ED, Well...okay. It's not up to me to tell you what you should or should not do. I can tell you for me I know I should not cling to attachments. I'm more at ease that way. Attachments make me feel sad when they go away.
You may certainly be attached to them if you want to ; and you may certainly be attached to them even if you don't want to. It's all up to you. ...Bill! --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, "ED" <seacrofter...@...> wrote: > > > > Bill, > > Why *should* I not? > > --ED > > > > --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, "Bill!" <BillSmart@> wrote: > > > > ED, > > > > You might have values and objectives, but you should not be attached > to your (or anyone else's) values or objectives. > > > > ...Bill! > > > > > Mel and Bill, > > > > > > What a person says or does is a function of his or her conscious or > > > unconscious values and objectives in life, not ours. > > > > > > What 'should' his or her values and objectives in life be? > > > > > > > > --ED > > > > > Mel, > > > > > > That sounds a lot like what a great bodhisattva is reported to have > > > taught: > > > > > > Matthew 6:2 "So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with > > > trumpets, as > > > the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be > honored by > > > men. I > > > tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full." > > > > > > Matthew 6:3 "But when you give to the needy, do not let your left > hand > > > know what > > > your right hand is doing,..." > > > > > > ...Bill! > > > > > > How about doing good, and then moving onto other matters without > > > dwelling on > > > thoughts of having done such and such acts of goodness, whatever it > > > is/was? I > > > personally would even go so far as to forget about entirely all that > > > ensuing > > > 'feel good' moment, after having committed whatever act(s) of > goodness > > > > > > > > in peace > > > > Mel > > > ------------------------------------ Current Book Discussion: any Zen book that you recently have read or are reading! Talk about it today!Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Zen_Forum/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Zen_Forum/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: zen_forum-dig...@yahoogroups.com zen_forum-fullfeatu...@yahoogroups.com <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: zen_forum-unsubscr...@yahoogroups.com <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/