Since illinoisdigitalham group is now gone, there 
has been quite a lot of discussion about it.

It seems that Mark's rise to power as a group owner 
and especially, as a moderator, was rather sudden. 
Many of the successful group owners and moderators 
have developed their groups over many years, working 
up to it slowly and gaining their experience. In Mark's 
quest for an instantly huge membership for his group, 
it seems that he may have lost sight of an essential 
part of how this is done... through Netiquette. 

Netiquette is not just about being polite in public.
It is an essential part of co-existing with others 
on the internet peacefully. Spamming, one of the 
"deadly sins of Netiquette", will get one into 
deep doo-doo trouble, even if it is for a good cause :)
Cross-posting is another delicate Netiquette issue. 
But, harvesting the email addresses of ham operators 
from groups, to spam those hams, is one of the things 
that will bring down the wrath of many internet-savvy 
individuals upon the perpetrator.
 
Most group members have higher expectations for the 
behavior of moderators than they do for the average 
person on a group. Moderators are expected to be 
angels and saints, even in the face of the slings and 
arrows of insult and indignation. They are looked to, 
for guidance in solving disputes, while simultaneously 
serving as sergeant-at-arms to police the group when 
a bad boy can't be talked down through gentle persuasion. 

In all of these situations, it seems that Mark might 
have had high aspirations to do the right thing. 
But perhaps, did a quest for power eclipse an otherwise 
very beneficial endeavor? Perhaps we won't get to know the 
answer to that.

Before I go on, I want to personally say that I've 
never harbored any ill will toward Mark. I was very 
supportive of him and his initial efforts to build a 
group about digital ham radio. I had nothing to do with 
Yahoo's action leading to his account being terminated 
for violation of Yahoo's Terms of Use. Now that the 
illinoisdigitalham group has been deleted by Yahoo, 
there are a huge number of hams out there who are 
coming forward about their experiences with spam 
from Mark, and their attempts to get him to stop. 

I will add my own interesting experience with Mark 
that happened on illinoisdigitalham group. It is 
a typical example of moderator Netiquette failure:

I posted a message on illinoisdigitalham group, as 
part of an ongoing discussion about FCC digital 
rules. In this particular case, Mark intercepted 
my message with his moderator control panel. 
Before my message was posted to the group, Mark 
secretly changed the text of my message, to have the 
exact opposite meaning from what I had written. 
Then he let it go to the group, as if what he 
wrote had been written by me. It looked just like 
a message from me, but it was from Mark. He 
wrote some erroneous things. Everyone thought it 
was a posting from me. Mark never gave any explanation,
he never even gave a hint to others about what he had done :) 
I wrote another message to the group that explained 
what had happened, and Mark blocked it. 

In an exchange of private email with Mark, he refused 
to provide any explanation on what he had done, 
and refused to retract it on the group. At that point, 
there was nothing I could do but accept the fact 
that anything sent on his group could be twisted by 
him into a falsehood at his whim. So, I curtailed my 
participation in his group from then on. 

In private correspondence with other hams, I 
discovered that I wasn't alone in my experience... 
several other hams had exactly the same or similar things 
happen with Mark and his group. 

Even after my personal bad experience with Mark, 
I continued to allow Mark to post and participate 
in all of the groups that I moderate, with the 
proviso that he always follow the group guidelines 
like the rest of the membership. For the most 
part he did so. But recently, I found out that he 
had been harvesting email addresses from postings 
on my groups, and adding them to his mass email 
address list for spammings. 

Those hams were not too happy about it. Some of 
them complained to Yahoo. 

As they say.... 
"What Goes Around Comes Around".

Does the saga of illinoisdigitalham end here? 
illinoisdigitalham is gone... for now.
Will it re-appear in another incarnation?
Perhaps this experience will serve as an 
example for groups, on what to avoid in the future.

Running a large group for hams, or any other 
circle of interest, is not an easy thing to do. 
Yahoo isn't easy to deal with, they can really 
cause problems for owners of groups. The membership 
takes constant time and energy. There is 
pressure from all sides.

Moderators and group owners are human. They are 
prone to the same human frailties that every other 
mortal on this planet endures.  

I wish Mark all the best of good fortune in 
whatever endeavors in ham radio he pursues in the 
future. 

Best Warm Regards,

Bonnie Crystal KQ6XA

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