g_b IMPORTANT: PM's speech + Minister's remarks on S.377

2008-07-01 Thread lgbtindiagroup
courtesy lgbtindia

IMPORTANT: PM's speech + Minister's remarks on S.377

Just after the success of National Pride, a potentially big new
development. The Prime Minister has made a speech where he calls for
support for minority communities affected by HIV/AIDS, including
homosexuals, and says that legal barriers that prevent services
reaching them should go.

And at the same function Minister of State Oscar Fernandes finally
said it openly: Section 377 needs to go. This is something we really
need to move forward on.

For context, please note this mail I'd posted on QMC earlier about
the UNAIDS Commission on the Impact of HIV in Asia chaired by Dr.C.
Rangarajan. As expected the report is very positive on issues like
the need for legal change. I had posted the background and relevant
sections earlier on this list. If you want to read the full report
here's the link:

A basic story on the report:

http://www.unaids.org/en/KnowledgeCentre/Resources/FeatureStories/arch
ive/2008/20080326_asia_commission.asp

Full report:

http://data.unaids.org/pub/Report/2008/20080326_report_commission_aids
_en.pdf

Fact sheets (2):

http://data.unaids.org/pub/FactSheet/2008/20080326_fs_asiacommission_p
art1_en.pdf
http://data.unaids.org/pub/FactSheet/2008/20080326_fs_asiacommission_p
art2_en.pdf

Thanks to Dr.Rangarajan's position as one of the prime minister's
main advisors he was able to arrange a function where the report was
presented to the PM. This happened yesterday and I'd come to Delhi
for that (Pride was a bonus!). Anand Grover was there and Ashok was
supposed to be there too, but couldn't come.

It was all very high power, high security, protocol, etc, but worth
it because what was said was excellent. Dr.Rangarajan gave an
excellent speech outlining the commission's recommendations,
repeatedly mentioning the need to remove legal issues that complicate
HIV/AIDS outreach with Men who have Sex with Men.

Then the PM spoke, and as is characteristic with him, he was low key
and restrained. But the speech was longer than I expected and it
seemed quite heartfelt, especially towards the end. He did not
specifically promise to remove 377, but he spoke of the need to
remove stigmas and legal barriers facing all groups and, yes, he said
the word 'homosexual', rather endearingly stumbling a bit so it came
across as homossekssuals, but he said it!

Here is the link to the speech, the relevant portions and since its
so important I will paste the full speech anyway below:

http://www.pmindia.nic.in/lspeech.asp?id=691

The HIV/AIDS epidemic has brought into focus many of our social
prejudices. The overwhelming number of cases are due to transmission
through the sexual route. Strategies for tackling it require more
inclusive and less judgmental social approaches to questions of
public health and personal hygiene.

This must begin by addressing the issue of the social stigma that
attaches to those who carry the AIDS virus. I do believe that growing
consciousness about HIV/AIDS is forcing us to address these issues.


The government should play a leading role in this. We should work to
remove legislative barriers that hinder access of high-risk groups to
services. There is a proposal for a law which would penalize anyone
discriminating against an AIDS infected person from access to
employment, property or services. This should be given serious
consideration.


The fact that many of the vulnerable social groups, be they sex
workers or homosexuals or drug users, face great social prejudice has
made the task of identifying AIDS victims and treating them very
difficult.


If we have to win this fight against HIV/AIDS we have to create a
more tolerant social environment. One need not condone socially
unacceptable or medically inadvisable sexual practices in seeking a
more tolerant approach to the problem. It is in the interests of the
entire society that everyone afflicted by AIDS wins the battle
against it. They deserve and have the right to live lives of dignity.

If Dr.Singh was circumspect, the speaker who followed him, Oscar
Fernandes, the minister of state (independent charge) for Labour and
Employment, was not. He got up and said it (from my notes):

It is time for politicians to come together to repeal Section 377 of
the Indian Penal Code. Many other countries have repealed the law and
it is now time India moves forward on this.

For most people in the audience - institutions like UNAIDS, the
National AIDS Control Organisation, bureaucrats, a few lawyers and
journalists - this was electrifying. We were finally hearing a senior
member of the government, in the presence of the prime minister,
saying that S.377 needs to go! After the function was over and we
were having tea we descended on the Minister, who admitted he has
wondered about saying it, but after half an hour of discussion wit
advisors, he decided to go ahead.

It was amazing, but its also true that its questionable how much this
means in reality. This government seems 

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g_b What I Want (A gay Poem)

2008-07-01 Thread RAJEEV
What I Want 

 It's not about what I like 
what I like that doesn't like me 
cause I see happiness 
but it just gets run over 
I just get run over 
and somehow I'm a bad guy 
for making all those boys cry 
do you think I got what I wanted 
alone and clinging 
to this moment or that 
seeing smiles fade away 
waiting for a light to come on 
one small and distant but 
warm and welcome 
I want to be welcomed 
to be held 
to know why I can have it 
and it's nothing but wrong 
and when it's right it's nothing but gone 
it's all gone 
left me to hold my head up low 
for you to know a distant glow 
and me to see a beaten image 
a broken, shattered shell 
what was I to do when through 
it keeps breaking i keep trying 
there isn't anymore left 
i want to spin, sell, conjure 
find a way out 
complain and drain 
submit my statement and be done 
be done have fun hold you close 
let you know me 
know me from him and him and 
him again always again always again 
it's always again that him knew him 
and I knew them all and had them all 
and to have 
and have more 
makes you just a whore 
But don't we all want more 
or say we do 
and screw 
and move from you to you to you 
and I'm sad this lad said no 
and that lad said ho 
and my dad said whoa 
where did you go 
where did I go 
wrong to want the world to work 
just to expect it 
expect what you know and 
never, never to grow

Forwarded By Rajeev

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g_b The support of the band

2008-07-01 Thread Kris Bass
Hey all,

Some of you might know that I have a (hindi) rock band called Shor
Bazaar. I am out to them and am very open about my sexuality and
personal life etc.

Yesterday, after the GayBombay Sunday meet at Bandra, I was lounging
at one of our bandmate's apartment discussing some songwriting etc. I
suddenly felt like asking 'Guys, would you guys be interested in
playing at a GB party?'

It took a brief second. But only that.

'Yes, why not?'

I was surprised at first.

'Are you sure?'

'Yeah, we'd love to support you and GB.'

I felt the warm feeling of relief and comfort. I thought it was pretty
cool of the band to actually say that.

If you have time, please check out these pages and listen to our
music. The lyrics are not gay related or anything though.

http://myspace.com/bazaarshor
http://bazaarshor.blogspot.com

Cheers,

Kris
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Re: g_b IMPORTANT: PM's speech + Minister's remarks on S.377

2008-07-01 Thread Manoj
WAT!
 
A minister of state and the PM saying this and no less??
wow man ..m i proud i chose to stay back in the country after all!   :-)
 
Also where does this leave the case coming up for hearing tomorrow as the head 
of the Govt and a minister are openly being party to the act being changed in 
our favour
 
Rgds
Manoj

--- On Tue, 1/7/08, lgbtindiagroup [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

From: lgbtindiagroup [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: g_b IMPORTANT: PM's speech + Minister's remarks on S.377
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 1 July, 2008, 3:23 PM






courtesy lgbtindia

IMPORTANT: PM's speech + Minister's remarks on S.377

Just after the success of National Pride, a potentially big new
development. The Prime Minister has made a speech where he calls for
support for minority communities affected by HIV/AIDS, including
homosexuals, and says that legal barriers that prevent services
reaching them should go.

And at the same function Minister of State Oscar Fernandes finally
said it openly: Section 377 needs to go. This is something we really
need to move forward on.

For context, please note this mail I'd posted on QMC earlier about
the UNAIDS Commission on the Impact of HIV in Asia chaired by Dr.C.
Rangarajan. As expected the report is very positive on issues like
the need for legal change. I had posted the background and relevant
sections earlier on this list. If you want to read the full report
here's the link:

A basic story on the report:

http://www.unaids. org/en/Knowledge Centre/Resources /FeatureStories/ arch
ive/2008/20080326_ asia_commission. asp

Full report:

http://data. unaids.org/ pub/Report/ 2008/20080326_ report_commissio n_aids
_en.pdf

Fact sheets (2):

http://data. unaids.org/ pub/FactSheet/ 2008/20080326_ fs_asiacommissio n_p
art1_en.pdf
http://data. unaids.org/ pub/FactSheet/ 2008/20080326_ fs_asiacommissio n_p
art2_en.pdf

Thanks to Dr.Rangarajan' s position as one of the prime minister's
main advisors he was able to arrange a function where the report was
presented to the PM. This happened yesterday and I'd come to Delhi
for that (Pride was a bonus!). Anand Grover was there and Ashok was
supposed to be there too, but couldn't come.

It was all very high power, high security, protocol, etc, but worth
it because what was said was excellent. Dr.Rangarajan gave an
excellent speech outlining the commission's recommendations,
repeatedly mentioning the need to remove legal issues that complicate
HIV/AIDS outreach with Men who have Sex with Men.

Then the PM spoke, and as is characteristic with him, he was low key
and restrained. But the speech was longer than I expected and it
seemed quite heartfelt, especially towards the end. He did not
specifically promise to remove 377, but he spoke of the need to
remove stigmas and legal barriers facing all groups and, yes, he said
the word 'homosexual' , rather endearingly stumbling a bit so it came
across as homossekssuals , but he said it!

Here is the link to the speech, the relevant portions and since its
so important I will paste the full speech anyway below:

http://www.pmindia. nic.in/lspeech. asp?id=691

The HIV/AIDS epidemic has brought into focus many of our social
prejudices. The overwhelming number of cases are due to transmission
through the sexual route. Strategies for tackling it require more
inclusive and less judgmental social approaches to questions of
public health and personal hygiene.

This must begin by addressing the issue of the social stigma that
attaches to those who carry the AIDS virus. I do believe that growing
consciousness about HIV/AIDS is forcing us to address these issues.

The government should play a leading role in this. We should work to
remove legislative barriers that hinder access of high-risk groups to
services. There is a proposal for a law which would penalize anyone
discriminating against an AIDS infected person from access to
employment, property or services. This should be given serious
consideration.

The fact that many of the vulnerable social groups, be they sex
workers or homosexuals or drug users, face great social prejudice has
made the task of identifying AIDS victims and treating them very
difficult.

If we have to win this fight against HIV/AIDS we have to create a
more tolerant social environment. One need not condone socially
unacceptable or medically inadvisable sexual practices in seeking a
more tolerant approach to the problem. It is in the interests of the
entire society that everyone afflicted by AIDS wins the battle
against it. They deserve and have the right to live lives of dignity.

If Dr.Singh was circumspect, the speaker who followed him, Oscar
Fernandes, the minister of state (independent charge) for Labour and
Employment, was not. He got up and said it (from my notes):

It is time for politicians to come together to repeal Section 377 of
the Indian Penal Code. Many other countries have repealed the law and
it is now time India moves forward on this.

For most 

g_b Queer Eye

2008-07-01 Thread shibu
Its finally here! The groundbreaking reality show Queer Eye for The 
Str8 Guy is premiering on July 6  Sun on Travel and Living at 11 pm.

Kudos to channels like TL, Zee Cafe and Star World for their queer 
programmes.

For more info on the show chk
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queer_Eye

shibu



g_b Sudhagad Trek Registrations Closed!!!

2008-07-01 Thread GayBombay Events
Thankyou for an overwhelming response to the GayBombay Trek to Sudhagad. Since 
all the 50 places have been taken we have closed registrations. However, we do 
continue to receive registration requests.

Much as we would like to take everybody on the trek we have limitations imposed 
on the number of persons by the trek guides. The time required to climb up the 
fort is directly proportional to the number of persons in the group. A average 
group of 20-25 person require 2 hours, group of 50 may require an approximate 
of 3 hours. Any further additions of numbers would make the ascend longer 
leaving no time for any activity on the Fort. It causes us immense pain to turn 
down requests but have no choice.

We are have appealed to persons who have secured confirmed places to inform us 
immediately if any unforeseen circumstances are keeping them from the trek. In 
that case their places could be given those who are wait listed. Their 
contributions would also be refunded.

Those who have just missed the bus, please keep your fingers crossed, who knows 
you may be lucky!

Radhey