g_b Fwd: LGBT life in Iraq (3 short videos, featuring Ali Hili, Iraqi LGBT, London)

2009-03-01 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
-- Forwarded message --
From: Wintemute, Robert
Date: 26 Feb 2009 22:54
Subject: LGBT life in Iraq (3 short videos, featuring Ali Hili, Iraqi LGBT,
London)

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ajSopj95CU (Queer Fear 1 - 2005-2006)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ROUBqSkhO9U (Queer Fear 2 - 2007-2008 -
Part One)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gVMH_PsmKBwNR=1 (Queer Fear 2 - 2007-2008
- Part Two)

**
**
*From:* IRAQI LGBT [mailto:iraqil...@yahoo.co.uk]
*Sent:* 25 February 2009 22:37
*Subject:* Iraq's queer underground railroad - Please read this article and
leave your comments.

   A secret network of safe houses and escape routes is saving gay Iraqis
from execution by Islamist death squads

* Peter Tatchell
*
* guardian.co.uk
*, Wednesday 25 February

In the bad old days of slavery in the United States, there was the 
*Underground Railroad* http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Underground_Railroad
– a clandestine network of secret routes and safe houses – which spirited
thousands of southern slaves to freedom in the north. Today, 200 years later
in Iraq, a modern version of the underground railroad is saving the lives of
gay people who are fleeing Islamist death squads. It is providing safe
houses in Baghdad and other Iraqi cities, and is smuggling lesbian, gay,
bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people to neighbouring countries, where it
helps them apply for United Nations humanitarian protection. This secret
network, coordinated by
*Iraqi LGBT exiles* http://iraqilgbtuk.blogspot.com/ in London, is saving
dozens of lives. Since the fall of Saddam Hussein, homophobia and the
terrorisation of LGBT people has got much worse. The western invasion of
Iraq in 2003 ended the tyrannical Baathist dictatorship. But it also
destroyed a secular state, created chaos and lawlessness and allowed the
flourishing of religious fundamentalism. The result has been an
Islamist-inspired homophobic terror campaign against LGBT Iraqis.
You can watch two short videos, which show the terror of queer life in
democratic Iraq
*here* http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ajSopj95CU and
*here*http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ROUBqSkhO9U.
This campaign of terror is sanctioned by Iraq's leading Shia cleric, Grand
Ayatollah Ali al-Sistani. In 2005, he issued
*a fatwa* http://www.petertatchell.net/international/sistani.htm urging
the killing of LGBT people in the worst, most severe way possible. This is
the same Sistani who was praised by President Bush as a leading moderate.
The British government concurred. We hosted him in Britain for medical
treatment. He was anti-Saddam, so the west backed him, even after he issued
his murderous religious edicts.
Although the general security situation has improved in Iraq, for LGBT
people it has deteriorated sharply. Systematic assassinations of queers are
being orchestrated by police and security agents in the interior ministry,
many of whom are former members of the Iranian-backed Badr Corps militia.
Queers are being shot dead in their homes, streets and workplaces. Even
suspected
*gay children* http://www.petertatchell.net/international/ahmed.htm are
being murdered. They killers claim to be doing these assassinations at the
behest of the democratic Iraqi government, in order to eradicate what they
see as immoral, un-Islamic behaviour. This programme of
*targeted 
murders*http://commentisfree.guardian.co.uk/peter_tatchell/2007/03/iraqs_homophobic_terror.htmlhas
one aim, according to the death squads: the total eradication of all
queers from Iraq. It is, in effect, a form of *sexual
cleansing*http://www.petertatchell.net/international/islamistdeathsquadshuntinggayiraqis.htm.
The killers boast that most sodomites have already been eliminated.

The interior ministry is, of course, a key ministry in the UK-backed and
US-backed government of Iraq. Some democracy! In fact, there is no democracy
or human rights at all for Iraqi queers. If the government in Baghdad is not
actively encouraging the mass killing of LGBT people, it is definitely
allowing rogue police and Islamists to do so. To protect against this terror
and save lives, the
*Iraqi LGBT* http://iraqilgbtuk.blogspot.com/ organisation has created its
underground queer railroad, complete with safe houses and escape routes. Since
establishing the safe houses project in 2006 we have provided refuge for
dozens of gay people who were being hunted by death squads, reports Ali
Hili, coordinator of Iraqi LGBT.
We have also assisted people to escape from Iraq to neighbouring countries,
where we have established resettlement projects. Our efforts have got gay
refugees registered with the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees
(UNHCR), and we've already moved some of them a third safer country, in
Europe or North America. These lucky ones are now beginning to rebuild their
lives, Mr Hili said
K is a 33-year-old architect who escaped to Amman in Jordan. He now helps
run the Iraqi LGBT support group there, aiding other LGBT refugees from
Iraq. So far, seven 

Re: g_b Re: A Query

2009-03-01 Thread Sanjay Lulla
Guys

I feel that here we are dealing with an aversion to sex, people when are in the 
process of the trauma of coming in terms with their identity as a gay person do 
tend to think that sex is horrible. They feel that by rejecting sex or the 
biologcal needs of the body they are in some manner raitonalising themself. Its 
a state of self denial. Its part of the battle and we have to be supportive. 
Cheer up guys its perfectly normal and sound and safe.
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 





From: Nayan Sawant lonelyna...@yahoo.in
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Saturday, February 28, 2009 3:32:46 PM
Subject: Re: g_b Re: A Query


Oh! Aditya,

Your reply is so harsh...on the guy who is very young student, traumatised, Who 
is new here and looking for friends, and little confused between prostitution 
and sex with each others consent. When person reads something on which he 
really want to coment and very curious to find answers of his queries.. then 
these mistakes are rare which happens by everyone I dont find anywhere in 
his statement that he tried to hurt anybody's sentiments (he just used 
prostitute which he dont have to use).
Please try to understand his point of view...there were many bad events 
happened in his life..and happening..hope he wont take your words so seriously 
that those causes him depression or something.


 

--- On Fri, 27/2/09, Aditya Bondyopadhyay adit.b...@gmail. com wrote:

 From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay adit.b...@gmail. com
 Subject: Re: g_b Re: A Query
 To: gay_bom...@yahoogro ups.com
 Date: Friday, 27 February, 2009, 11:23 AM 

 Well shatru, if they are not paying you they are not
 expecting you to be a
 prostitute in the first place because prostitution and/or
 sex work is
 directly linked to a transaction in lieu of sex. In other
 words you used the
 word prostitute to highlight something that you do not
 approve of, even
 though the usage itself is incorrect in the context. So it
 prove that you
 have a prejudice against prostitutes, which stems from
 reasons that I cannot
 fathom, for no prostitute seems to have targeted you on
 this list.
 
 Bigots like you who hate merely for hate's sake are a
 blot on the inclusive
 list that this one hopes to become and probably will if
 brain dead morons
 like you decide at some point that it may be a good thing
 to think
 before you spout your prejudiced derogatory sentiments
 about an entire
 professional class.
 
 Prostitues and/or sex workers are human beings with dignity
 who are merely
 trying to earn a decent living by selling a product/service
 and meeting a
 market demand. You have no right to load this profession
 with your idiotic
 bigotry.
 
 Aditya Bondyopadhyay
 
 
 On 20/02/2009, shatru_lovely shatru_lovely@ yahoo.in
 wrote:
 
  My experience is most of the gays expect only sex
 and not a
  friendship. They expect you to be a male-prostitute
 and expect only
  sex and nothing else. Naturally if you deny that they
 immediately
  end the relationship.
  Sorry I am too blunt. At young age I got an acidic
 experience. Your
  views and experience may differ.
 
  Shatru ( Shatrughna)
 
  --- In gay_bom...@yahoogro ups.com
 gay_bombay%40yahoogroups. com, 

  boyfriend_pune
  boyfriend_pune@ ... wrote:
  
   hello
   following could be the reasons:
   - that person when starts friendship may be in
 good position, but
  after
   few months when there are svere up-downs in his
 life, so while
  facing
   them he cannot share it with you ( one may take
 it in wrong way )
   particularly if it is financial or marriage
 problem. then he is
  not in
   contact with you, or keeps mum. when that phase
 is over, he may
   approach to you, but already u misunderstood him.
   - some times he may afraid that the family
 members will come to
  know
   about his gayness, when he is in contact with
 you. to avoid
   complications better to keep mum.
  
   - it happend with me. when i joined this grup, i
 came to know
  about two
   persons. before that i didnt know that they were
 gay. i started
   communicating thr email with them. am afraid, if
 i will personally
  meet
   them and refer this grup, my family members and
 scoiety around
  will
   come to know our gayness. neither of us is out.
   - many a times am in financial trouble, but if i
 share it with
  friends
   from the grup they me feel that i want money from
 them. i have to
  face
   my problem.
   - with few members i communicated, but letter
 not, as our status
  was
   very different. it shuld not happen that they
 feel that i am
  seeking
   some kind of help from them all the time.
  
  
   - aaj phir jine ki tamanna hai
   aaj phir marane ka irada hai
  
   regards
  
   --- In gay_bom...@yahoogro ups.com
 gay_bombay%40yahoogroups. com, Sanjay
  Lulla
  sanjay_lulla2000@
   wrote:
   
I have a query. I have observed this in gay
 people that one day
  the
   appear to be best of friends, all ahhs n oh ohs
 hugs and one fine
  

g_b Bottom here...

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i m 34 yr old bottom lookin for decent tops from bombay i stay in western 
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g_b Fwd: LGBT Families: Hungary and Portugal (ILGA-Europe's Euroletter 162, Feb 2009)

2009-03-01 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
-- Forwarded message --
From: Wintemute, Robert
Date: 26 Feb 2009 00:32

 *LGBT FAMILIES*

* **Hungarian Government Approves New Registered Partnership Bill*

 *by Tamás Dombos, Háttér Society for LGBT People, tdom...@gmail.com*

 Budapest, February 11, 2009 – The Hungarian Government has approved today a
new bill on registered partnership. The bill replaces a previous law on
registered partnership that was struck down by the Constitutional Court in
December 2008 just weeks before its supposed entry into force. As opposed to
the previous version, the new bill introduces the institution of registered
partnership only for same sex couples, however, it also introduces a
different scheme of domestic partnership registration for both same sex and
different sex couples. Support for the bill in the Parliament is still an
open question.

 Two months ago, on December 15, 2008 the Hungarian Constitutional Court
ruled that the law on registered partnership adopted by the Hungarian
Parliament a year earlier was unconstitutional. The Court found that the
solution chosen by the legislator – i.e. creating an institution similar to
marriage for both same sex and different sex couples – duplicates the
institution of marriage for different sex couples, and thus contradicts the
special protection of marriage enshrined in the Constitution. On the other
hand the Court also held that same sex couples have the right to an
institution similar to marriage. Within a day Prime Minister Ferenc
Gyurcsány instructed the Minister of Justice and Law Enforcement to prepare
a new bill on registered partnership taking into account the opinion of the
Court. After consultations with various LGBT organizations, the Ministry
prepared a new bill that has been approved by the Government today.

 The new bill retains much of the content of the previous bill with one
exception: the institution of registered partnership would only be available
to same sex couples. Establishment and dissolution of registered
partnerships would be the same as for marriage, and registered partners
would be entitled to most of the rights available for married couples.
Notable exceptions are the right to take the partners' name and the right to
adopt children. Besides introducing registered partnerships for same sex
couples, the bill would also introduce a new scheme for registering domestic
partnerships. Unlike registered partnership, this new opportunity would not
grant any new rights or duties to couples cohabiting without marriage, but
would only make it easier for them to prove the existence of such a
relationship. This second registration scheme would be available to both
same sex and different sex couples.

 Although the Government fully supports the new bill, its adoption by the
Parliament is still an open question. Hungary currently has a minority
government after the liberals left the government coalition early last year.
Conservative opposition parties heavily criticized the previous bill on the
account that it introduced same sex marriage under a different name. It is
yet to be seen whether their position has changed as a result of the
Constitutional Court declaring such an institution a constitutional right.
Based on parliamentary mathematics the bill has a high chance of being
passed: governing parties hardly ever vote against proposals by their own
government and the liberals fully support the new bill. It is, however, very
hard to predict how delicate negotiations involved in running a minority
government will affect voting on the bill.

 *Portugal**: important steps towards equal access to marriage *

 *by Paulo Corte Real, Associação ILGA Portugal*

 There is an upcoming election for Parliament in Portugal this year and
same-sex marriage is currently a key political issue.

 In Portugal, unregistered civil unions are available for all couples
(including same-sex couples) since 2001; and the Portuguese Constitution
explicitly forbids discrimination based on sexual orientation since 2004.
This constitutional provision and the resonance of the Spanish example have
been particularly relevant in the fight for same-sex marriage in Portugal,
that has included several initiatives, such as:

   - a Petition promoted by Associação ILGA Portugal, that was recently
   discussed in Parliament
   - a court case regarding a lesbian couple that tried to get married; the
   case has now reached the Constitutional Court and also generated the
   publication of several books by legal experts on same-sex marriage;
   - bill proposals by two minority parties, Bloco de Esquerda and Partido
   Ecologista “Os Verdes”, that were recently rejected in Parliament.

 All these initiatives have led to a wide debate and to a growing public
support for same-sex marriage.

 The Socialist Party has recently re-elected the current Prime-Minister,
José Sócrates, as its leader and the motion he presented for re-election
included a commitment to equal access to marriage. 

Re: g_b need a friend

2009-03-01 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
And while you are at it, what happens to the girl/woman with whom you are
living the simple married life.?? May be you should try and find her a part
time lover/BF as well, after all men and women are equals and should be
treated similarly with regards to 'fun', no??

I hope you agree with me..!!

But if you do not, I would be very interested in knowing why a double
standard should be applied between you and your married wife...!!

Best, and wish you fun...
Aditya B

On 01/03/2009, rahultransexual rahultransex...@yahoo.in wrote:

   hi,
 i am a cd,i am living a simple married life. but i think that i am a
 woman in man body. sometimes i want to dressup like a girl and want a
 boyfriend. is there anyone like me so i can meet my dreams. i want to
 dressup like a girl and want to fun

  




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g_b File - Tired of too many mails?

2009-03-01 Thread gay_bombay

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g_b Fwd: [Call for Participants] Study on South Asian Transgender graduate students in the U.S.

2009-03-01 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
-- Forwarded message --
From: Rashmi rashmi_chok...@yahoo.com
Date: 24 Feb 2009 00:39

  Please feel free to forward to your friends and appropriate listservs.

Rashmi

- Forwarded Message 
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To: Rashmi rashmi_chok...@yahoo.com rashmi_choksey%40yahoo.com
Sent: Monday, February 23, 2009 8:00:59 AM
Subject: Hi/Request?

Hi Rashmi,

I was wondering if you would be willing to send out an email about my
research project on my behalf as I am looking for participants.

Call for Participants

Title of Research Project:
Gender identity and expression: Voices of South Asian transgender graduate
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Minimum criterion to participate in the study includes:
1. Must identify as South Asian or South Asian by Diaspora
2. Must self identify under the umbrella term transgender
3. Must be a current graduate student or enrolling in graduate studies in
fall 2009 at a US college or university
4. Must be a U.S citizen or Permanent Resident

The primary purpose for this research project is in partial completion of a
doctoral level course, EAD 966 College Student Development Theory. Phone
interviews will be conducted and confidentiality of all participants will be
maintained under the regulations of the Social
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g_b File - Personal Advertisements

2009-03-01 Thread gay_bombay

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Re: g_b I PROTEST TO MODERATORS

2009-03-01 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
Salil,

Did you expect that this mail was not transported to that specific folder
prior to your prompting..?? Please have another thought coming..!! Yours
truly is very aware of his capacity for periodical bouts of drama, and also
of acknowledging it with due transportation to that 'good folder'.!!

Aditya


On 01/03/2009, Salil salilmum...@yahoo.com wrote:


 Aditya

 This tirade from you would squarely fit into the email folder for drama
 that you frequently mention when making fun of others' emails. Maybe the
 delete button that you advise everyone else to use, doesn't work for you ?

 Salil

 From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay adit.b...@gmail.com
 Subject: g_b I PROTEST TO MODERATORS
 To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
 Date: Thursday, 26 February, 2009, 12:52 PM

  There should be a moderation policy on the size of the attachment that
 can
 be posted. This is ridiculous where 1.6MB is sent as attachment clogging up
 our mailbox size and prolonging download time when we may not even be
 interested in the song or whatever. Especially when a mere link can easily
 be sent for the song after uploading it on Rapidshare or Sendspace, if the
 sender is so eager that their silly song be heard on the list.

 I protest and say that such huge files when they are impertinant is to be
 weeded out. Only huge files that are related to LGBT issues should be
 allowed.

 I demand that moderators reply soon on this issue with a clear policy.

 Best regards
 Aditya Bondyopadhyay

  =

 you got a point. no more big files and all relevant files will be uploaded
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g_b File - Photo Album

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g_b LGBT/HIV Quote (India) from US State Dept Report on Global Human Rights

2009-03-01 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
Dear Friends,
This quoted below is the Segment from the US state Dept Global Human Rights
Report, that pertains to the LGBT/HIV situation in India. It quotes the NACO
Policy, the 377 case, the Karnataka arrests, the UNDP Launda Dancers report,
and the Sanju Behara case. The report can be accessed at the following URL:

http://www.state.gov/g/drl/rls/hrrpt/2008/sca/119134.htm

Full report can be accessed at the following URL:

http://www.state.gov/g/drl/rls/hrrpt/2008/index.htm

Best regards,
Aditya Bondyopadhyay

And the relevant portion is pasted below:

Other Societal Abuses and Discrimination


The law punishes acts of sodomy and bestiality; however, the law was often
used to target, harass, and punish lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender
persons. Gays and lesbians faced discrimination in all areas of society,
including family, work, and education. Activists reported that in most
cases, homosexuals who did not hide their orientation were fired from their
jobs. Homosexuals also faced physical attacks, rape, and blackmail. Police
committed crimes against homosexuals and used the threat of arrest to coerce
victims into not reporting the incidents.


Voices Against 377, a high profile campaign to overturn Section 377, which
outlaws homosexuality, continued its efforts during the year. On August 27,
the Law Ministry rejected the demand of the Health Ministry to legalize
homosexuality.


In 2006 the Supreme Court ruled that the Delhi High Court should not have
dismissed an earlier case challenging Section 377 brought by two NGOs and
returned the case to the Delhi High Court, which began hearings on September
18. The government opposed the case based upon the Ministry of Home Affairs'
view that homosexuality is morally wrong. On November 7, the Delhi High
Court allowed litigants one week to present final statements. The case
continued at year's end.


On May 21, 40 gay and transgender groups collaborated on a bid for funding
from the International Global Fund for AIDS, Tuberculosis, and Malaria
(GFATM). The occasion marked the first time the groups had formed a united
front to secure benefits for their cause.


On August 28, the Home Ministry informed the Delhi High Court that it was
not empowered to issue directions to treat transsexuals as a special class
entitled to jobs and other benefits. The Ministry was responding to the
Public Interest Litigation regarding the dismissal of Sanju Behra from the
CRPF on the grounds of gender ambiguity. Notices were issued to the CISF,
Home Ministry, Ministry of Women and Child Development, and the Health
Ministry during the year.


In December the central government submitted a report which asserted that
legalizing homosexuality would lead to more cases of HIV/AIDS.


In March 2007 the UN Development Program released a report on launda
dancers, young men and boys hired to dance in women's clothing at various
events in Bihar and Uttar Pradesh. Dancers were vulnerable to exploitation
by being cheated of earnings or being forced into prostitution. Sexual
assault and gang rape were frequent, and dancers were at high risk of
contracting HIV/AIDS. Some laundas who had illegal castrations to join the
hijra (traditional transvestite) community suffered from post operation
complications due to inadequate medical care.


According to the National AIDS Control Organization (NACO), the government
agency responsible for monitoring HIV/AIDS, there were approximately 2.3
million persons living with HIV/AIDS in the country, and according to the
International Labor Organization (ILO), 70 percent of persons suffering from
HIV/AIDS faced discrimination. HRW reported that many doctors refused to
treat HIV-positive children and that some schools expelled or segregated
them because they or their parents were HIV-positive. Many orphanages and
other residential institutions rejected HIV-positive children or denied them
housing.


NACO, with support from UNAIDS and the WHO, produced revised AIDS estimates
that showed as of December 2007 approximately 2.31 million persons were
living with the virus and that HIV prevalence among adults was around 0.36
percent. Estimates for previous years (since 2002) have also been revised.


On February 14, an AIDS victim's body was denied cremation in Kendrapara
district, Orissa, due to fears the smoke from the funeral pyre would spread
the virus.


On August 13, Kerala became the first state to reserve government jobs for
HIV-positive candidates.


On August 14, an initiative to provide insurance to persons with HIV/AIDS
was launched in Karnataka. The state estimated that 250,000 residents were
infected with HIV/AIDS; however, only 22,000 were registered with the main
HIV/AIDS NGO, the Karnataka Network for Positive People.


In Karnataka, civil society organizations alleged that since the May
elections there was an increased intolerance on the part of police. On
October 20, police in Bangalore arrested five hijras on unclear charges.
When representatives 

g_b File - just in case you did not know

2009-03-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hi.


I am sure you are enjoying reading the thought provoking, at times 
funny, at times informative mails and also seeing the JPGs/pictures 
that members post on this list

However, at times you may get a lot of mail and it may flood your 
email box.

If you feel flustered and feel that there are too many emails, I'd 
like to remind you that you don't have to leave just to stop us from 
clogging your inbox. 

You have the option of

1) getting your mails in digest form (however you will not be able 
to see the pictures in this format)
Daily digest ... once or twice a day, you will receive an
email -- text only -- listing all new postings ... just click on the
messages link at the top of the digest to go to the web archive to 
see any
attachments.)



2) or you can view mails directly on the web... and choose the 
option ...
you can see what's new on the website and still keep a clear
mailbox. You will never receive mail from us if you do that. YOU 
choose
when to visit us ... and you can check out what you like and can 
skip over
what doesn't interest you.


3)no email option

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g_b File - Personal Replies To Advertisements

2009-03-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hello

please reply to the concerned person directly in case you want to
reply to someone who has posted a personal email.

please CLICK ON THE PERSON'S EMAIL ADDRESS while replying to him .
this will enable you to send a mail to the person with whom you want
to communicate.

if you click on the reply button, the message will go the entire
group. it is unfair and many persons have complained that they do
not want personal correspondence in their box.


Individual personal replies to one another will NOT BE CARRIED on
this list until and unless it is relevant to the entire group

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g_b Monday Melody - scherzo

2009-03-01 Thread asfan
 
I don't remember if I had posted this before.  If so, please excuse the 
repition. And accept my apologies.
A.
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A prostitute, who was also a Cricket fan, had a tattoo of Brett Lee and Shane 
Warne on the inside of her thighs.

She says to one of her regular customers, If you can guess who they are, you 
get a free shag. 

He looks to the left and then to the right and says I dunno who those ugly 
bastards are but the one in the middle with the fat lips and curly hair is 
Andrew Symonds! 

 



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Re: g_b I PROTEST TO MODERATORS

2009-03-01 Thread tapeshm
Dear Moderator ,
Please avoid emailing me with a huge attachment -- it Clogs up my box 
completely . I have only 5 MB of space within my email id !
Thanks 
Tapesh
London









 Message Received: Mar 01 2009, 11:20 AM
 From: Salil 
 To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
 Cc: 
 Subject: Re: g_b I PROTEST TO MODERATORS
 
  
 Aditya 
 
 This tirade from you would squarely fit into the email folder for drama 
 that you frequently mention when making fun of others' emails. Maybe the 
 delete button that you advise everyone else to use, doesn't work for you ?
 
 Salil
 
 
From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay com
 Subject: g_b I PROTEST TO MODERATORS
 To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
 Date: Thursday, 26 February, 2009, 12:52 PM
 
 
 There should be a moderation policy on the size of the attachment that can
 be posted. This is ridiculous where 1.6MB is sent as attachment clogging up
 our mailbox size and prolonging download time when we may not even be
 interested in the song or whatever. Especially when a mere link can easily
 be sent for the song after uploading it on Rapidshare or Sendspace, if the
 sender is so eager that their silly song be heard on the list.
 
 I protest and say that such huge files when they are impertinant is to be
 weeded out. Only huge files that are related to LGBT issues should be
 allowed.
 
 I demand that moderators reply soon on this issue with a clear policy.
 
 Best regards
 Aditya Bondyopadhyay
 
  =
 
 you got a point. no more big files and all relevant files will be uploaded to 
 the file section if it exceeds 1 mb.
 
 Regards
 
 Moderator
 

 


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RE: g_b Tell me which bisexual man doesnt lead a double life?

2009-03-01 Thread ARUN LAKRA

BISEXUAL MEN...virtue of them being married, most of them call 
themselvesBISEXUAL.Considering this, and given a chance they would want to 
sleep with a man/ men ONLY.The only woman they will sleep with is their 
wives..Have known quite a few of them, and the optimum utilisation of being 
gay is at its peak...whlie they travel/ have place etc etc etc.Whatever the 
circumstances they got married in...most of it is FAMILY PRESSURE/ SOCIETAL 
PRESSURE.eventually who gets cheated THE WIVES.And seeing our Male 
dominated society FIRE (movie) was much criticised.acceptance of woman 
cheating on their husbands is something alien in our country (though things 
happen)...Not OUR TRADITIONis what is said.Regards,Arun
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
From: premakos...@yahoo.com
Date: Sun, 1 Mar 2009 06:44:36 -0800
Subject: g_b Tell me which bisexual man doesnt lead a double life?






















Hi Adi,

This is quite common among bi and married men. Tell me which bisexual man 
doesnt lead a double life? In facts their women are being cheated. We cannot 
question or expect any change in such guys' behavior.

Nothing to contradict you or hurt anyone's feeling, but this is the truth.

Thanks,

SRIRAM 
 
KEEP SMILING AND STAY HEALTHY

--- On Sun, 3/1/09, Aditya Bondyopadhyay
 adit.b...@gmail.com wrote:
From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay adit.b...@gmail.com
Subject: Re: g_b need a friend
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, March 1, 2009, 4:39 AM









And while you are at it, what happens to the girl/woman with whom 
you are living the simple married life.?? May be you should try and find her a 
part time lover/BF as well, after all men and women are equals and should be 
treated similarly with regards to 'fun', no??


I hope you agree with me..!! 

But if you do not, I would be very interested in knowing why a double standard 
should be applied between you and your married wife...!!

Best, and wish you fun...
Aditya B



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hi,

i am a cd,i am living a simple married life. but i think that i am a 

woman in man body. sometimes i want to dressup like a girl and want a 

boyfriend. is there anyone like me so i can meet my dreams. i want to 

dressup like a girl and want to fun





 

  




















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