--- On Wed, 27/4/11, ED <[email protected]> wrote:
Do blame yourself - provided it makes you less of a pain in the arse to your fellow humans, and you believe that that is a desirable objective to aim for. -------------------------------------- MEL: Not Zen. Opus Dei, maybe... -------------------------------------- On the other hand, even if you are a pain in the arse to your fellow humans, tell them that they are fully responsible for their own feelings, and that rather than whinging they ought to appreciate and seize the opportunities you furnish them with to advance their psychological and emotional growth. ---------------------------------------- MEL: That's just being an ass. It's useless. Better to continue being a pain in the ass and say nothing. Clear the head. Don't waste too much time on words or thinking ------------------------------------- However, if you believe that you live in an interior world of your own that is real, and not in the illusory external world, just say to yourself: 'Mu' when confronted with the situation, and keep on practicing. ---------------------------------------- MEL: Yes..do. The 'mu' business is waste of time
