What is this, a Drama Queen Convention?
One poster drops out for a while, and others feel the need to make up "stories" about it. Meanwhile, those of us who have known her longest are paying the same attention to her absence that we did to anything she posted -- none, whatsoever. If she were here I wouldn't be thinking about her, so why should I spend any time thinking about her when she isn't? The only relevant question about this short break, if that is what it is, is What Comes Next. If she returns, only to drop into the same patterns and habits within a few days, then the entire exercise will have been for naught. "Taking a break," only to return as the exact same person with the exact same patterns, is in my book pretty much the ultimate waste of time and energy. ________________________________ From: "jr_...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]" <FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, August 7, 2014 4:51 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Judy Ann and everyone I just did a prasna about Judy's status. The chart shows that Judy might have gotten in an accident, either in her car or a house fire. She may have injured her lungs or knees in the process. The accident is serious and may still be in the hospital. Somebody should followup in the hospitals near Judy's home to see about her condition. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <awoelflebater@...> wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> wrote : I only just saw this, Seventh. I fear that something bad may have happened, because I don't recall Judy ever going silent for so long. But I have no way of finding out what is going on with her. Like many posters here, I had some rough exchanges with Judy, but there were some pleasant ones too, and I miss her. The fact that she has not replied to private emails from me or Ann is not good news at all. Perhaps we will never know. Worry not. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <steve.sundur@...> wrote : I always said to her, as a public comment, that she shared very little of her personal life, for someone who was such a prolific poster. She always said that I was mistaken. I guess I was right. How does someone like that, as you say, just disappear, without some comment about it? ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> wrote : It's been about 6 weeks since Judy posted. She once said, quite recently, that posting here was her "hobby." She has been doing it here since, what, 2005? Then she suddenly disappears. I emailed her but did not get a reply. Usually people do not suddenly give up their long-standing hobbies unless they are in some adverse circumstances, such as bad health or worse. Does anyone know anything? I think it rather sad that someone could be such a presence on this board for so long and then vanish, and for it to produce such little comment.
