Dear Sir,
Yesterday evening I went to Semmozhi Poonga at around 5.PM in my bike
with my two children, there not much two wheelers where there I parked
at the very beginning of parking so that I can easily take out and
leave.
Then I went inside the park. My children played, there after for my
younger son I bought one ice cream and for elder son Pao bhaji.
This younger son after eating Ice cream, he took both spoon and empty
box ran from the restaurant and dropped in the litter box well away
from the restaurant, which even not appeared to be a litter box,
almost closed and different shaped box. I have found many empty ice
cream boxes and other litters, were just thrown as it is either on the
table or where ever one can see.
I clapped for this action of my son, and he enjoyed and smiled for my
clap. There after we spent some more time at Park and when I came to
park, I saw there are three rows of two wheelers with no gap. Mine was
first row, I had to move at least 6 or more two wheelers to take out
my bike.
Mean time where I made space, people in two wheeler came and try to
park there. I got very angry. And asked them,” don’t you see how this
first row fellow will take out their two wheelers?” why there is no
thinking? Why there is no social responsibility?
For that one family with two children on bike, both came to argue with
me, “why haven’t you asked so many who were already parked like this?”
I said, ok, they have made mistake, but why can’t you behave sensibly?
For that they got angry, they said both husband and wife,” then you
sit down in a chair and regulate”
The security there was very old man; he was looking at me so helplessly.
Mean time three more two wheelers came to park where I made space for
each one I had to say, “go to last and park, why are you parking like
this, can’t see how the first row fellow will take out?
Then they said, “you should not tell this?” Then I said, we Indians
why have no social responsibility? Why can’t we ourselves behave well
instead of someone to correct us?
By this time, I could remove my vehicle and started the bike. Behind
me one fellow was saying, "India will be like this, if you don’t like,
then leave India" was his answer.
None like to be pointed out of their mistake. Everyone wants
shortcuts. No thinking of future moments.
While I just started moving in bike, I felt severe back pain right at
the mooladhara.
Then I had pay full attention on that point and take deep breath,
somehow I have overcome that pain.
When that pain was over, then I realized that it because of my anger
and emotion, which had travelled from brain to mooladhara and
affected. Then I realized this is the way pregnant women when they are
emotional and anger that converts into bodily pain (vibrations) and
thereby it affects the fetus in womb.
I don’t know why doctors in this forum keeping quiet to discuss these
issues like how emotions affect general health of the body?
When I reached Express Avenue, just at the entrance, my elder son who
was having a bag with two bottles of water in it, he rushed to the
girl who was standing with metal detector.
She was actually looking somewhere, and my son called her
‘Akka(sister) do this’. She was so smiling and touched the bag with
metal detector and when it gave beep sound, he was happy and came. She
looked at me and smiling.
I was wondering these Autism children have more social responsibility
then these so called normal people, leave alone normal children. I am
happy to have such beautiful children. It is not curse, but blessings
of god to have such children.
On Saturday in Adithya channel, I have again watched ‘Guna’,
kamalhasan movie, which I watched in theatre when I was studying in
college. I went to Theatre Rajeswari, Ranipet, on the third day of the
movie. There was only four including me watching that movie.
Now when I watched this movie, I realized Kamal had portrayed an
Autism character. There the heroine states “You are not mad, but me
and all other people of this society are mad”. Kamal says “that is
what even told by Doctor, but no one believes.”
When I see the common Indian have no social responsibility, whereas my
children have, I feel very much proud. No one needs to feel pity on
me. I am proud of having such children.
Best wishes
Suresh
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Thanks and best regards
J.Suresh
New No.3, Old No.7,
Chamiers road - 1st Lane,
Alwarpet,
Chennai - 600018
Ph: 044 42030947
Mobile: 91 9884071738
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