In one way or another, in effect, babies are almost entirely focused on
me-me-me, that is they are continually looking for food and a
comfortable environment, with no regard for anything or anyone else.

This 'selfishness' has nothing to do with any carry-over from previous

Babies have evolved to be this way because such behavior enhances their
chances of survival in the Darwinian struggle of life.


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J-xfqPPUBb4xu_obOa8gfzS_GtzhadfQsSaexQUklkWL1nAZhSNpeaEYNIurbD6a7KQE8> ,
Chris wrote:

Babies do not split life into self and other.
Also they do not get distracted by abstract worries. They are fully
present in the moment. They are not much concerned with stuff outside of
their own internal needs, but that is appropriate.

Thanks,  Chris Austin-Lane

The way in which babies normally and naturally behave is to be obsessed
with 'I/me/mine' (it's ego), with no regard whatsoever for the needs of
its mother or anyone else - and without which attitude it would not

In short, if babies had no egos, the only babies who survived for more
than a few days would be 'buddhas' - and the population of human buddhas
on this earth would be nil.


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_GtzhadfQsSaexQUklkWL1nAZhSNpeaEYNIurbD6a7KQE8> , "Lana M. Gibbons"
<lana.m.gibb...@...> wrote:
> No, Thank You. I already have much of the infant's mentality, the lack
> duality, the awareness, the "no-mind" - to discard all of what I have
> "learned" so far would be to discard my true self.
> The typical five year old has many concepts and ideas, they are
> materialistic, extreme in their sense of duality, some even expect
others to
> serve them - that is nothing I strive towards being.
> If all children naturally developed as Buddhas, there would be no need
> Buddhism to exist.
> -Lana

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