Hi Ed, Ah I see, I googled for the wrong word :-)
I think 'kerfuffles between' would be more like it..... Siska -----Original Message----- From: "ED" <seacrofter...@yahoo.com> Sender: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Sun, 26 Dec 2010 17:08:39 To: <Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com> Reply-To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Subject: [Zen] Re: Liberation Hi Siska, Either shenanigans in or kerfuffles between. ;-) --Ed Synonyms for shenanigans: Main Entry: naughtiness Part of Speech: noun Definition: misbehavior Synonyms: acting up, fault, horseplay, immorality, impropriety, incivility, indiscipline, insubordination, mischief, misconduct, misdeed, misdemeanor, misdoing, monkey business, rudeness, shenanigans*, transgression, wrongdoing * = informal/non-formal usage Main Entry: misbehavior Part of Speech: noun Definition: naughty act, conduct Synonyms: acting up, fault, immorality, impropriety, incivility, indiscipline, insubordination, mischief, misconduct, misdeed, misdemeanor, misdoing, monkey business, naughtiness , rudeness, shenanigans*, transgression, wrongdoing Antonyms: behavior, good conduct, manners, obedience * = informal/non-formal usage --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, siska_...@... wrote: > Hi Ed, What is shenanigans in? siska 'Amen!' requires an end. Is there ever an *end* to the shenanigans in the typical human male-female relationship? ;-) --ED Do I hear an 'Amen!'? ...Bill! > Good morning All, > > Viki has been meditating with us for over 10 years now. Through out her > journey, she has learned to give, to give, to give, to serve, to serve > and serve, while her husband, Dr. Tracy Lee with an upbringing of a > Chinese husband, does no house chores whatsoever. Similar to my father > and my grandpa. Viki did not complain. She just fulfilling each moment > as always and more each day. > > Last week, Viki shared with us with joy, that after twenty years of > marriage. Tracy finally took the initiative to cook dinner every day, > after he realized that he is home much earlier than Viki, because she > has more work to do at the office. > > Because of it, I share the lesson that I have learned. From time to > time you may have heard that I spoil my wife bad. I do things most of > the husbands are not willing to do, because they consider it beyond > their duty. The secret of doing more than asking for, actually results > in my own liberation. > > A lot of times, I have to get up in midst of an exciting Laker's game to > wash dishes. I have to swallow my ego to say or to do things my father > would look down upon for not being a man, meaning against my own upbringing. > > The truth that I have learned is that, fulfilling every moment, or do > more as needed, actually liberate myself from all mental construct of > who I am and who I should do, or be, or think. I am capable to do > anything at any time now. Yes, I am free finally. > > "Isn't that so?" I asked Tracy. He smiled and nodded. > > "You practice and witness." my Teacher would say. "Life is in your own > hand. I am just a tour guide." > > JMJM > Head Teacher > Order of Chan > > -- > Be Enlightened In This Life - We ALL Can > http://chanjmjm.blogspot.com <http://chanjmjm.blogspot.com> > http://www.heartchan.org <http://www.heartchan.org>
