Dear Karen, Your instincts were right; sadly, we pay these people huge sums of money for their knowledge and expertise and find out the have no f-ing common sense.
It is really hard to express a bladder; I had to learn to do it for Luna and I can't tell you the number of times I just got too scared I was going to hurt her and headed for the vet. Guess what? I would certainly trust the techs at my vet to do it; they are all very experienced, but they DON'T do it because it can have serious consequences. My VETS do it. And, if the bladder is too full and manually expressing is too risky, they put in a catheter. This is just standard stuff. I am so furious and heartbroken; I can't imagine what you are feeling. Give yourself some space and rethink what you want to do; I know it's unbelievably painful and it might be easier to put it behind you, but I know you're a fighter and if you can do it, go after this practice. What happened to Ashes should never happen to another animal. Take care, Julie ===== "I hold that, the more helpless a creature, the more entitled it is to protection by man from the cruelty of man. " "The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated." Mohandas Gandhi (1869-1948) __________________________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! Mail Plus – Powerful. Affordable. Sign up now. http://mailplus.yahoo.com