It has been one month since we lost our boy, Oberon, and I am still having a very hard time. Forgive me, but I don't want to talk to anyone about the loss of a cat or any other kind of dog. Please e-mail me privately if you want to talk about your own experience with the loss of a Berner. I don't want to drag this wonderful group down, but I do need some help. Many thanks for being here. Ann Lee Fuller [EMAIL PROTECTED]