[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-02 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, endlessrainintoapapercup
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 TurqB., you're a bit of a wild man,
 but that's all part of your charm.
 I enjoyed our conversation yesterday,
 but remain puzzled by the apparent
 lack of any congruence and 
 understanding between us regarding
 the subject of reality/Reality. 

Reality is your crutch, dude, not mine.
Don't expect me to get all passionate
about it.  :-)

Hint: skip to the bottom of this post
and read the headers and figure out who
I was talking to. If you don't get it,
I'll explain at the end. 

 That's
 okay. I don't perceive myself to be
 any kind of authority on the subject,
 and have no vested interest in
 convincing you that there is any
 validity in anything I say. But I'd like
 to point out that the way you appear
 to be interpreting my words on the
 subject of reality does not actually
 represent my perspective at all.

Perhaps we're dwelling in different...
uh...realities.  :-)

 Maybe you are referring to another
 conversation you had with someone
 else...? If it is our conversation you are
 referring to, you haven't actually 
 understood what I said. Not that you're 
 short on understanding, but words, 
 such as reality, convey different
 conceptual meanings to each of us.

See? You CAN get my point if you try. :-)

That was it. Reality implies a perceiver.
Without one there is no possibility of such
a concept, or distinguishing reality from
non-reality. 

And when there is a perceiver, there is a 
point of view. And where there is a point
of view, there are other points of view on
the same thing or things being perceived.

 I read the words you write, which
 appear to be an inferred representation
 of my understanding of reality/Reality,
 and they honestly don't represent my
 perception at all. 

Different realities, dude. :-)

 When you speak
 back what you think I'm saying, it
 becomes something else entirely.

See? You CAN get these things if you try. :-)

 I'll make an effort to communicate
 more clearly and not assume that
 there is any kind of shared understanding
 in regard to future topics. 

There is no shared understanding at all.
In the universe. It's all points of view,
each unique, each trying to find some 
agreement with other points of view,
endlessly. IMO, of course.

 And maybe
 you could resist the impulse to 
 make statements about what you think
 I believe and experience? Unless that's
 too much to ask. Like I said, your
 wildness is part of your charm.

Not a WORD of the rap below had anything to
do with what YOU believe. The you's in the
rap were rhetorical, or directed to Jim (Sandi
Ego), whom I was conversing with, not you. The 
fact that you see the post as being directed to 
YOUR point of view when it wasn't tends to prove 
my point about points of view IMO, and rein-
forces what Tom said. We color our perceptions
by perceiving them; we project our selves into
the things we perceive. You seem to have done
so, and that's one kind of...uh...reality, I
guess.


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sandiego108 sandiego108@
  wrote:
  
   --- In 
   FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis 
   tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlist@ wrote:
   
 Barry writes snipped:
 I'm completely *comfortable* with the notion of there
 being a Saganesque billions and billions of realities. 
 That poses no problem for me whatsoever. 

TomT:
For me it appears to be a Baskin and Robbins store with trillions 
of flavors and ultimately the only thing you can know is the 
flavor of you the perceiver. It has your flavor as it is filtered 
through the DNA you are made of. You impart the flavor by the act 
of perceiving.
Have fun. TOm
   
   so the Saganesque and Baskin and Robbins store containers 
   are what each of you conceptually use as your metaphors for 
   reality with a capital R. 
  
  What I think we are saying (I hope Tom will
  forgive me for speaking for him) is that we
  don't feel any need to delude ourselves into
  thinking that 1) there is such a thing as
  Reality with a capital R, or 2) that we know
  what it is. reality (or realities) with a 
  lowercase r is just fine for us.
  
  The point I've been trying to make is that
  reality is merely a *concept*. It can't stand
  on its own; it does not and cannot have an
  existence independent of a perceiver. It needs 
  a perceiver to *perceive* reality, or to 
  distinguish it from (if such a thing existed) 
  non-reality. It's a codependent relationship. :-)
  
  And the moment you bring a perceiver into the
  equation, you have Point Of View. That POV, in
  the perceiver, has to color the nature of the
  perceived. Some claim that they can attain a
  state of consciousness or POV that is color-
  less, and that as a result what they perceive
  is accurate -- Reality. I don't buy it. (As an
  aside, you may feel that 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-02 Thread sandiego108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

snipThe you's in the
 rap were rhetorical, or directed to Jim (Sandi
 Ego), whom I was conversing with, not you. snip

I see you understand Spanish too- lol.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-02 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sandiego108 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
 snipThe you's in the
  rap were rhetorical, or directed to Jim (Sandi
  Ego), whom I was conversing with, not you. snip
 
 I see you understand Spanish too- lol.

By adopting that name, was your intention to
identify with San Diego? That particular saint
is mainly known for being a catechist, mean-
ing a repeater of dogma.  :-)

Oh, he was also a married celibate. Whatever
floats yer boat...I like Sandi Ego better; it
seems to capture the essence of Jim.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-02 Thread tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis
TomT: Have Fun!
Barry:
 Always. You, too, I trust...
 
 TomT:
 It seems that is our purpose or so it seems. 
Barry:
This could be interpreted as a throwaway comment
on your part, but I don't see it as one, because
I thoroughly agree. I think that fun is one of
the most misunderstood principles in the universe,
and the one that can show us the most about whether
we're as on the path as we think we are.

TomT:
This takes us back to a conversation we had a few years ago about
appreciation. Fun is the gross version of appreciation. I some times
use them interchangeably even though they are not. It appears to me
now, that appreciation is our finest purpose and that ultimately leads
to intimacy with it all. For me it seemed to be ever increasing
amounts and degrees of appreciation and then the intimacy kicked in
like the Saturn Booster Rocket. Things have not been the same since.
It is now a love affair with it all and it is all me. Tom




[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-02 Thread sandiego108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sandiego108 sandiego108@
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
wrote:
  
  snipThe you's in the
   rap were rhetorical, or directed to Jim (Sandi
   Ego), whom I was conversing with, not you. snip
  
  I see you understand Spanish too- lol.
 
 By adopting that name, was your intention to
 identify with San Diego? That particular saint
 is mainly known for being a catechist, mean-

superficially-- I was born there.

 ing a repeater of dogma.  :-)
 
 Oh, he was also a married celibate. Whatever
 floats yer boat...I like Sandi Ego better; it
 seems to capture the essence of Jim.

as usual you are full of, uh, assumptions.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-02 Thread endlessrainintoapapercup
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, endlessrainintoapapercup
 endlessrainintoapapercup@ wrote:
 
  TurqB., you're a bit of a wild man,
  but that's all part of your charm.
  I enjoyed our conversation yesterday,
  but remain puzzled by the apparent
  lack of any congruence and 
  understanding between us regarding
  the subject of reality/Reality. 
 
 Reality is your crutch, dude, not mine.
 Don't expect me to get all passionate
 about it.  :-)


I think you ARE pretty passionate
about it, Turq.


 
 That was it. Reality implies a perceiver.
 Without one there is no possibility of such
 a concept, or distinguishing reality from
 non-reality. 


I was not separating the perceiver
from what is perceived. The perceiver
is part of reality.


 
 And when there is a perceiver, there is a 
 point of view. And where there is a point
 of view, there are other points of view on
 the same thing or things being perceived.
 

On the level of individual perception,
everything that is perceived is part
of reality, including the perceiver and
the process of perception--and this would
include the existence of all other apparent
individuals and their own POVs and
experience of reality.
. 
 
 There is no shared understanding at all.
 In the universe. It's all points of view,
 each unique, each trying to find some 
 agreement with other points of view,
 endlessly. IMO, of course.


Well, it's true that I was operating
from an assumption of a certain
commonality among enlightenment
traditions despite different POVs.
But you can't say there is no shared
understanding at all. We live in a
collective reality which is based on 
shared understanding, and all
communication is based on it.


 Not a WORD of the rap below had anything to
 do with what YOU believe. The you's in the
 rap were rhetorical, or directed to Jim (Sandi
 Ego), whom I was conversing with, not you. The 
 fact that you see the post as being directed to 
 YOUR point of view when it wasn't tends to prove 
 my point about points of view IMO, and rein-
 forces what Tom said. We color our perceptions
 by perceiving them; we project our selves into
 the things we perceive. You seem to have done
 so, and that's one kind of...uh...reality, I
 guess.
 

I wasn't referring exclusively to this post--
rather to several of your posts on this 
thread. But you say I'm projecting, and 
that you weren't making any statements 
intended to reflect my beliefs or my
experience. OK.

I continue to be interested in your
point of view, and the questions that
have arisen for me in regard to it.
If you can suffer my 'obsession with
reality', I'd like to keep talking to
you about it a little further...?

Now, though, I have to go to work.



 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sandiego108 sandiego108@
   wrote:
   
--- In 
FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis 
tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlist@ wrote:

  Barry writes snipped:
  I'm completely *comfortable* with the notion of there
  being a Saganesque billions and billions of realities. 
  That poses no problem for me whatsoever. 
 
 TomT:
 For me it appears to be a Baskin and Robbins store with trillions 
 of flavors and ultimately the only thing you can know is the 
 flavor of you the perceiver. It has your flavor as it is filtered 
 through the DNA you are made of. You impart the flavor by the act 
 of perceiving.
 Have fun. TOm

so the Saganesque and Baskin and Robbins store containers 
are what each of you conceptually use as your metaphors for 
reality with a capital R. 
   
   What I think we are saying (I hope Tom will
   forgive me for speaking for him) is that we
   don't feel any need to delude ourselves into
   thinking that 1) there is such a thing as
   Reality with a capital R, or 2) that we know
   what it is. reality (or realities) with a 
   lowercase r is just fine for us.
   
   The point I've been trying to make is that
   reality is merely a *concept*. It can't stand
   on its own; it does not and cannot have an
   existence independent of a perceiver. It needs 
   a perceiver to *perceive* reality, or to 
   distinguish it from (if such a thing existed) 
   non-reality. It's a codependent relationship. :-)
   
   And the moment you bring a perceiver into the
   equation, you have Point Of View. That POV, in
   the perceiver, has to color the nature of the
   perceived. Some claim that they can attain a
   state of consciousness or POV that is color-
   less, and that as a result what they perceive
   is accurate -- Reality. I don't buy it. (As an
   aside, you may feel that your SOC is colorless,
   but it took less than two days for most people
   here to figure out who you were when you began
   posting under another ID. How colorless is that?)
   
   I 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-02 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

TomT: Have Fun!
   Barry:
  Always. You, too, I trust...
  
  TomT:
  It seems that is our purpose or so it seems. 
 Barry:
 This could be interpreted as a throwaway comment
 on your part, but I don't see it as one, because
 I thoroughly agree. I think that fun is one of
 the most misunderstood principles in the universe,
 and the one that can show us the most about whether
 we're as on the path as we think we are.
 
 This takes us back to a conversation we had a few years 
 ago about appreciation. Fun is the gross version of 
 appreciation. 

I remember the chat about appreciation, but
I don't agree about fun being in any way 
gross. I think that people who have odd
preconceptions about what fun is may think 
that, but I don't. To me fun is what being 
in tune with the Tao *feels* like. It is the
perception of the infinite flowing through you.

 I some times use them interchangeably even though they 
 are not. 

I wouldn't consider them interchangeable. One
can appreciate without having fun, and vice-
versa. 

 It appears to me now, that appreciation is our finest 
 purpose and that ultimately leads to intimacy with it all. 
 For me it seemed to be ever increasing amounts and degrees 
 of appreciation and then the intimacy kicked in like the 
 Saturn Booster Rocket. Things have not been the same since.
 It is now a love affair with it all and it is all me. Tom

I can never argue with a person's personal 
experience. I like the notion of fun better
than the notion of appreciation partly because 
fun traditionally gets such a badrap in spirit-
ual circles. People talk about serious seekers, 
serious students, taking the study seriously. 
I don't think serious is quite as admirable a
quality it has been made out to be. I tend to 
agree with the words of that wonderful Christian 
philosopher, G. K. Chesterton, who said, 
Seriousness is not a virtue.

One can appreciate something and still be
all serious. But if you're really having fun,
it's tough to pretend to be all serious. And
to me, fun is an indicator that one is doing
something right, spiritually, whereas serious-
ness has absolutely NOTHING to do with spirit-
uality. 

Fun to me is a certain liveliness that happens 
when you are in the groove, in tune with things. 
The things *themselves* don't matter. You could 
be shoveling shit and still be having fun. Whereas
you could be getting laid and not having any at
all, and be all serious about it.

Fun to me implies being able to *be* in the
moment and appreciate it flowing through you.
Whereas you could sit back and convince your-
self intellectually that you were appreciating
the moment, while remaining distant from it.

I honestly think that the spiritual path was
designed to be FUN. If it isn't, that path
may not lead where you think it does.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-01 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, endlessrainintoapapercup 
 endlessrainintoapapercup@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
 wrote:
   snip
I guess what I'm trying to say is that reality seems
to be a concept that people whose realities don't
change very quickly are interested in. They stay in
pretty much the same state of consciousness for long
periods of time. When reality changes on you more
quickly -- say, dozens of times in an hour -- you 
lose your fascination for the concept. Or at least 
I did.
   
   (Note the implied value judgment, BTW.)
  
  It was noted. I was wondering whether
  or not to take it personally...
 
 Naah. We're all in the same boat here relative
 to Barry.

I should point out, just for the fun of it,
that there is no implied value judgment in
my original statement. It is merely a *descrip-
tion* of two different ways of living. 

T'would seem that at least two people are so 
sensitive about the subject of pace of change
(how quickly their state of consciousness shifts
radically enough for them to notice) that they 
perceive anyone who even brings the subject up
as making a value judgment.

I don't think I was. I see no real value in a 
fast pace of change itself, as long as there is
steady, perceivable change. I'd see having one's 
reality change radically many times a day or week 
as being no more potentially valuable or interesting 
than having it change radically every month. Or year. 

Your reality *has* changed radically in the last 
year, right? Or, at least it's changed radically
since the time you started TM, right?

Oh. Never mind.  :-)





[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-01 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  Barry writes snipped:
  I'm completely *comfortable* with the notion of there
  being a Saganesque billions and billions of realities. 
  That poses no problem for me whatsoever. 
 
 TomT:
 For me it appears to be a Baskin and Robbins store with trillions of
 flavors and ultimately the only thing you can know is the flavor of
 you the perceiver. It has your flavor as it is filtered through the
 DNA you are made of. You impart the flavor by the act of perceiving.

Exactly. Reality is IMO another way of saying
interdependent origination. There is no reality
that stands on its own, independent of a perceiver.

 Have fun. TOm

Always. You, too, I trust...






[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-01 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, endlessrainintoapapercup 
  endlessrainintoapapercup@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
  wrote:
snip
 I guess what I'm trying to say is that reality seems
 to be a concept that people whose realities don't
 change very quickly are interested in. They stay in
 pretty much the same state of consciousness for long
 periods of time. When reality changes on you more
 quickly -- say, dozens of times in an hour -- you 
 lose your fascination for the concept. Or at least 
 I did.

(Note the implied value judgment, BTW.)
   
   It was noted. I was wondering whether
   or not to take it personally...
  
  Naah. We're all in the same boat here relative
  to Barry.
 
 I should point out, just for the fun of it,
 that there is no implied value judgment in
 my original statement. It is merely a *descrip-
 tion* of two different ways of living.

No, it's a value judgment, yet another instance
of your exalting your own spiritual development
and denigrating that of others. You do it
*constantly*. It's obvious from the way you
write about it, from the tone of your
descriptions.

(And you aren't commenting just for the fun of
it, either.)
 
 T'would seem that at least two people are so 
 sensitive about the subject of pace of change
 (how quickly their state of consciousness shifts
 radically enough for them to notice) that they 
 perceive anyone who even brings the subject up
 as making a value judgment.

Uh, no. We perceive *you* to be making a value
judgment because of the way you write about it.
Others here don't give the same impression at all.

 I don't think I was. I see no real value in a 
 fast pace of change itself, as long as there is
 steady, perceivable change. I'd see having one's 
 reality change radically many times a day or week 
 as being no more potentially valuable or interesting 
 than having it change radically every month. Or year. 

Strategic backpedal.

 Your reality *has* changed radically in the last 
 year, right? Or, at least it's changed radically
 since the time you started TM, right?

It's changing constantly, yes indeed. Hard to say
if it's radical without knowing how much change
is yet to occur.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-01 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, endlessrainintoapapercup 
   endlessrainintoapapercup@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
   wrote:
 snip
  I guess what I'm trying to say is that reality seems
  to be a concept that people whose realities don't
  change very quickly are interested in. They stay in
  pretty much the same state of consciousness for long
  periods of time. When reality changes on you more
  quickly -- say, dozens of times in an hour -- you 
  lose your fascination for the concept. Or at least 
  I did.
 
 (Note the implied value judgment, BTW.)

It was noted. I was wondering whether
or not to take it personally...
   
   Naah. We're all in the same boat here relative
   to Barry.
  
  I should point out, just for the fun of it,
  that there is no implied value judgment in
  my original statement. It is merely a *descrip-
  tion* of two different ways of living.
 
 No, it's a value judgment, yet another instance
 of your exalting your own spiritual development
 and denigrating that of others. You do it
 *constantly*. It's obvious from the way you
 write about it, from the tone of your
 descriptions.

As opposed to say, *denigrating* another
person's spiritual development and/or character
constantly. Say, for example, in a total of 72
posts ragging on him and trying to provoke him
into an argument since he said clearly that he 
wasn't going to get sucked into arguing with you?  :-)

 (And you aren't commenting just for the fun of
 it, either.)

Ah, but I am. You just can't understand that 
because your crusade against me ISN'T fun for
you. It's a way to use the mechanics of karma
to keep your own state of attention comfortably 
low.

Whatever floats yer boat.  :-)





[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-01 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sandiego108 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In 
 FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis 
 tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlist@ wrote:
 
   Barry writes snipped:
   I'm completely *comfortable* with the notion of there
   being a Saganesque billions and billions of realities. 
   That poses no problem for me whatsoever. 
  
  TomT:
  For me it appears to be a Baskin and Robbins store with trillions 
  of flavors and ultimately the only thing you can know is the 
  flavor of you the perceiver. It has your flavor as it is filtered 
  through the DNA you are made of. You impart the flavor by the act 
  of perceiving.
  Have fun. TOm
 
 so the Saganesque and Baskin and Robbins store containers 
 are what each of you conceptually use as your metaphors for 
 reality with a capital R. 

What I think we are saying (I hope Tom will
forgive me for speaking for him) is that we
don't feel any need to delude ourselves into
thinking that 1) there is such a thing as
Reality with a capital R, or 2) that we know
what it is. reality (or realities) with a 
lowercase r is just fine for us.

The point I've been trying to make is that
reality is merely a *concept*. It can't stand
on its own; it does not and cannot have an
existence independent of a perceiver. It needs 
a perceiver to *perceive* reality, or to 
distinguish it from (if such a thing existed) 
non-reality. It's a codependent relationship. :-)

And the moment you bring a perceiver into the
equation, you have Point Of View. That POV, in
the perceiver, has to color the nature of the
perceived. Some claim that they can attain a
state of consciousness or POV that is color-
less, and that as a result what they perceive
is accurate -- Reality. I don't buy it. (As an
aside, you may feel that your SOC is colorless,
but it took less than two days for most people
here to figure out who you were when you began
posting under another ID. How colorless is that?)

I feel that the state of consciousness of UC or 
BC is *just* as colored as any other, and that 
what beings in that state of consciousness perceive
from the POV of UC or BC is *just* as much a
consensual reality based on interdependent
origination as the reality perceived by someone
in total ignorance. It's just a *different*
reality, that's all.

I don't get the seeming need to believe that
one knows what Reality (capital R) is, or to
claim that one perceives it. It seems to be just
another way of saying, I'm the best. I'm content
with enjoying the parade of realities as they go by.

 As someone said recently somewhere else, its a lot 
 like ignorance, only with that 'darned' fullness.

It's EXACTLY like ignorance, INCLUDING the fullness.
The fullness is present in ignorance as well. And
neither state has anything whatsoever to do with
Reality IMO. Just one more reality. Chop wood,
carry water, ad infinitum.

If you bristle at this idea, doncha think it might
have something to do with being attached to not 
only thinking that you know Reality but convincing
others that you know it?  





[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-01 Thread tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis
Barry writes snipped:
 Have fun. TOm

Always. You, too, I trust...

TomT:
It seems that is our purpose or so it seems. Anyway it seems a lot
that laughter is the constant and that being around people is the
source of amusement. The recognition there is only one of us and it
has our flavor because we are the experiencer is a real hoot after all
these years of chasing, seeking and being on the path and to find we
are IT. Thanks for all the joy that comes from reading all the ways I
can express myself. Tom 



[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-01 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Barry writes snipped:
  Have fun. 
 
 Always. You, too, I trust...
 
 TomT:
 It seems that is our purpose or so it seems. 

This could be interpreted as a throwaway comment
on your part, but I don't see it as one, because
I thoroughly agree. I think that fun is one of
the most misunderstood principles in the universe,
and the one that can show us the most about whether
we're as on the path as we think we are.

 Anyway it seems a lot
 that laughter is the constant and that being around 
 people is the source of amusement. The recognition 
 there is only one of us and it has our flavor because 
 we are the experiencer is a real hoot after all these 
 years of chasing, seeking and being on the path and 
 to find we are IT. Thanks for all the joy that comes 
 from reading all the ways I can express myself. Tom

Indeed. 

There was an old seminal science fiction novel
that I liked called The Sheep Look Up. In it,
there is a character who is perpetually stoned
on the designer psychedelics of the day. His
idea of fun is looking at the TV News and saying
over and over, Wow! What an *imagination* I've
got!  :-)

If all of you guys and gals are me, we are 
doing a fine job of being entertaining and 
amusing IMO.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-01 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
snip
  No, it's a value judgment, yet another instance
  of your exalting your own spiritual development
  and denigrating that of others. 
snip
 
 As opposed to say, *denigrating* another
 person's spiritual development and/or character
 constantly.

This is funny. Barry repeats my exact words and
prefaces them with as opposed to, as if he
thought he had changed them to their opposite.

I'll take that as his inadvertent acquiescence
to what I wrote about him.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-04-01 Thread endlessrainintoapapercup
TurqB., you're a bit of a wild man,
but that's all part of your charm.
I enjoyed our conversation yesterday,
but remain puzzled by the apparent
lack of any congruence and 
understanding between us regarding
the subject of reality/Reality. That's
okay. I don't perceive myself to be
any kind of authority on the subject,
and have no vested interest in
convincing you that there is any
validity in anything I say. But I'd like
to point out that the way you appear
to be interpreting my words on the
subject of reality does not actually
represent my perspective at all.
Maybe you are referring to another
conversation you had with someone
else...? If it is our conversation you are
referring to, you haven't actually 
understood what I said. Not that you're 
short on understanding, but words, 
such as reality, convey different
conceptual meanings to each of us.
I read the words you write, which
appear to be an inferred representation
of my understanding of reality/Reality,
and they honestly don't represent my
perception at all. When you speak
back what you think I'm saying, it
becomes something else entirely.
I'll make an effort to communicate
more clearly and not assume that
there is any kind of shared understanding
in regard to future topics. And maybe
you could resist the impulse to 
make statements about what you think
I believe and experience? Unless that's
too much to ask. Like I said, your
wildness is part of your charm.





--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sandiego108 sandiego108@
 wrote:
 
  --- In 
  FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis 
  tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlist@ wrote:
  
Barry writes snipped:
I'm completely *comfortable* with the notion of there
being a Saganesque billions and billions of realities. 
That poses no problem for me whatsoever. 
   
   TomT:
   For me it appears to be a Baskin and Robbins store with trillions 
   of flavors and ultimately the only thing you can know is the 
   flavor of you the perceiver. It has your flavor as it is filtered 
   through the DNA you are made of. You impart the flavor by the act 
   of perceiving.
   Have fun. TOm
  
  so the Saganesque and Baskin and Robbins store containers 
  are what each of you conceptually use as your metaphors for 
  reality with a capital R. 
 
 What I think we are saying (I hope Tom will
 forgive me for speaking for him) is that we
 don't feel any need to delude ourselves into
 thinking that 1) there is such a thing as
 Reality with a capital R, or 2) that we know
 what it is. reality (or realities) with a 
 lowercase r is just fine for us.
 
 The point I've been trying to make is that
 reality is merely a *concept*. It can't stand
 on its own; it does not and cannot have an
 existence independent of a perceiver. It needs 
 a perceiver to *perceive* reality, or to 
 distinguish it from (if such a thing existed) 
 non-reality. It's a codependent relationship. :-)
 
 And the moment you bring a perceiver into the
 equation, you have Point Of View. That POV, in
 the perceiver, has to color the nature of the
 perceived. Some claim that they can attain a
 state of consciousness or POV that is color-
 less, and that as a result what they perceive
 is accurate -- Reality. I don't buy it. (As an
 aside, you may feel that your SOC is colorless,
 but it took less than two days for most people
 here to figure out who you were when you began
 posting under another ID. How colorless is that?)
 
 I feel that the state of consciousness of UC or 
 BC is *just* as colored as any other, and that 
 what beings in that state of consciousness perceive
 from the POV of UC or BC is *just* as much a
 consensual reality based on interdependent
 origination as the reality perceived by someone
 in total ignorance. It's just a *different*
 reality, that's all.
 
 I don't get the seeming need to believe that
 one knows what Reality (capital R) is, or to
 claim that one perceives it. It seems to be just
 another way of saying, I'm the best. I'm content
 with enjoying the parade of realities as they go by.
 
  As someone said recently somewhere else, its a lot 
  like ignorance, only with that 'darned' fullness.
 
 It's EXACTLY like ignorance, INCLUDING the fullness.
 The fullness is present in ignorance as well. And
 neither state has anything whatsoever to do with
 Reality IMO. Just one more reality. Chop wood,
 carry water, ad infinitum.
 
 If you bristle at this idea, doncha think it might
 have something to do with being attached to not 
 only thinking that you know Reality but convincing
 others that you know it?




[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-03-31 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
snip
 I guess what I'm trying to say is that reality seems
 to be a concept that people whose realities don't
 change very quickly are interested in. They stay in
 pretty much the same state of consciousness for long
 periods of time. When reality changes on you more
 quickly -- say, dozens of times in an hour -- you 
 lose your fascination for the concept. Or at least 
 I did.

(Note the implied value judgment, BTW.)

 I'm completely *comfortable* with the notion of there
 being a Saganesque billions and billions of realities. 
 That poses no problem for me whatsoever. 
 
 Anybody else out there feel that way, or is it just me?

I'd be surprised if anybody here *didn't* feel that
way. I suspect you're preaching to the choir.

But when someone here speaks of the One Reality,
as I said earlier, they don't mean one privileged
relative reality among many; they're talking about
Ultimate Reality, i.e., the reality that 
encompasses all the others, the reality *of* many
realities.

(There's also what's called consensus reality, of
course, which is the everyday reality most of us
operate in most of the time. In a sense, it's
privileged because it's largely shared. Often those
who live primarily in alternate realities have a bit
of difficulty functioning.)




[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-03-31 Thread endlessrainintoapapercup
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 snip
  I guess what I'm trying to say is that reality seems
  to be a concept that people whose realities don't
  change very quickly are interested in. They stay in
  pretty much the same state of consciousness for long
  periods of time. When reality changes on you more
  quickly -- say, dozens of times in an hour -- you 
  lose your fascination for the concept. Or at least 
  I did.
 
 (Note the implied value judgment, BTW.)


It was noted. I was wondering whether
or not to take it personally...

 
  I'm completely *comfortable* with the notion of there
  being a Saganesque billions and billions of realities. 
  That poses no problem for me whatsoever. 
  
  Anybody else out there feel that way, or is it just me?
 
 I'd be surprised if anybody here *didn't* feel that
 way. I suspect you're preaching to the choir.


As a choir member, I can vouch for that.


 
 But when someone here speaks of the One Reality,
 as I said earlier, they don't mean one privileged
 relative reality among many; they're talking about
 Ultimate Reality, i.e., the reality that 
 encompasses all the others, the reality *of* many
 realities.
 
 (There's also what's called consensus reality, of
 course, which is the everyday reality most of us
 operate in most of the time. In a sense, it's
 privileged because it's largely shared. Often those
 who live primarily in alternate realities have a bit
 of difficulty functioning.)


Or they just go mad. I decided to
find the Real for the sake of avoiding
total madness. It's touch and go. 



[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-03-31 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, endlessrainintoapapercup 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
wrote:
  snip
   I guess what I'm trying to say is that reality seems
   to be a concept that people whose realities don't
   change very quickly are interested in. They stay in
   pretty much the same state of consciousness for long
   periods of time. When reality changes on you more
   quickly -- say, dozens of times in an hour -- you 
   lose your fascination for the concept. Or at least 
   I did.
  
  (Note the implied value judgment, BTW.)
 
 It was noted. I was wondering whether
 or not to take it personally...

Naah. We're all in the same boat here relative
to Barry.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-03-31 Thread sandiego108
--- In 
FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Barry writes snipped:
 I'm completely *comfortable* with the notion of there
 being a Saganesque billions and billions of realities. 
 That poses no problem for me whatsoever. 
 
 TomT:
 For me it appears to be a Baskin and Robbins store with trillions 
of
 flavors and ultimately the only thing you can know is the flavor of
 you the perceiver. It has your flavor as it is filtered through the
 DNA you are made of. You impart the flavor by the act of 
perceiving.
 Have fun. TOm

so the Saganesque and Baskin and Robbins store containers are 
what each of you conceptually use as your metaphors for reality with 
a capital R. As someone said recently somewhere else, its a lot 
like ignorance, only with that 'darned' fullness.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Reality...what a concept

2008-03-31 Thread shempmcgurk
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Some comedian said that. I forget which one.
 But, as far as I can tell, he nailed it. Reality
 IS a concept.


1980 comedy album by Robin Williams:

http://tinyurl.com/2gopuu







 
 I'm just not convinced that the concept has...uh...
 reality *outside* of being a concept. 
 
 My experience, and the words of a few teachers I
 respect, has shown me that there are many realities,
 probably as many as their are points of view. And,
 to me, UC or BC as defined by Maharishi are Just
 Two More Points Of View. What individuals in this
 state of consciousness see is Just What They See,
 not reality.
 
 So for me reality is an empty concept; it doesn't
 float my boat. It just doesn't have any legs as 
 philosophical concepts go. Others may find the 
 concept fascinating. So it goes. 
 
 I'm more comfortable with realities. As in one or
 more for every point of view in the universe. As 
 in Maharishi's Knowledge is structured in consc-
 iousness. As in Castaneda's A Separate Reality. 
 
 Reality kinda loses its meaningfulness when you've
 sat in the desert and been flipped in and out of
 dozens of states of consciousness in an hour, and 
 in and out of an equal number of the *realities* 
 that go with each of those states of consciousness. 
 
 In one of those states of consciousness, it's just
 a normal night out in the desert. You've got yer
 stars, the sand, the wind, a bunch of humans sitting 
 in a circle watching another human as he stands in 
 the center of the circle. 
 
 In another of those states of consciousness, the 
 human in the center of the circle steps up off the 
 sand and walks around about three feet off the ground. 
 In another the stars start to move around. In another 
 the human in the center of the circle disappears. In 
 yet another, *you* disappear. 
 
 Which of these was reality? Which not?
 
 I think they were all reality -- from a particular
 set of points of view and states of consciousness, 
 as seen by individuals who don't exist, at a certain 
 moment in time, which also doesn't exist.  :-)
 
 The thing that I think Castaneda just nailed in his
 books is not that each of these separate realities 
 have different sets of rules -- operating systems 
 or laws of nature -- that apply to them. They also
 require different states of consciousness to be *in* 
 them. You can't fully remember these states of consc-
 iousness and their attendant realities *after* you're 
 no longer *in* them. You can't even fully *conceive* 
 of what they were from a different state of conscious-
 ness and point of view and *its* reality. It's just 
 the most frustrating thing in the world.
 
 But at the same time, it's a heckuva lot of fun.
 
 I guess what I'm trying to say is that reality seems
 to be a concept that people whose realities don't
 change very quickly are interested in. They stay in
 pretty much the same state of consciousness for long
 periods of time. When reality changes on you more
 quickly -- say, dozens of times in an hour -- you 
 lose your fascination for the concept. Or at least 
 I did.
 
 I'm completely *comfortable* with the notion of there
 being a Saganesque billions and billions of realities. 
 That poses no problem for me whatsoever. 
 
 Anybody else out there feel that way, or is it just me?