>I agree my brother is often  cryptic. Even I feel that way. People have different styles of communicating. My brother assumes, >obviously incorrectly, that we know of the many things he does. Unfortunately we don't. And thus it is difficult for us to connect >the dots. But that is NOT his fault :-). Having said that, I would agree that ultimately it is a matter of both COMMUNICATING
>and EDUCATING. But those who are trying to learn, sincerely, cannot do so by either posing challenges only and/or with a >confrontational attitude.
 
A leader is one who not only knows stuff but who has strong conviction about a certain way things need to be done and he can communicate well his conviction to his fellow beings so that others are convinced of his conviction. If a leader assumes that others are supposed to know what he knows, then he is not a leader. (Period). We have many knowledgeable people in Assam and everywhere else in this world who are of no use to the public unless they can communicate their knowledge.
 
Everybody is willing to learn from a leader who has strong convictions. Till others are convinced though, there will be strong confrontations which the would be leader will have to overcome.  Today, we say that Tarun Gogoi or Prafulla Mahanta are not strong leaders simply because they fail on above counts. 
 
Frankly speaking, from what I have seen in the net so far about your brother's communication, he may be a very knowledgeable engineer and a very knowledgable and intelligent above average person, but he seems to be failing miserably as a leader in the following respects:
1) We have not seen his convictions (other than the fact that he supports ULFA like many other Tom, Dick and Harry. People donot have time to listen to Tom, Dick and Harry.)
2) We have not seen any explanation of his convictions so that others are convinced.
 
But Assam so badly need leaders today that I would think that people are in general would be sympathetic to hear any strong voice with conviction 
 
RB
 
 
 
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Sunday, November 13, 2005 1:05 PM
Subject: Re: [Assam] Assam's Ancient Links with Mainland India

Nulu,
Mayur Bora, I think, is a shadow just like Bidyut Kakati. Another impersonation. Do you have any inkling who it could be?
Dilip

Chan Mahanta <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Hi Mayur:


I was looking forward to getting some specific answers to all the questions I asked you about your charges of my  various 'specious' arguments, about the excessive nature of my analyses, about how Indian governance is helping reduce the rifts between the many indigenous people-your primary concern about Assam, how you justify that as a reason AGAINST Assam's sovereignty aspirations, so on and so forth.


Since you failed to answer any of them other than repeat your opinions, will it be fair for us to conclude that those were merely your fancy words and that there was no substance to them, that you don't know why you make those charges and comments and deliver those opinions ? And if you do not agree, will you explain why?


Yes, I will be pleased to explain the disarray in Assam's management and how they are rooted in the dysfunctional  Indian governance. However, that is not to be construed as the people in charge of Assam governance have  no responsibility at all, like some of our friends here assume, as soon as we discuss the Indian governmental roots of the problems, and get all very excited. They too are accountable.

The question however is HOW do you hold them accountable? How do you change things? I presume you too do not like what you see. But what is YOUR plan, and how do you see MORE of the same being better than changes and reforms under a sovereign Assam govt.?

Many of our Markhowa ( Markin Kharkhowa)  peers, with their terribly incomplete understanding of democracy, answer that elections provide the accountability, that hold the governments accountable. Do they? Governments come and governments go? Does anything change? And if nothing changes, why  so?

Before I go any further I want some answers from you. I am not about to submit myself here into your inquisition. If you ask something, because you don't know, and if I know the answer, it will be my pleasure  a share that. But yours is a CHALLENGE, an inquisition. Under the circumstances, I intend to hold YOU to explain your conclusions, charges, and questions as well.

Fair deal?


>Hats off to your capability in
understanding  your brother's posts in the right
>perspective. I don't understand his cryptic repliesmany a time.

*** Thanks. But it seems like something salutary only to those who are not anywhere near having any understanding of the issues involved.

I agree my brother is often  cryptic. Even I feel that way. People have different styles of communicating. My brother assumes, obviously incorrectly, that we know of the many things he does. Unfortunately we don't. And thus it is difficult for us to connect the dots. But that is NOT his fault :-). Having said that, I would agree that ultimately it is a matter of both COMMUNICATING
and EDUCATING. But those who are trying to learn, sincerely, cannot do so by either posing challenges only and/or with a confrontational attitude.

Challenges are meaningless, unless the challenger also could explain what they defend.


cm








At 10:57 PM -0800 11/12/05, mayur bora wrote:
Dear Mahanta da

Sorry for being late in my reply. I think it is better
to accept the fact that we disagree on almost all the
points about Assam's aspirations for independence. I
went through your detailed response carefully before
coming to the conclusion that your logic failed to
convince me about its utility and applicability in the
forseeable future. We are better off within India than
outside it.

I am in fact eager to see how you would like to
attribute the absolutelty unprofessional conduct of
assam policemen to GoI (as per The Sentinel news).
This is more or less reflected in all the state govt
departments. How do you envisage a very rosy picture
in sovereign assam with the same kind of people 'with
complete overhaul of the system' remains an enigma to
me? Of course it may be due to my 'low inferential
capabilities'. Hats off to your capability in
understanding  your brother's posts in the right
perspective. I don't understand his cryptic replies
many a time.

A comprehensive blueprint encompassing economic,
social, political and administrative issues in
sovereign Assam is the first and foremost need for a
meaningful and wider debate on the pros and cons of it
before trying to mislead people with  theoritical
rebuttal. I would consider myself fortunate if you or
anyone of that school of thought can share their
wisdom about any workable and practical plan on any
one aspect (say administrative)in independent assam
which will  be much better, responsive and accountable
than the present one. But it should not be a vague
picture depicted till now in a highly polemical debate
on the issue.

I hope in the larger interest of many netters, you
will not disappoint us and share a portion (if not the
full) of your proposed blueprint.

Bye for now.

Mayur
 
--- Chan Mahanta <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Hi Mayur:
>
>
> At 2:52 AM -0800 11/9/05, mayur bora wrote:
> >Dear Mahanta da
> >
> >Here is my response to the points you raised.
> >
> >1) The total absence of a feeling of bonhomie and
> >camaraderie among different people  will completely
> >vitiate the atmosphere and mutual distrust and
> >acrimony will reach its zenith in sovereign Assam.
> You
> >can't put the blame solely on GoI for that.
>
>
> *** But what about your original contention that it
> IS, now that is,
> is Assam's biggest 'weakness'?  How has it gotten to
> where it is now,
> as you see it? Under whose control and under the
> nurturing policies
> crafted by whom?
>
> I was hoping to give you some help by asking you the
> question on the
> concept of 'meles' ( mlecch) , but you did avoid it
> like the plague,
> didn't you ? I understand however why you would not
> touch it.
>
> GoI, incidentally, has  EXPLOITED the growing rifts,
> that developed
> only after the colonial powers, first the British,
> and the
> subsequent, far more corrosive Indian practices took
> over.
>
> *** I will like to ask you, how, as an intelligent
> and informed
> observer, you see the GoI policies helping the cause
> of preserving
> the ethnic identities of these indigenous people of
> the region? The
> Indian govt. created the many  states, actually
> 'dependencies', of
> the NE, by simple majority votes of a Lok Sabha of
> 500 where the NE's
> representation is what, less than 20 , instead of
> promoting the
> co-operative, interdependent ethos that sustained
> them in the
> centuries past.  These states, with no means to
> sustain themselves,
> are now abject dependencies of a Center, showering
> them with its
> largesse, creating an illusion they are doing well,
> but really
> killing their culture with a Hindi/Hindu one,
> political invasion,
> perpetuated with military might.
>
> Is that not the bitter truth Mayur? And you accept
> if not sing
> praises of such policies, playing defenders of your
> indigenous
> brethrens'  culture?
>
> The only reason I would not call your intent to
> question here, is
> because you are,I am sure, just like so many of your
> peers, ignorant
> of the realities. I too was so, until recently.
> Fortunately I read
> Prof. Sanjib Baruah's book -- Durable Disorder, in
> which he makes
> some of these issues very clear. If you are really
> interested in
> understanding what has been going on, you cannot not
> read the
> book.
>
>
>
>
> >2) Let me accept for arguments sake that I am being
> >obsequious to some system or culture.
>
>
> *** I don't understand what you are trying to say.
> Perhaps a simpler
> way of expressing yourself would be more helpful for
> those of us to
> whom English is only a second language :-). But if
> you are suggesting
> that a Hindu culture was indeed instrumental, thru
> the concept of
> 'meles', in causing the cultural alienation of the
> indigenous people
> of the NE, why can't you admit it?
>
> Why do you qualify it as merely agreeing for
> argument's sake?
>
> Are you trying to have it both ways?
>
>
>
>
>
> >But you have
> >already surrendered yourself to a pernicious belief
> >whose impact will be disastrous for the people for
> >whom you are acting as spokesman.
>
> *** I am a spokesperson ONLY of myself. I am not a
> designated
> representative or spokesperson of anybody. But that
> is not to suggest
> others don't agree with me. Because if it were so,
> those of you who
> disagree, would not be so wrapped up with denouncing
> my arguments
> with fancy words, but without ever being able to
> explain why or how.
> It is because you see my arguments making sense and
> damaging to your
> cause.
>
> Now what exactly do you see as MY pernicious beliefs
> that will be  destructive
> for those whose views I might be reflecting? And HOW
> will they be destructive?
>
> I hope you can delineate those, so we can examine
> the substance of
> your opinions.
>
>
>
>
> >  Worse, you have also
> >surrendered yourself to sophistry and casuistry in
> >order to defend your specious arguments.
>
> *** Huh? Are you dropping philosophy on me again
> here Mayur? I told
> you I am philosophically challenged. Your effort is
> akin to" gorur
> aagot twakar bai-xing jwkari ghanh khai". It means
> nothing to me, and
> I doubt to anybody else.
>
> But it will be a different issue with my 'specious'
> arguments. What
> are the arguments that I have been making that are
> specious ( appear
> sound but are fallacious--for those who are not sure
> what the word
> means)? My observations of a decade of Assam Net
> debates has been
> that no one gives me an inch, if they can find
> something incorrect,
> fallacious, or otherwise untenable. My esteemed
> opponents here
> descend on me like a crow over a June bug--as they
> would say here in
> the American heartland. The only reason they don't
> give examples or
> explain is  because they can't.
>
> You got your challenge for the day Mayur. Prove it.
> Explain it. And
> when you do, I will be the first to take it back,
> eat crow. But fancy
> words will not take your arguments anywhere.
>
>
>
> >My servitude
> >is not harmful for others, but yours can spell
> havoc
> >in peoples' lives. Of course you will not be
> affected.
> >You will probably be busy dishing out justification
> >from your armchair for any mishap which is bound to
> >happen.
>
>
> *** On the contrary servitude of people like
> yourself, who less
> fortunate people look up to, is eminently harmful to
> their long term
> well-being. It prevents them from examining what
> ails their
> collective lot, keeps them from seeking  better
> ways, seeking the
> reforms to their governance they so sorely need.
>
> The fact that I am furnishing explanations,
> clarifying issues from
>
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