned house for an English professor from there. I've never thought of myself as having any great social status--certainly my work as a social worker was not high-status, as professions go. Now I've had this opportunity to train a new generation of students to do the work that I value so much and with that comes a title, "Professor". Now people project all sorts of stuff onto me because of that title and I'm still the same person of humble means and roots that I've always been. So, is this me trying to show off to others how great and superior I am? That was not my goal at all and it is not my intention, but now somehow I am responsible for others' feelings of inferiority when I still have plenty of my own!!??!!

Anyway, I think there is a lot of this stuff for many of us and it affects the way we communicate in this forum--just my opinion. Do others think so? And if this is part of what contributes to the silence of some and the hostility of others, what can be done to help us wade through all of this? Maybe just being mindful that each individual has a story that has brought them to these moments of participating here, so let's try not to judge too quickly or harshly. I'm open to hearing what other think--especially if you disagree. I am here to learn from all of you.

Kathy Seifert





----- Original Message ----- From: "jjs" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: <[email protected]>
Sent: Sunday, July 31, 2005 9:36 AM
Subject: [Winona] Re: understanding now


[Winona Online Democracy]

Duane Peterson
Sat, 30 Jul 2005 12:01:01 -0700

To begin with, no one on WOD commissioned the scholars to study
and/or criticize WOD.

True, and thank goodness scholars need not depend upon commissions in order to do studies for the same reasons online groups like WOD should not need permission nor commissions from the city to exist.

WOD members have no need to respond to the criticism of the scholars.

Absolutely true, of course. I believe I noted the same in my post.

The fact that you were dismissed from the group probably accounts for your
>characterizing all of us as "casting themselves as superior".

I was not dismissed. In fact, I was quite surprised to receive as many supportive emails as rebuttals made on WOD, which again points to the possibility that many people read but may not feel they can post to WOD without, perhaps, receiving comments like yours from the regulars.

I, for one, don't feel superior and don't wish to so denegrate (sic) others on the list. Your tone, like many I have heard in the past in the practice of law, >demonstrates only your anger, not your logic.

Now that you wish to make it one-to-one personal, I submit that if you did not feel you were superior, you would not have mentioned your profession. Regardless of your former position as a judge, your statement is an appeal to authority. So much for good logical form. And from whom did you hear this anger? Are you trying to cast my role here as a criminal or one seeing a frivolous civil remedy, or are you including your fellow legal professionals?

--
jjs - a NORP and proud of it


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