##debian-offtopic (was: Debian's Freenode IRC channels)

2008-02-16 Thread martin f krafft
also sprach Michael Banck [EMAIL PROTECTED] [2008.01.13.0842 +1100]:
 It has been decided to rename the current #debian-offtopic channel
 to ##debian-offtopic and keep #debian-offtopic around for people
 being off-topic in #debian to be directed there.

Is the newcomer aware of the meaning of ##, given that s/he does not
(even) know that freenode is not Debian's official IRC network?

(sorry for the late reply to this thread)

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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-13 Thread Melissa Draper

Greetings,

First and foremost, I want to apologise for the tone of my original 
post, and how it came across. It was rather uncharacteristic of me but I 
should have known better than to write such a post on 3hrs sleep in the 
middle of a heatwave.


However, I am not apologetic for raising the issue, and wholeheartedly 
thank Jordi and Michael for appreciating my point of view.


Jordi Gutiérrez Hermoso wrote:

Ronin, please remain calm and respectful. Melissa had at least one
perfectly valid point, and perhaps others. Her valid point is that
there is a channel that by its own admission is a pigsty, and it's
using the Debian name in a popular IRC network. Channel moved, we get
to keep our pigsty, and newcomers don't immediately find a hostile
channel with Debian's name in it. I for one am happy that the pigsty
remains, because sometimes I like to wallow around in mud just as much
as you do.

Problem solved all around.


I would like to point out that after I was directed to the channel, I 
was never informed that it was a intentionally pigsty channel. The 
nearest I got was to be called an advocacy troll for inquiring why the 
channel was set +s. Regardless, I would have been equally disappointed 
and embarrassed that such a channel was preventably under the name of an 
otherwise respectable FOSS project.



On 12/01/2008, Pebcak [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Nice use of misquoting and taking things out of context there Melissa.


She quoted some channel logs with context, and the ones with fewer
context were grepped. Maybe she should have used -C in her grep, but
the grepped logs do show an overwhelming amount of sexual content
whenever women were mentioned. I think that was context enough to
attempt to make a point, with which you may agree or not.


I suggest you slither over to Efnets #debian.




Freenode however is a widely respected representative community for 
FOSS. Anyone would be hard pressed to convince me that Efnet was a 
respected anything.


One other thing I want to comment on is this notion (because it is a pet 
peeve):



Tore Sinding Bekkedal wrote:

Hell, #debian-offtopic was started by a woman, and the tone was set by a
crowd with a healthy proportion of women.


That does not in any way make the content of that channel.

If this were the case, there would be situations such as parents 
everywhere submitting to their children's peers behaviour because the 
other child's parent's recklessly allow it (think: But Daaddeee, 
$name's parents let them!), or (mandatory automotive example) everyone 
driving at insane speeds because emergency services and professional 
drivers do.


Once again, I am sorry for how I came across.

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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Vid Ayer
On Jan 12, 2008 12:34 PM, Melissa Draper [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 As part of my NY Resolutions, I decided it was time to get more involved
 in Debian, which involves hanging out in Debian channels more. Apart
 from rejoining the OFTC Debian channels, I also joined the Freenode ones
 since they are still the more populous. The channels I joined included
 #debian-offtopic - a 'secret' channel which they freely redirect
 offtopic conversation to if they are asked for an offtopic channel.

Its better to stick to the debian servers. Freenode is well freenode.
Even Linuxchix had a similar problem years ago, its practically not
possible to stop folks from creating channels. At best educate people
where the correct resources lie, in this case : redirect folks to the
debian servers.

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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Adeodato Simó
* Melissa Draper [Sat, 12 Jan 2008 18:04:16 +1100]:

 because D-W have had more success with the overall Debian community.

Hum ho. I've always thought that this success referred, mostly, to
*inside* the developer/collaborator community, and I *think* it was the
(at least) initial aim for DW. I can't talk about #debian on OFTC since
I'm not there, but I think it'd be pretty much impossible to attain the
same in a place full of people who, purposedly, flee out from the official
channels.

My opinion anyway, and I'm sorry for your bad experience.

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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Miriam Ruiz
2008/1/12, Melissa Draper [EMAIL PROTECTED]:

 As an active Ubuntu-Women member, I've many times been told to come to
 Debian and the Debian-Women project whenever someone in Ubuntu slips up,
 because D-W have had more success with the overall Debian community.
 Quite frankly, I'm at a loss for what to think, because I'm not really
 seeing it :(

None of the nicks named there ring a bell for me, who are they? Most
probaby they're not involved with Debian development at all, are they?

The DW project has really changed a lot of things _inside_ Debian, but
if you hang around users comunities or users who have nothing at all
to do with the project but using it, it might not be that way. It
depends on whatever channel or bulletin board you are going to. I
guess it could be impossible to handle users in any way.

DW is about Women in Debian development, it has never been about
Debian users. I don't get in touch too much with Debian users myself
apart from the BTS and some mail reports about my packages anyway, so
I cannot say anything about them. I know some Debian related channels
that are very women-friendly, and some others that are totally
hostile, as well as I know them about Linux in general. If a nodody
user is hostile against us, well, that's something that cannot be
controlled, is there any way you're trying to cope with that in
Ubuntu? I mean, have you had any improvements in controlling the
non-official communities of users?

On the development part, I can tell you that all the Development teams
inside Debian, and most of DDs I get in touch with, are very
supportive of us.

Kisses,
Miry


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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Steve Langasek
Hi Melissa,

On Sat, Jan 12, 2008 at 08:18:48PM +1100, Melissa Draper wrote:
 Vid Ayer wrote:
 On Jan 12, 2008 12:34 PM, Melissa Draper [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 As part of my NY Resolutions, I decided it was time to get more involved
 in Debian, which involves hanging out in Debian channels more. Apart
 from rejoining the OFTC Debian channels, I also joined the Freenode ones
 since they are still the more populous. The channels I joined included
 #debian-offtopic - a 'secret' channel which they freely redirect
 offtopic conversation to if they are asked for an offtopic channel.

 Its better to stick to the debian servers. Freenode is well freenode.
 Even Linuxchix had a similar problem years ago, its practically not
 possible to stop folks from creating channels. At best educate people
 where the correct resources lie, in this case : redirect folks to the
 debian servers.

 The Debian community extends beyond OFTC and is in fact 2.5x larger on 
 Freenode than OFTC.

I really wonder what kind of an answer you're looking to get from anyone
about this.

irc.debian.org points to OFTC.

All of the Debian development channels are on OFTC.

Debian as a whole has effectively zero oversight on the #debian-* channels
on freenode.

Debian is a free OS, which means anyone is allowed to use it, including
jerks of all shapes and sizes.

So I don't know what you would expect Debian to do about this.  Surely no
one promised you that there are no Debian-using jerks on IRC?  For that
matter, I can't imagine anyone making assurances about [EMAIL PROTECTED], let
alone #debian-offtopic.  Maybe the freenode channel has more people in it,
but er, evidently this is a case where more != better; and I don't know
about anyone else, but speaking for myself I don't feel any great need to
either rise to the defense of Debian users on an IRC channel I don't
frequent, or attempt to enforce behavior standards on an IRC network that
isn't affiliated with Debian.

I mean, I'm sorry that you had a bad experience, but whoever the people on
those channels are, by and large they're not /my/ Debian community

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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Melissa Draper

Steve Langasek wrote:
 Hi Melissa,

 On Sat, Jan 12, 2008 at 08:18:48PM +1100, Melissa Draper wrote:
 Vid Ayer wrote:
 On Jan 12, 2008 12:34 PM, Melissa Draper [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 As part of my NY Resolutions, I decided it was time to get more 
involved

 in Debian, which involves hanging out in Debian channels more. Apart
 from rejoining the OFTC Debian channels, I also joined the 
Freenode ones

 since they are still the more populous. The channels I joined included
 #debian-offtopic - a 'secret' channel which they freely redirect
 offtopic conversation to if they are asked for an offtopic channel.

 Its better to stick to the debian servers. Freenode is well freenode.
 Even Linuxchix had a similar problem years ago, its practically not
 possible to stop folks from creating channels. At best educate people
 where the correct resources lie, in this case : redirect folks to the
 debian servers.

 The Debian community extends beyond OFTC and is in fact 2.5x larger on
 Freenode than OFTC.

 I really wonder what kind of an answer you're looking to get from anyone
 about this.

Something more positive and less dismissive, that's for sure.

 irc.debian.org points to OFTC.

 All of the Debian development channels are on OFTC.

 Debian as a whole has effectively zero oversight on the #debian-* 
channels

 on freenode.

I object to this. Debian as a whole includes the ordinary users, 
whichever IRC network they prefer. I am not a developer, packager, 
documenter or anything of the sort. 99% of my FOSS work is done directly 
at the user level.


 Debian is a free OS, which means anyone is allowed to use it, including
 jerks of all shapes and sizes.

 So I don't know what you would expect Debian to do about this.  Surely no
 one promised you that there are no Debian-using jerks on IRC?

I don't recall claiming that I was promised that there were no jerks. I 
was not promised anything to that degree. It was merely indicated to me 
often that Debian-Women had achieved what Ubuntu-Women had not. To me, 
Ubuntu-Women has achieved a far further reach than the inner circles.


 For that
 matter, I can't imagine anyone making assurances about 
[EMAIL PROTECTED], let
 alone #debian-offtopic.  Maybe the freenode channel has more people 
in it,

 but er, evidently this is a case where more != better; and I don't know
 about anyone else, but speaking for myself I don't feel any great need to
 either rise to the defense of Debian users on an IRC channel I don't
 frequent, or attempt to enforce behavior standards on an IRC network that
 isn't affiliated with Debian.

I was not asking anyone to defend their sexist behaviour. I was merely 
noting an observation about it, from the POV of a relative newcomer to 
the community.


 I mean, I'm sorry that you had a bad experience, but whoever the 
people on

 those channels are, by and large they're not /my/ Debian community


Sorry, but the parts of the Debian community you don't care about, do 
reflect on /your/ Debian community.


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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Christian Perrier
Quoting Melissa Draper ([EMAIL PROTECTED]):

 One must be a developer or packager to be entitled to feel comfortable?  

Certainly not. However, as many already explained, d-w never focused
on the user community. I understand that can sound as disappointing ot
you and, frankly, I'd also really like to see the user community
evolve the way the developers and contributors community did.

I'm not entirely convinced that projects such as d-w or ubunto-w can
really change things in very wide communities. As many already said,
we probably have to accept that the jerk ratio in user communities
will never be close to zero (in that matter, I very seriously doubt
that things are better or worse in Ubuntu users communities compared
to Debian users).

That does not prevent anyone to try, indeed. In that matter, d-w is
probably not different from any other floss-related projects: things
that are done are those for which at least one person is motivated to
work on them.




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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Michael Banck
On Sat, Jan 12, 2008 at 06:04:16PM +1100, Melissa Draper wrote:
 I'm primarily an Ubuntu user, but I've run Debian in various places on my 
 home network for over a year, and what is currently my home server has been 
 exclusively Debian for about a year now.

 As part of my NY Resolutions, I decided it was time to get more involved in 
 Debian, which involves hanging out in Debian channels more. 

Note that #debian is a support channel, not a community or development
channel.

 Apart from rejoining the OFTC Debian channels, I also joined the
 Freenode ones 
 since they are still the more populous. The channels I joined included
 #debian-offtopic - a 'secret' channel which they freely redirect
 offtopic conversation to if they are asked for an offtopic channel.

 I am starting to wish I had not.

 Aside from the channels in general being more hostile which I knew to 
 expect, I find a complete disregard for decency towards women. From just a 
 week in #debian on freenode, greps for 'girl' and 'women have some really 
 degrading comments: http://pastebin.ca/LfFsZYkV (encrypted post, password: 
 debian)

 I've only been in the offtopic channel since the 8th, but already I have 
 collected: http://pastebin.ca/RiF2KwdQ (encrypted post, password: offtopic)

So I'm hanging around #debian-offtopic without really monitoring the
channel much, but I can immediately see how it might not be a very nice
channel.

I am mostly in there because we tell people who are constantly off-topic
in #debian to go there, and it makes for a bit more authority if you're
idling in a chan you tell people to use.

The above problem involves quite some historics and this is my personal
take on it, others might disagree slightly or completely: Some years ago
some (if not a lot) of the people in #debian-offtopic used to talk sort
of like that in #debian, giving #debian quite a bad reputation.  Over
time we managed to keep these kinds of conversations (general off-topic
blabber, talking about drug abuse, being denigrating to women or gay
people, etc.) out of the channel by either warning, ban/kicking the
offenders or (in the general off-topic case) telling them to go to
#debian-offtopic. So while #debian slowly became a nicer and more useful
place, #debian-offtopic became the opposite.  In a way, it's a place
were the regulars can vent of steam if they are too frustrated with
doing support in #debian.  If we'd close down #debian-offtopic or
otherwise regulate it, we'd have to find them another chan probably.

I agree that this is a problem, but personally, I am not willing to
spend more of my Debian time to tame #debian-offtopic as well, a huge
chunk of the time I invest for Debian goes into having #debian on both
networks be sensible.

One solution would be to officially declare that #debian is the only
official Debian channel on irc.freenode.net.

 The bottom 3 lines in the offtopic pastebin are pertaining to a 
 conversation I tried to have just before (http://pastebin.ca/BewJbhLq 
 encrypted, password: convo), after seeing

 simonrvn @be $1 barbie is replyW! $1 is too HARD! let's go shopping!
 ravenbird simonrvn: okay
 simonrvn w00t
 simonrvn @be ssh barbie
 ravenbird W! ssh is too HARD! let's go shopping!

Ok, this is an issue with the original #debian bot as well, which should
probably by removed.

 As an active Ubuntu-Women member, I've many times been told to come to 
 Debian and the Debian-Women project whenever someone in Ubuntu slips up, 
 because D-W have had more success with the overall Debian community. Quite 
 frankly, I'm at a loss for what to think, because I'm not really seeing it 
 :(

See above for a potential solution.  Not sure what this would mean for
all the local non-english language channels still on irc.freenode.net
though, we did not really yet put any QA into them (but we hear about
trouble from time to time).  Well, that's a more general question
anyway.


sorry for your experience,

Michael


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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Erinn Clark
* Michael Banck [EMAIL PROTECTED] [2008:01:12 12:15 +0100]: 
 On Sat, Jan 12, 2008 at 02:08:16AM -0800, Erinn Clark wrote:
  Anyway, time passed, we changed our official servers, and a lot of users
  did not follow from freenode. 
 
 Well, it should be said that also most of the operators decided to care
 for both channels or stay on freenode.

Yeah, I knew a lot of the ops stuck around on freenode. I always
wondered what kind of coverage it got. (Just to be clear, I don't expect
you to stick around and monitor all of these channels all the time!)

  So that's the history, but since you're concerned with the present and
  future... I don't know what to tell you. As Vid says, anyone can create
  channels for anything there -- they are not officially sanctioned in any
  way, they are not officially supported, and very few official Debian
  types hang around there. 
 
 Well, out of the 40 people on #debian-offtopic, around 10% are DDs, and
 another 10-20% are known members of the Debian community.  So maybe the
 problem is that having those people around there gives the channel some
 sort of credibility it should not have (given that most of those people
 in there just idle).

Huh, I didn't know that. I agree that their presence is possibly giving
it some credibility (or at least makes it difficult/impossible for us to
wash our hands of the situation and declare no relation to it). So
what's up? Are any other #d-o patrons? Why y'all misbehavin'?

Michael, do you think we need more (new) ops on freenode? It's been a
while since we appointed new people... 

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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Michael Banck
On Sat, Jan 12, 2008 at 03:34:40AM -0800, Erinn Clark wrote:
 * Michael Banck [EMAIL PROTECTED] [2008:01:12 12:15 +0100]: 
  On Sat, Jan 12, 2008 at 02:08:16AM -0800, Erinn Clark wrote:
   Anyway, time passed, we changed our official servers, and a lot of users
   did not follow from freenode. 
  
  Well, it should be said that also most of the operators decided to care
  for both channels or stay on freenode.
 
 Yeah, I knew a lot of the ops stuck around on freenode. I always
 wondered what kind of coverage it got. (Just to be clear, I don't expect
 you to stick around and monitor all of these channels all the time!)

I think #debian on freenode is doing just fine.  Usually, when I'm
remotely monitoring IRC and see somebody called the !ops factoid in
#debian, the abuse would've been klined already by one of the staffers
who hang around there.

   So that's the history, but since you're concerned with the present and
   future... I don't know what to tell you. As Vid says, anyone can create
   channels for anything there -- they are not officially sanctioned in any
   way, they are not officially supported, and very few official Debian
   types hang around there. 
  
  Well, out of the 40 people on #debian-offtopic, around 10% are DDs, and
  another 10-20% are known members of the Debian community.  So maybe the
  problem is that having those people around there gives the channel some
  sort of credibility it should not have (given that most of those people
  in there just idle).
 
 Huh, I didn't know that. I agree that their presence is possibly giving
 it some credibility (or at least makes it difficult/impossible for us to
 wash our hands of the situation and declare no relation to it). So
 what's up? Are any other #d-o patrons? Why y'all misbehavin'?

Well, there are Debian people, #debian regulars, former #debian regulars
and other people in #debian-offtopic.  As I said before, I don't really
follow the channel, so I cannot say a lot, but I think most of the
misbehaving is from some of the former or current #debian regulars or
recent additions.

 Michael, do you think we need more (new) ops on freenode? It's been a
 while since we appointed new people... 

As I said above, I think #debian on freenode is fine currently.  If
somebody wants to tame #debian-offtopic we could support them, but it
might be neither easy nor worth it.


Michael


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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Margarita Manterola
On Jan 12, 2008 8:36 AM, Melissa Draper [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I don't recall claiming that I was promised that there were no jerks. I
 was not promised anything to that degree. It was merely indicated to me
 often that Debian-Women had achieved what Ubuntu-Women had not. To me,
 Ubuntu-Women has achieved a far further reach than the inner circles.

Before Debian-Women started, there were only 3 female DDs and the
atmosphere at #debian-devel and at the debian-devel mailing list was
not friendly towards women.

After a few years of Debian-Women we have about 10 female DDs, and
others in the making, and the atmosphere at most developers places is
welcoming towards females.  These results are what we have achieved.
We changed Debian (well, at least, I feel we did).

You might feel that this is not much compared to Ubuntu-Women (I have
no idea what Ubuntu-Women has achieved, can you tell us?), but I feel
that since many UD are DDs, the influence of Debian-Women on the
DDs/UDs has allowed Ubuntu-Women to focus on other areas, since the
developing areas had already been fixed by Debian-Women.

Also the inner circles as you call it, involve quite a lot of
people.  It might not reach towards the full user community, nobody
denies that, but I really feel that Debian-Women has made a big change
in the whole Debian Developer community, not only in an elite
circle, but in all people related to development.

As was already stated, we don't oppose to making this effort broader,
and reaching user communities as well, but for doing that, we would
have to have a lot of time and put a lot of effort into it, which we
currently don't have, and it was never one of our priority aims.

If it's your priority, you have the time and the will to do it, then
you are more than welcome to do it.  But I don't think it's fair to
come here demanding that we should do something that we never claimed
we would do.

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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Vid Ayer
On Jan 12, 2008 8:25 PM, Margarita Manterola [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 After a few years of Debian-Women we have about 10 female DDs, and
 others in the making, and the atmosphere at most developers places is
 welcoming towards females.  These results are what we have achieved.
 We changed Debian (well, at least, I feel we did).

Yes, DW did it and that was my motivation for founding UW all along.

 compared to Ubuntu-Women (I have
 no idea what Ubuntu-Women has achieved, can you tell us?), but I feel

Technically speaking, no DD-like situation, but that i feel is a
distant dream when there is still confusion[0] about about what UW is
about. If I sound disappointed, well i am :(

[0] https://lists.ubuntu.com/archives/ubuntu-women/2008-January/001242.html


 that since many UD are DDs, the influence of Debian-Women on the
 DDs/UDs has allowed Ubuntu-Women to focus on other areas, since the
 developing areas had already been fixed by Debian-Women.

True, is not something one can specifically point at but DW influence
is there. Also the Ubuntu CoC plays a huge role in Ubuntu, which
Debian does not have, but each to its own.


 As was already stated, we don't oppose to making this effort broader,
 and reaching user communities as well, but for doing that, we would
 have to have a lot of time and put a lot of effort into it, which we
 currently don't have, and it was never one of our priority aims.

 If it's your priority, you have the time and the will to do it, then
 you are more than welcome to do it.  But I don't think it's fair to
 come here demanding that we should do something that we never claimed
 we would do.


right, I guess that is true for any situation, not just Debian.

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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Tore Sinding Bekkedal
(It seems I have to be subscribed for my message to reach the lists.
Having subscribed, I'm resending. If it is not the case, apologees for
the duplicate posting.)

On Jan 12, 2008 12:34 PM, Melissa Draper [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 simonrvn @be $1 barbie is replyW! $1 is too HARD! let's go shopping!
 ravenbird simonrvn: okay
 simonrvn w00t
 simonrvn @be ssh barbie
 ravenbird W! ssh is too HARD! let's go shopping!

Are you equating making fun of Barbie with making fun of women in
general? Now *I'm* offended. I should think that most people in
debian-women would be among the people most eager to make fun of Barbie!

Your logs are also in my (and also others') opinion misleadingly edited.
http://www.pastebin.ca/852059 contain the full logs of the channel for
that period.

Hell, #debian-offtopic was started by a woman, and the tone was set by a
crowd with a healthy proportion of women. Calling the channel sexist
or accusing us of degrading women simply doesn't have any base in
reality, *whatsoever*. 

One might say we reject decency equally - man, or women. :)

Melissa Draper has demonstrated no interest in making the channel more
woman-friendly (it has got one of the highest female populations of any
distro-related channel) - it seems to me that she is only interested in
making the channel meet her own personal morality criteria.

Regards,
-Tore :)
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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Tore Sinding Bekkedal
On Jan 12, 2008 12:34 PM, Melissa Draper [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 simonrvn @be $1 barbie is replyW! $1 is too HARD! let's go shopping!
 ravenbird simonrvn: okay
 simonrvn w00t
 simonrvn @be ssh barbie
 ravenbird W! ssh is too HARD! let's go shopping!

Are you equating making fun of Barbie with making fun of women in
general? Now *I'm* offended. I should think that most people in
debian-women would be among the people most eager to make fun of Barbie!

Your logs are also in my (and also others') opinion misleadingly edited.
http://www.pastebin.ca/852059 contain the full logs of the channel for
that period.

Hell, #debian-offtopic was started by a woman, and the tone was set by a
crowd with a healthy proportion of women. Calling the channel sexist
or accusing us of degrading women simply doesn't have any base in
reality, *whatsoever*. 

One might say we reject decency equally - man, or women. :)

Melissa Draper has demonstrated no interest in making the channel more
woman-friendly (it has got one of the highest female populations of any
distro-related channel) - it seems to me that she is only interested in
making the channel meet her own personal morality criteria.

-Tore
AKA toresbe


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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Margarita Manterola
On Jan 12, 2008 5:04 AM, Melissa Draper [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 As part of my NY Resolutions, I decided it was time to get more involved
 in Debian, which involves hanging out in Debian channels more. Apart
 from rejoining the OFTC Debian channels, I also joined the Freenode ones
 since they are still the more populous. The channels I joined included
 #debian-offtopic - a 'secret' channel which they freely redirect
 offtopic conversation to if they are asked for an offtopic channel.

Ok, so, after a small bit of research I found out something
interesting. It turns out that #ubuntu-offtopic on freenode is an
official community channel for Ubuntu.

So, *newsflash*, not all similarly named channels are for the same
thing.  The fact that there is a #debian-offtopic should NOT lead you
to believe that people on that channel are expected to behave as
people on #ubuntu-offtopic.

Debian's official servers are at irc.oftc.net.  Debian's community
channels are #debian and the localized #debian-fr, #debian-br, etc.

If you are going to come with any complaints about irc channels, and
come claiming that _we_ are not doing enough, then please give some
grounds to your claims. Speaking about random channels on random
networks does NOT give grounds to your claim.

 It was merely indicated to me often that Debian-Women had achieved what 
 Ubuntu-Women had not.
 To me, Ubuntu-Women has achieved a far further reach than the inner circles.

Comparing how much UW has done against how much DW has done seems to
have no grounds at all. Since the first one is a user support group,
and the other is a developer encouraging group.

So, whatever, you do great user support, we do not.  But we've
increased the amount of female developers and you have not.  Who wins?
Just to be clear, I'll spell it out: I don't think anybody wins, we
are two groups who have two very different aims, and I don't think
it's useful AT ALL to demand the other group to change their aim.

Please, until you learn to value other people's work, do refrain from
demanding that we do random stuff that only interests you.

-- 
Besos,
Marga

PS (for the rest of d-w list): I'm sorry if this comes as too
aggresive, but after a whole re-reading of IRC backlogs and mailing
list threads, and talking with #debian-offtopic people, I can't but
express my opinion on this matter.


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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Mark Brown
On Sat, Jan 12, 2008 at 12:03:23PM +0100, Christian Perrier wrote:
 Quoting Melissa Draper ([EMAIL PROTECTED]):

  One must be a developer or packager to be entitled to feel comfortable?  

 I'm not entirely convinced that projects such as d-w or ubunto-w can
 really change things in very wide communities. As many already said,
 we probably have to accept that the jerk ratio in user communities
 will never be close to zero (in that matter, I very seriously doubt
 that things are better or worse in Ubuntu users communities compared
 to Debian users).

This is probably especially true of Debian where pretty much everything
is done in a very loose, ad hoc fashion.  There is very little pressure
to officially affiliate with Debian or do any particular kind of
organisation so you end up with lots of overlapping groups with
differing levels of awareness of each other and often with differing
ideas about how things should be done.

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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Michael Banck
On Sat, Jan 12, 2008 at 07:51:43PM +, Benjamin A'Lee wrote:
 While I see your point, the fact that the channel has debian in the
 name suggests that the channel has something to do with the Debian
 Project. If I set up a website at debian-offtopic.com and filled it with
 sexist jokes, Nazi propaganda, or anything of the sort, people would
 rightly be offended.
 
 While many/most people here may know that Freenode is not the official
 Debian IRC network, who's to say that a newcomer will realise that
 (after all, there's a #debian etc. there too)? While I realise that it's
 not possible to police every single network, Freenode is a very large
 and popular one, and I think Debian would be completely justified in
 preventing people using its name. The behaviour in the channel, from
 what I've heard, is not something that should be associated with Debian.

It has been decided to rename the current #debian-offtopic channel to
##debian-offtopic and keep #debian-offtopic around for people being
off-topic in #debian to be directed there.


So this is hopefully the end of this episode,

Michael


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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Pebcak
Nice use of misquoting and taking things out of context there Melissa. 

If you really want to be offended, and from what I've seen offending you
isn't really all that hard, oops I said hard, now don't go and get
offended, I suggest you slither over to Efnets #debian. Then you'll have
something to complain about.


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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Erinn Clark
* Michael Banck [EMAIL PROTECTED] [2008:01:12 22:42 +0100]: 
 It has been decided to rename the current #debian-offtopic channel to
 ##debian-offtopic and keep #debian-offtopic around for people being
 off-topic in #debian to be directed there.

Thanks Michael (and everyone else involved)!

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Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Jordi Gutiérrez Hermoso
On 12/01/2008, Erinn Clark [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 * Jordi Gutiérrez Hermoso [EMAIL PROTECTED] [2008:01:12 08:29 -0600]:
   followed by discussion of and links to NSFW stuff.

 [...]

  Also, regarding porn in general, which you seem to have mentioned...
  minefield, and something I'm very ambivalent about.

 Just as a note: NSFW does not necessarily imply porn, IMO, so a
 discussion of the ethics of porn is out of place here.

In this particular instance, in one of the channel logs that Melissa
posted she sarcastically said is this a smut channel? by which I
thought she meant sexually explicit material. That's why I said that
she seemed to have mentioned porn...

- Jordi G. H.



Re: Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-12 Thread Jordi Gutiérrez Hermoso
Ronin, please remain calm and respectful. Melissa had at least one
perfectly valid point, and perhaps others. Her valid point is that
there is a channel that by its own admission is a pigsty, and it's
using the Debian name in a popular IRC network. Channel moved, we get
to keep our pigsty, and newcomers don't immediately find a hostile
channel with Debian's name in it. I for one am happy that the pigsty
remains, because sometimes I like to wallow around in mud just as much
as you do.

Problem solved all around.

On 12/01/2008, Pebcak [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 Nice use of misquoting and taking things out of context there Melissa.

She quoted some channel logs with context, and the ones with fewer
context were grepped. Maybe she should have used -C in her grep, but
the grepped logs do show an overwhelming amount of sexual content
whenever women were mentioned. I think that was context enough to
attempt to make a point, with which you may agree or not.

 I suggest you slither over to Efnets #debian.

You could have used better word choice here than slither.

Cheers,
- Jordi G. H.


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Debian's Freenode IRC channels

2008-01-11 Thread Melissa Draper

Greetings,

I'm primarily an Ubuntu user, but I've run Debian in various places on 
my home network for over a year, and what is currently my home server 
has been exclusively Debian for about a year now.


As part of my NY Resolutions, I decided it was time to get more involved 
in Debian, which involves hanging out in Debian channels more. Apart 
from rejoining the OFTC Debian channels, I also joined the Freenode ones 
since they are still the more populous. The channels I joined included 
#debian-offtopic - a 'secret' channel which they freely redirect 
offtopic conversation to if they are asked for an offtopic channel.


I am starting to wish I had not.

Aside from the channels in general being more hostile which I knew to 
expect, I find a complete disregard for decency towards women. From just 
a week in #debian on freenode, greps for 'girl' and 'women have some 
really degrading comments: http://pastebin.ca/LfFsZYkV (encrypted post, 
password: debian)


I've only been in the offtopic channel since the 8th, but already I have 
collected: http://pastebin.ca/RiF2KwdQ (encrypted post, password: offtopic)


The bottom 3 lines in the offtopic pastebin are pertaining to a 
conversation I tried to have just before (http://pastebin.ca/BewJbhLq 
encrypted, password: convo), after seeing


simonrvn @be $1 barbie is replyW! $1 is too HARD! let's go shopping!
ravenbird simonrvn: okay
simonrvn w00t
simonrvn @be ssh barbie
ravenbird W! ssh is too HARD! let's go shopping!

followed by discussion of and links to NSFW stuff.

As an active Ubuntu-Women member, I've many times been told to come to 
Debian and the Debian-Women project whenever someone in Ubuntu slips up, 
because D-W have had more success with the overall Debian community. 
Quite frankly, I'm at a loss for what to think, because I'm not really 
seeing it :(


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Sincerely
Melissa Draper

http://www.meldraweb.com

Phone: 0404 595 395
(intl): +61 404 595 395

P.O Box 1412
Lavington, NSW 2641


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