g_b File - E mail problems?

2011-02-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hi

Have you stopped getting emails from this group suddenly? It is highly unlikely 
that your name has been deleted from the list. We do not delete anybody’s 
membership until and unless the person repeatedly spams or sends 
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 you might not be getting your mails is because  your email is on the bouncing 
list. Some members have trouble with bouncing e-mails: Messages that are sent 
out by the group cannot be delivered to their mailboxes and are sent back to 
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g_b File - Tired of too many mails?

2011-02-01 Thread gay_bombay

Tired of too many emails from this group?  

Hi All

I know that this group has been generating too many emails. Many 
subscribers are flustered at the number of mails. Some of you might 
be thinking of leaving the group because you do not like your mail 
box to be clogged with mails.

But just in case you do not know, you have the option of receiving 
all your emails in a digest mode or you can opt for no email mode. 


That way, you can see what's new on the website and still keep a 
clear mailbox. You will never receive mail from us if you do that. 
YOU choose when to visit us ... and you can check out what you like 
and can skip over what doesn't interest you.

(Or choose Daily digest ... once or twice a day, you will receive 
an email -- text only -- listing all new postings ... just click on 
the messages link at the top of the digest to go to the web 
archive to see any attachments.)

How ?

Depending on what you opt for, you can send mail to:

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No Mail Mode:- gay_bombay-nom...@yahoogroups.com

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g_b File - Photo Album

2011-02-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hi all,   I just created a  photo-site. You can view  the photos at the 
following link - http://gaybombay.picsquare.com/album/Default Album 

There will be no nude pictures in this album. Members are welcome to send 
pictures of men, preferably south asian though not necessarily so. 

But please do send non nude, non porno pictures. Once you send the pictures, I 
shall try and add them to the album.

Regards

Moderator


g_b File - just in case you did not know

2011-02-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hi.


I am sure you are enjoying reading the thought provoking, at times 
funny, at times informative mails and also seeing the JPGs/pictures 
that members post on this list

However, at times you may get a lot of mail and it may flood your 
email box.

If you feel flustered and feel that there are too many emails, I'd 
like to remind you that you don't have to leave just to stop us from 
clogging your inbox. 

You have the option of

1) getting your mails in digest form (however you will not be able 
to see the pictures in this format)
Daily digest ... once or twice a day, you will receive an
email -- text only -- listing all new postings ... just click on the
messages link at the top of the digest to go to the web archive to 
see any
attachments.)



2) or you can view mails directly on the web... and choose the 
option ...
you can see what's new on the website and still keep a clear
mailbox. You will never receive mail from us if you do that. YOU 
choose
when to visit us ... and you can check out what you like and can 
skip over
what doesn't interest you.


3)no email option

I hope this helps. The commands for choosing the various modes are 
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Mail to gay_bombay-nom...@yahoogroups.com 

Want to directly read mails on Internet?

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g_b File - Personal Replies To Advertisements

2011-02-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hello

please reply to the concerned person directly in case you want to
reply to someone who has posted a personal email.

please CLICK ON THE PERSON'S EMAIL ADDRESS while replying to him .
this will enable you to send a mail to the person with whom you want
to communicate.

if you click on the reply button, the message will go the entire
group. it is unfair and many persons have complained that they do
not want personal correspondence in their box.


Individual personal replies to one another will NOT BE CARRIED on
this list until and unless it is relevant to the entire group

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g_b File - Essentials

2011-02-01 Thread gay_bombay

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g_b File - Emergency Number.doc

2011-02-01 Thread gay_bombay


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Re: g_b The Digital Afterlife of the Queer

2011-02-01 Thread geldmann281
Nice article!

I think we're gonna see more such creative minds from the gay circles coming 
out bold soon!

Srini.
Sent via BlackBerry®

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Subject: g_b The Digital Afterlife of the Queer


The Digital Afterlife of the Queer


Posted: Mon Jan 31 2011, 02:53 hrs 

Krishna Kumar Venkitachalam

Krishna Kumar Venkitachalam

http://static.indianexpress.com/frontend/iep/images/discussion_bot_bg1.gif

It was in his early twenties that Madurai-born Shridhar Sadasivan typed the
keywords- connection, community, Queer Chennai on the Yahoo group MovenPick
(a non-sexual support space for lesbian/ gay/ bi/ transgendered (LGBT)
people in Chennai). What was he looking for? Confirmation that his sexuality
would not be an impediment in the larger social context, something that
MovenPick provided. As opposed to children from hipper, and less
conservative outposts, Sadasivan, now in his early 30s suffered with shame
and guilt all through his teen life. I had no clue about homosexuality. I
had no one to reach out to. I tried to kill myself. I found Internet and it
helped me understand my sexuality, accept and be comfortable with who I am
and then come out to my friends and family, shares Sadasivan, who is now
currently based in New Jersey, United States, where he works in the IT
industry. 

 

Past the closet days, Sadasivan is now making a splash with his profound
stories that are published in the Tamil magazine Thinnai and Thendral. He is
also a member of the executive team of Orinam.net, a bilingual LGBT resource
website and is trying to create awareness in the mainstream about LGBT
issues through his writings. Indian kids normally discuss attraction,
sexual feelings with friends. But kids with same-sex attraction can never
discuss with their friends, so there is no support system other than the
Internet as of now, rues Sadasivan. 

It is a common queer narrative. The rise of the Internet has kickstarted the
emergence of a worldwide queer support system. The personal coming out
experience is certainly enhanced by the emergence of online communities. The
website lends them anonymity, as people do not give out their real names. If
you are anonymous, you can say whatever you want, people can't judge you,
says MJ, Mumbai-based co-founder of the two-year-old portal gaysi.com, a
first-of-its kind initiative in India, where the desi-gay community comes
together and shares personal stories of their struggles and their coming out
narratives. Over the past two years, the website is seeing traffic from all
over the world,with about 500-600 hits a day of late. Besides international
dating sites, there is no online platform where desis can come over and
connect. So we set it up pumping in money from our own pockets, said MJ.
Though still not a commercially viable project, she is wary of asking for
donations. The advertising revenue is next to nothing, so we are looking
for other ways of marketing, including endorsements from corporates who are
not hesitant to support our cause, she says. 

24-year-old Agnivo Niyogi sees larger implications for the LGBT presence on
the web in the socio-media landscape. Of late, the LGBT community is seen
as a good market to invest. It can prove commercially viable through right
marketing and niche products. We already have queer stores and queer
e-zones, said the Kolkata-based Niyogi, who is also a contributor to the
one-year-old monthly magazine Gaylaxy, an online LGBT magazine. Though there
are overseas niche websites such as TwoBrides.com, TwoGrooms.com - a
one-stop-shop for gay weddings that offers products, information, wedding
stories and ceremony topics - the scene in India is very nascent. People
are not willing to come up with such ideas. There is a lack of initiative,
rues Niyogi, who works as a content developer with New Age Knowledge
Solutions. 

There wasn't any internet in Thiruvananthapuram, when Krishna Kumar
Venkitachalam, now 31, came to grips with his sexuality. There was no one to
talk to either. In his early days, Venkitachalam, logged on to Yahoo groups
to find friends online. Since then, he has moved base to Mumbai, where
Venkitachalam, who has a degree in Orthopedics, works in a KPO by the day
and slides into the musician avatar as Kris Bass and gigs by night. Bass is
also a popular blogger at www.engayinglife, a seven-year-old blog started in
Mumbai. It was through the blog that Venkitachalam chose to come out in
2007. My sister and her husband first read the blog in 2003 and came to
know about my orientation, though I officially came out to my parents in
2008. My mother had known about it for sometime but chose to ignore it since
she thought I was too young. She is very supportive, though my Dad is still
shaky about it, shares Venkitachalam. His blog, about a queer, amateur
songwriter and a 

g_b I'm gay and it twice drove me to attempt suicide

2011-02-01 Thread asfan
http://www.scotsman.com/ViewArticle.aspx?SectionID=6985ArticleID=6707492



 

I'm gay and it twice drove me to attempt suicide, reveals Flying Scotsman 
Graeme Obree

 



Graeme Obree at the height of his career. The former world champion 
couldn't even use the word ‘gay' when talking to his psychologist 


Published Date: 01 February 2011 
By Stephen Mcginty
 


HE WAS the Flying Scotsman who could not outpace his demons. Graeme Obree, 
the world champion cyclist, has revealed that the cause of the mental trauma 
that led to two suicide attempts was his refusal to accept that he was gay.
The cyclist, who built his world-record breaking bike from washing machine 
parts and whose story was turned into a film, has revealed that he has finally 
achieved contentment by embracing his sexuality.

The athlete from Ayrshire, who broke the world one-hour distance record in 1993 
on his bike Old Faithful, said he just closed down while growing up. Obree, 
45, yesterday revealed the difficulties he encountered in his private life as a 
married father of two as he tried to accept he was gay.

He said: I was brought up thinking you'd be better dead than gay and it was so 
unacceptable. I was brought up by the war generation - they grew up when gay 
people were put in jail. 

Being homosexual was so unthinkable that you just wouldn't be gay. I'd no 
inkling about anything, I just closed down. People say, 'How can you be gay and 
be married and have kids and not know it?'. But when I went to my psychologist 
she reckoned I had the emotional age of about 13 because I'd just closed down.

The sportsman went on to win the individual pursuit at the world championships 
twice in the 1990s. He finally admitted that he was attracted to men in 2005 
during sessions with a psychologist who had been assisting him with the 
depression he had suffered all his life. 

To me the thought of being gay wasn't acceptable. I thought I was a terrible 
person. I had to admit, 'Oh my goodness, this is me'. It was so bad because I 
was the biggest homophobe on the planet, because it was so ingrained in me. 

• 'Son, I just want to sit here and toast to the rest of your life'

I started doing some self- harming, feeling terrible. I would cut myself; it 
was a way of coping. Even when I was trying to tell my psychologist about my 
sexuality, I couldn't even use the 'G' word. I had to skirt around the issue. 

She cut me off and said: 'You mean you're gay?' and I said: 'Well, if you want 
to use that word' - because I couldn't.

Obree then had to break the news to his wife - from whom he is now divorced - 
his children and his parents. 

It did create a bit of tension, he said. My parents had to come to terms 
with the whole gay thing, it's been a journey for them. It was difficult and 
there were lots of tears. It wasn't easy. But the relationship with my parents 
has been improved by it. We talked about it and discussed things and we're a 
lot happier.





It's taken years for me not to be ashamed of my sexuality.

He twice tried to take his own life and was admitted to mental health units on 
seven occasions when he began to self-harm. 

In 1998 he took 100 pills at an airport, then three years later he had to be 
cut down from a tree after trying to hang himself near his home in Ayrshire. 

His autobiography The Flying Scotsman was turned into a film starring Jonny Lee 
Miller and Billy Boyd in 2006.

Yesterday, Carl Watt, director of gay rights charity Stonewall Scotland, said: 
Graeme's coming out and sharing his story with the nation will hopefully be an 
inspiration to many others in all walks of life who sadly feel they need to 
hide who they really are. 

He is Scotland's first champion sportsman to announce he is gay and he is 
sending a strong message on the impact that discrimination can have on 
someone's life and health.

Unfortunately, homophobia is still prevalent in Scotland.


Last Updated: 01 February 2011 2:18 AM 
Source: The Scotsman 
Location: Edinburgh 
 



g_b GB Special Sunday Meet on Relationships on 6 February 2011

2011-02-01 Thread GayBombay Events
GB Special Sunday Meet on Relationships 















What do gay guys mean when they say, I am looking for relationship?

Sex?

An affair till it doesn’t get boring?

A trophy boyfriend to flaunt to the world?

A partner to introduce to parents as life partner?

A relationship of convenience, strictly to take care of loneliness and old age?

A big shot to enjoy expensive gifts and lifestyle?

A cute boyfriend just for the heck, because a friend has one?

An adorable guy to fall in love with and stay together and committed till death?

Gay relationships are complicated. Guys who desperately want a relationship, 
have no clue what they want out it. Some want to take a break from mindless, 
marathon sex. For some, seeking relationship is a passing phase. Some guys just 
want to prove that they were not responsible for their last break up.

Some couples get very close and make room for doubts and insecurity. Some give 
enough space and bond with infidelity. One partner wants to be open about their 
polygamy; other partner wants to pretend monogamy. One wants to stay closeted, 
other wants to do masters in PDA. One is married to woman; his boyfriend is 
divorced to political correct friends.

Now the good news is, there are some couples who have sailed over these rough 
waters. Couples who have been in a rock solid, strong relationship spanning 1 
year to more than 20 years. Couples who are going to share their stories, 
insights and experiences to address your queries.

Well, if you find all this boring, here is the fun quotient. A rapid fire round 
to judge the most eligible guy for relationship, compatibility test for couples 
and match fixing.

Here is your chance to get an inside view of long-distance, open, bisexual, 
short-term and whatnot relationships. Or meet guys who are single and happy by 
choice.

If you wish to attend this special meet as a couple or are interested in 
contesting for “Most Eligible Guy for Relationship”, pals shoot an email to : 
umang73sh...@yahoo.co.in


Day, Date  Time:
Sunday, 6th February, 2011 between 3 pm and 6:30 pm.

Cover: 
Free Entry. 

Venue:
Roti Restaurant (formerly Zouk),
Hotel Imperial Palace,
Telli Galli,
Andheri (East);
Mumbai

Directions:
Hotel Imperial Palace is a 5 minute walk from Andheri station on the East side. 
Walk up the Andheri Kurla Road (towards the Highway) and turn right into Telli 
Galli. It’s the 3rd building on your right.

But if you’re driving and taking the Andheri flyover, from West to East, make a 
left turn at the signal at the end of the flyover. Or if you’re driving on the 
highway make a left turn at the Andheri flyover road and a right turn at the 
signal before the flyover. This is Telli Galli. Almost towards the end of this 
road, close to Andheri Kurla Road (perpendicular to Telli Galli), is Hotel 
Imperial Palace, on your left.


This event is organised by www.gaybombay.orgrelation-meet gb.jpg

g_b Videos from QAM Mumbai 2011 - On My Blog TintinSpeaking.blogspot.com

2011-02-01 Thread Tintin Mumbai India
Hi Guys,

Yesterday, I posted the pix of  QAM Parade.
I shot some videos too, and I have posted on Youtube and same Youtube links
have been posted on my Blog
TintinSpeaking.blogspot.comhttp://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/
 too.

Direct links of the Blog Page for the Videos is:
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/02/videos-of-pride-march-qam-mumbai-2011.html


*Direct Links of the Videos on YouTube:*
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/02/videos-of-pride-march-qam-mumbai-2011.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-BNnKVN_kA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MklBbJsVlg0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j4wDTYJU8rI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85mhIRtKdEI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wd5uZKMSNw8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVpvg5mS7k4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6YRDsdxMnuU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PwwVAqyb2Eg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXQIVzqKD0Y
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PGQsSyPFpRo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y2_YJwBRbDM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mUHcvMZE_E
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B2FtyGS6I6o

I hope you all enjoy these videos equally, like Parade Pix.
Abhay



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--- Reuse Paper by Both Sided Printing 


g_b Bush’s Daughter Endorses Gay Marriage

2011-02-01 Thread asfan






  

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/02/01/us/politics/01bush.html?nl=todaysheadlinesemc=tha23
 
 

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January 31, 2011

Bush’s Daughter, in a Break, Endorses Gay Marriage
By MICHAEL BARBARO

The Bush dynasty is no stranger to generational conflict: father and son 
differed over deposing Saddam Hussein, raising taxes and the role of the United 
Nations. 
Now it is father and daughter who find themselves at odds over a weighty issue. 
 
 
Barbara Bush, one of the twin daughters of George W. Bush, will endorse 
same-sex marriage on Tuesday, publicly breaking ranks with a father who, as 
president, pushed for a constitutional amendment banning such unions. 
 
 
Ms. Bush, 29, has taped a video calling on New York to legalize gay marriage. A 
bill to do that was defeated in the state in 2009. She describes the issue as a 
matter of conscience and equality. 
 
 
“I am Barbara Bush, and I am a New Yorker for marriage equality,” she says in 
the brief message, sponsored by an advocacy group. “New York is about fairness 
and equality. And everyone should have the right to marry the person that they 
love.” 
The video ends with Ms. Bush, who lives in Manhattan, imploring the state’s 
residents to “join us.” 
 
 
Ms. Bush is the latest child of a prominent Republican leader to embrace 
same-sex marriage, long considered anathema to the conservative movement. Gay 
rights advocates have been quick to seize on the generational split as evidence 
that the acceptance of same-sex marriage is blind to party affiliation and 
family values. 
 
 
Meghan McCain, the daughter of John McCain, the 2008 Republican presidential 
nominee, has become an outspoken supporter of same-sex marriage, despite her 
father’s opposition to it. And Mary Cheney, the lesbian daughter of Vice 
President Dick Cheney, has forcefully backed it as well — and is widely 
credited with helping to persuade her father to do the same. 
 
 
In the case of Mr. McCain, Mr. Cheney and Mr. Bush, it is not just their 
children who have supported it. So, to varying degrees, have their wives. Laura 
Bush, in a television interview in May, said, “When couples are committed to 
each other and love each other” they should have “the same sort of rights that 
everyone has.” 
 
 
Ms. McCain, a blogger and author, has said it is unhealthy for members of 
political families to paper over disagreements on issues of social justice 
merely to project an image of harmony. “Wives and children should be able to 
speak their piece,” she said in a television interview last year. “I think it 
shows healthy dynamics within a family. We shouldn’t all think one way, and 
think one thing.” 
 
 
Barbara Bush, who started a nonprofit group focused on global health, rarely 
speaks out on American political issues, making her foray into the same-sex 
marriage debate so striking. But for years, those close to her say, she has 
surrounded herself with gay friends — at Yale, where she was an undergraduate, 
and in New York City, where she worked in the design world. 
 
 
C. Brian Smith, a friend from college who is gay, recalled that the Yale Ms. 
Bush inhabited was filled with openly gay students and unbothered by questions 
about sexuality. “She had that mind-set,” he said. “She was loved by the gay 
community at Yale.” 
Members of the Bush family seemed uneager to discuss her entry into the 
marriage debate. Ms. Bush declined an interview request. A spokesman for Mr. 
Bush said he had no comment. Her sister, Jenna Bush Hager, a correspondent for 
“Today,” has not publicly discussed the topic. 
 
 
The Human Rights Campaign, a national gay rights group that made the video, 
plans to show it Saturday at an annual gala in New York City. Advocates said it 
would show elected officials and voters that, in many cases, young people are 
not following in their parents’ ideological footsteps. 
 
 
“No matter what party they belong to, young Americans believe in basic fairness 
and equality,” said Brian Ellner, who is overseeing the Human Rights Campaign’s 
bid to legalize same-sex marriage in New York. 


  









 




g_b Re: GB Special Sunday Meet on Relationships on 6 February 2011

2011-02-01 Thread lukn_4_friendzzzz
Dear gaymanproud...

what was that message about..a suggestion or complaint or what..??



--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Deep gaymanproud31@... wrote:

 Wouldn't it have been more appropriate to host this event the day before
 Valentine's Day (Sunday, Feb 13)?
 More people are in the 'mood' of romance around that time!
 I guess the venues have already been booked by now since, I believe, the
 GB Film Fest is probably scheduled on Sunday, Feb 13.
 Having said that, I will agree with folks on this forum who will shout
 loud and clear that every day is Valentine's Day for the couples in
 love
 Deephttp://gaynotes.blogspot.com
 
 
 --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, GayBombay Events events@
 wrote:
 
  GB Special Sunday Meet on Relationships
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  What do gay guys mean when they say, I am looking for relationship?
 
  Sex?
 
  An affair till it doesn’t get boring?
 
  A trophy boyfriend to flaunt to the world?
 
  A partner to introduce to parents as life partner?
 
  A relationship of convenience, strictly to take care of loneliness and
 old age?
 
  A big shot to enjoy expensive gifts and lifestyle?
 
  A cute boyfriend just for the heck, because a friend has one?
 
  An adorable guy to fall in love with and stay together and committed
 till death?
 
  Gay relationships are complicated. Guys who desperately want a
 relationship, have no clue what they want out it. Some want to take a
 break from mindless, marathon sex. For some, seeking relationship is a
 passing phase. Some guys just want to prove that they were not
 responsible for their last break up.
 
  Some couples get very close and make room for doubts and insecurity.
 Some give enough space and bond with infidelity. One partner wants to be
 open about their polygamy; other partner wants to pretend monogamy. One
 wants to stay closeted, other wants to do masters in PDA. One is married
 to woman; his boyfriend is divorced to political correct friends.
 
  Now the good news is, there are some couples who have sailed over
 these rough waters. Couples who have been in a rock solid, strong
 relationship spanning 1 year to more than 20 years. Couples who are
 going to share their stories, insights and experiences to address your
 queries.
 
  Well, if you find all this boring, here is the fun quotient. A rapid
 fire round to judge the most eligible guy for relationship,
 compatibility test for couples and match fixing.
 
  Here is your chance to get an inside view of long-distance, open,
 bisexual, short-term and whatnot relationships. Or meet guys who are
 single and happy by choice.
 
  If you wish to attend this special meet as a couple or are interested
 in contesting for ÂMost Eligible Guy for RelationshipÂ, pals
 shoot an email to : umang73sheth@
 
 
  Day, Date  Time:
  Sunday, 6th February, 2011 between 3 pm and 6:30 pm.
 
  Cover:
  Free Entry.
 
  Venue:
  Roti Restaurant (formerly Zouk),
  Hotel Imperial Palace,
  Telli Galli,
  Andheri (East);
  Mumbai
 
  Directions:
  Hotel Imperial Palace is a 5 minute walk from Andheri station on the
 East side. Walk up the Andheri Kurla Road (towards the Highway) and turn
 right into Telli Galli. It’s the 3rd building on your right.
 
  But if youÂ're driving and taking the Andheri flyover, from West
 to East, make a left turn at the signal at the end of the flyover. Or if
 youÂ're driving on the highway make a left turn at the Andheri
 flyover road and a right turn at the signal before the flyover. This is
 Telli Galli. Almost towards the end of this road, close to Andheri Kurla
 Road (perpendicular to Telli Galli), is Hotel Imperial Palace, on your
 left.
 
 
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  This event is organised by www.gaybombay.org
 





g_b Tuesday's Thought

2011-02-01 Thread asfan

A little girl goes to see Santa Clause at the local shopping mall. When she
arrives and sits down on Santa's lap Santa asks What do you want for
Christmas little girl?.

I want a Barbie and a GI Joe says the little girl.

But Barbie comes with Ken Santa says,

No, Barbie only 'cums' with GI Joe!




g_b Homosexuals Seek Greater Acceptance in India

2011-02-01 Thread moderator

Homosexuals Seek Greater Acceptance in India


Rebecca Byerly | New Delhi, India  January 31, 2011 

Some gays have felt more comfortable 'coming out' about their sexuality
since the Delhi High Court decriminalized consensual homosexual activity in
2009


Photo: VOA - R. Byerly 


Some gays have felt more comfortable 'coming out' about their sexuality
since the Delhi High Court decriminalized consensual homosexual activity in
2009

Gay rights activists in India are seeking broader acceptance for homosexual
men, lesbians and transgenders that goes beyond legal protection against
criminal prosecution.  But change is slow to come. It was just in July 2009,
when the Delhi High Court repealed Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code, the
law that made same sex activity illegal in India. 

Homosexual men, lesbians and transgenders in New Delhi are marching to the
beat of a new era. Since the Delhi High Court decriminalized consensual
homosexual activity between adults, some gays have felt more comfortable
coming out about their sexuality and attending functions like this gay
pride parade in New Delhi late last year.  

For Sambhav Sharma, the repeal of the law gave him the courage to tell his
grandmother that he is gay. To show their support, family members joined him
in the parade. This is the consequence of Article 377. Because of that, I
was able to convince my family to come down here and celebrate my 'Azadi,'
my freedom, he said.

Many gay men and women in India are not as comfortable as Sharma
acknowledging their sexuality.  In a conservative society like India,
homosexuality is still widely taboo. That is why these parade participants
wear masks to hide their identities.

Anjali Gopalan is the founder and executive director of the Naz Foundation,
a non-profit organization that works on HIV/AIDS and sexual health issues in
New Delhi.  I think the battle now is the battle for rights.  The battle
has to be for the right to marriage, the right to adopt, the right to
inherit - rights which citizens of this country take for granted. And when I
say citizens of this country, obviously the people who are taking it for
granted is the heterosexual community because gay people don't have these
rights.  That's the long battle now.

Gopalan says that even in metropolitian areas, some parents think they can
change their homosexual children - make them heterosexual - with electric
shock treatments. Others believe homosexuality can be cured in some way.

That is what teacher Rajendra Narula believes. He attended a recent event in
Delhi called Gay Rights are Human Rights.  I think it's possible to treat
homosexuality. It's just a matter of taking some hormones or counseling and
it's absolutely correctable, he said.

Gopalan says Narula and others who consider homosexuality an illness, or
wrong, need to be taught that is not true. And both she and Sharma say as
India develops they hope the government will give more rights to
homosexuals.

This is just the beginning. Everywhere we want our legal rights.  That can
be achieved by the recognition that the government will give us. And it will
happen.

 

 

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