Pemalu nggak pha pha pak.. Bukannya malah lbh puyenk klo anaknya kelewat aktif kelayapan ke sana kemari ? Namanya anak apalagi batita suka merasa "insecure" klo dikelilingi orang orang yg tidak dikenal... Asal nggak sampe taraf yg nangis ketakutan klo disapa :-) .. Anak saya juga klo dikelilingi orang2 "wajah baru" cenderung terus merapat ke ortunya , bahkan si sulung yg udh 10 tahun umurnya, dan saya rasa itu udh sifat/karakter apalagi ayah mereka cenderung jg pasif klo lg acara rame2an walo among friends and big family.. Makanya saya jadi penetralisir, agak meriah dikit :-).. Tp klo saya sendirian tanpa anak dan suami , ada di antara orang2 baru juga lbh cenderung pasif dan lbh merasa nyaman klo diam saja.. Caranya mgkn kudu sering2 aja diajak ke keramaian.. Klo dia terbiasa dgn situasi demikian mungkin bisa mengurangi "murungkut"nya itu tadi.. Yg jelas jgn di"cela" di depan orang2 asing ntar tambah nggak nyaman Naufalnya en buntutnya makin bete klo diajak ke kondangan... Siap2 buat lebaran ya pak, bakal dikerumunin sanak keluarga sambil dicubit2in pipinya ma orang yg nggak dikenal.. Klo naufal nyembunyiin muka, kasih dukungan aja dgn ngusap2 punggungnya sambil ngenalin ke si penyapa.. Jgn malah diledekin :-)..apalagi mpe diomelin.. It won't work...trus klo lagi banyak yg ngajak bapak ibu rumpi, jgn lupa sesekali Naufal diajak ngomong spy nggak merasa tersisih dan makin ngumpet, jadi walo mulut sibuk ha ha hihi, anak tetep dibelai belai (dalam gendongan ato dipangku).. Semoga membantu Emaknya Rifqi en Aisha
Sent from my AXIS Worry Free BlackBerry® smartphone -----Original Message----- From: "Bullah, Has" <has.bul...@sanmina-sci.com> Date: Fri, 28 Aug 2009 16:50:19 To: <balita-anda@balita-anda.com> Subject: [balita-anda] Biar Anak Gak Pemalu Ibu ibu bapak bapak minta masukannya mengatasi anak yang sedikit pemalu di keramaian, Naufal (1 tahun 9 bulan) kalo diajak ke acara2 yang banyak orang yang gak dikenal pasti maunya digendong terus gak mau duduk atau jalan sendiri, murungkut kayak udang sambil nyembunyiin muka padahal kalo di playgroup atau udah kenal orang2nya walopun banyak tetap aktif malah suka cari perhatian makasih atas sarannya hasbullah CONFIDENTIALITY This e-mail message and any attachments thereto, is intended only for use by the addressee(s) named herein and may contain legally privileged and/or confidential information. If you are not the intended recipient of this e-mail message, you are hereby notified that any dissemination, distribution or copying of this e-mail message, and any attachments thereto, is strictly prohibited. If you have received this e-mail message in error, please immediately notify the sender and permanently delete the original and any copies of this email and any prints thereof. ABSENT AN EXPRESS STATEMENT TO THE CONTRARY HEREINABOVE, THIS E-MAIL IS NOT INTENDED AS A SUBSTITUTE FOR A WRITING. Notwithstanding the Uniform Electronic Transactions Act or the applicability of any other law of similar substance and effect, absent an express statement to the contrary hereinabove, this e-mail message its contents, and any attachments hereto are not intended to represent an offer or acceptance to enter into a contract and are not otherwise intended to bind the sender, Sanmina-SCI Corporation (or any of its subsidiaries), or any other person or entity.
