Yesterday I attended a farewell as well as welcoming party of AFS Semarang 
Chapter. As last year, my ‘duty’ was to give comments to students’ 
presentations. However, in this short article, I will not write about the 
students’ performance, but I will write a little about one returnee’s 
experience when he was in America.
This particular student—a male—is from one Islamic boarding school which is 
quite well-known from Central Java. The interesting thing was during one year 
in Uncle Sam’s country, he was sent to a Christian (or Catholic, I am not 
really sure about it). Before he left, people around him were a bit doubtful to 
let him go; with a similar reason of Eric’s parents (whose experience I wrote 
in this blog of mine too a year ago): they were worried if the so-called 
ungodly country would change the poor boy’s faith and he would be a devil’s 
followers. (Eric was sent to Norway which is said to have the highest 
percentage of non-believer citizens in the whole world.)
As Eric, this new returnee narrated his amazing experience how people in the 
whole Christian school did not marginalize him only because he was the only 
Muslim. Even they showed big interest on what Islam is, its teachings, bla bla 
bla, and especially it’s ‘jihad’. Why this experience is amazing for him, I 
believe, is caused by how Indonesian people (in religion’s area) show ‘the 
majority rules’ and ‘the minority follows’. (One very clear example in this 
case is during Ramadhan month how selfishly the majority asks the whole country 
to respect this month without reserve. All restaurants must be close in the 
morning without respecting other people who are not fasting, who perhaps need 
to go to a restaurant.)
Going back from America, this returnee is of course expected to tell his folks 
that the so-called ungodly country has taught him a very valuable lesson: the 
majority must respect the minority.
This story reminded me of one workmate who told me about one niece of hers. 
This niece was selected to go abroad after winning the selection of students 
exchange. At first, her family was not sure that she would get the chance since 
she was wearing ‘jilbab’. Therefore, then I explained that—in my opinion—the 
committee of this students exchange intentionally seemed to choose students 
whose religious familial background was strong: such as those who study in 
Islamic boarding school. They are expected to open their eyes that the teaching 
of their teachers as well as parents that religion is the only principle to 
make life better is not always right; that people whose religious ‘knowledge’ 
is strong will make good people (‘good’ here means will not do any harm to 
other people) can be biased.
What do the committee expect from this? The returnees will be moderate and will 
not be easily brainwashed by those fundamental Islamic teachings, let’s say to 
kill other people in the name of God. The returnees will respect people who do 
not always turn to religions when facing their lives because there are always 
other ways out. 
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P.S.: my post about Eric is here

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