Dear All,
Yesterday I saw a beautiful girl, her name is Abin Nakshtra, she talks so lovely and sweetly. I wanted to have her!... ..as my daughter. She is around 6 years old, when my younger son finished playing glide, then I saw swirling chair getting emptied, I rushed with my younger son to grab a seat for him. (At Chemmozhi Poonga, there used to be always crowd especially on Sundays. So every one rushes to get opportunity for their children) Soon after reaching that swirling Chairs, one family left, but a (this) girl was seating on a chair and I placed my son on the opposite chair. I thought that girl was belonged to that couples just left with another boy. That girl told me ‘uncle swing it fast’. So I started swinging, and noticed that the couples never returned, then realized that this girl does not belong to them. So I asked her what is her name. She said “Abin Nakshtra”. I kept asking for more times to get it properly. Since it looks strange for her, because she does not look like a north Indian, she is a black beauty. (I hope I heard her name correctly, may be it could also be wrong). And asked her where is her mother, she told "after I play I go to my mother, she may be around." Mean time my younger son was uttering ABC, she also started saying ABC, and then I asked her which school she is studying. For that she replied “I don’t go to school, for me every day is Holiday”, then I asked her how did she learn ABC. She said “I learned at my home. I study at my home.” Mean time she said, pointing at my elder son “he can also sit with me, there is enough space for two here, since I don’t go to school, I have lot of time at my home, and I get bored so I come to park every day. So let him also play with me now.” So I told my elder son to sit along with her, my elder son being so fat almost crushing her, but she smilingly accommodating him and even coming forward to give him more space. Then I asked her whether she likes any cine star, since she was humming some song, then she told "I like Surya". Then I asked her have you seen Singam, she said no, then I asked her do you watch TV, she said no.” I always like to play in park” Then I asked where she is from? She is said she is from Thiruvanmiyur. I asked her “isn’t far off from here?”. She said “Yes we come by bus everyday”. So I understood she may be the daughter of a worker in the park. Then I asked her whether she has any brother and sisters. She said “ I am only one”, then she said “No I have one younger brother and one elder sister”. Then I asked them where do they live? She said they live in Kanchepuram. She said “my elder sister is smaller then me but she go to school”, my younger brother is very small. I hug him and play with him. Soon my children got over of swinging in the chair, especially my elder son did not like any more. But she loved to be played in it and also fast. My younger son was so afraid when I swung fast, but she had all smiles. I said bye to her and took my younger son to another individual swing. But I keep watching her from far. She talks like this to all strangers and ask them to swing fast. What a pretty girl, so talkative born to poor parents and have big heart to share!!!. On Saturday I went to Haddows park in Nungambakkam. There my younger son after his usual play in glide, swing chairs, swing etc., saw a very young (3 years)very fair girl playing in sand with sand play equipment. He immediately went and sat next to her and grabbed one spoon and started digging the sand. Looking at this she can’t control her emotions that someone has grabbed her belonging and hence sobbed uncontrollably, her mother try to console her, but nothing doing, I immediately rushed and took away my son from there. She is saying to her mother,” that dirty boy taking my things mom”. See the difference between rich upbringing and poor upbringing. How when people are poor have big heart to share, but (the same poor become) rich have no heart to share. Best wishes Suresh -- Thanks and best regards J.Suresh New No.3, Old No.7, Chamiers road - 1st Lane, Alwarpet, Chennai - 600018 Ph: 044 42030947 Mobile: 91 9884071738
