g_b File - E mail problems?
Hi Have you stopped getting emails from this group suddenly? It is highly unlikely that your name has been deleted from the list. We do not delete anybodys membership until and unless the person repeatedly spams or sends pornographic/crude emails you might not be getting your mails is because your email is on the bouncing list. Some members have trouble with bouncing e-mails: Messages that are sent out by the group cannot be delivered to their mailboxes and are sent back to Yahoo. This can happen for various reasons, for example, when their mailboxes are full, or their e-mail addresses have become obsolete, etc. Yahoo doesn't tolerate bouncing mails and will deactivate these persons' memberships. It will, however, send you a reactivation request. All you have to do is reply to that (once you've fixed the problem with your mailbox), and Yahoo will resume sending you the messages. We will also send out these requests daily. Bounced Messages If you subscribe to a Yahoo Groups discussion group under one of the e-mail options (normal or digest), Yahoo Groups will suspend sending mail to you after repeated attempts bounce back. To see your recent bounced messages, view your Yahoo Groups preferences at http://groups.yahoo.com/myprefs and click Bounce history for your e-mail address. For more information on bounced-message handling by Yahoo Groups, search Yahoo Groups help for the word bounce. Why does it say my account is bouncing? If group messages sent to your email address are returned to Yahoo! Groups as undeliverable (bouncing), your Yahoo! Groups account may be temporarily disabled. Messages can be returned for several reasons: Your mailbox may be full -- try deleting messages from your Inbox. Your ISP may have a backlog of email to process -- contact your ISP. Your ISP may be blocking email from Yahoo! Groups -- contact your ISP. In many cases, Yahoo! Groups can automatically reactivate your account once the delivery problem is solved. However, in some cases you will need to manually reactivate your account: 1. Visit your My Groups page. 2. Look for a bounce alert near the top of the page. 3. Click the Alert link to reactivate your account. Email: modera...@gaybombay.in E Groups: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay http://groups.google.com/group/Gaybombay http://groups.google.com/group/GayIndia Public archives at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Rss feed: http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml GB Internet Radio at http://www.gaybombay.in/gbradio Web Sites: www.gaybombay.in www.gayindia.org Orkut: http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?uid=15084918632470824129 Blogs: http://gaybombay.blogspot.com http://gaybombay.wordpress.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/gaybombay http://twitter.com/gayindia Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/gaybombay http://www.facebook.com/gayindia Yahoo! Groups Links * To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ * Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional * To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/join (Yahoo! ID required) * To change settings via email: gay_bombay-dig...@yahoogroups.com gay_bombay-fullfeatu...@yahoogroups.com * To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: gay_bombay-unsubscr...@yahoogroups.com * Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
g_b File - Personal Advertisements
Hi All 2 personal advertisements seeking mates a month are allowed on the list. Its unfair to others if you post your advertisement every few days. In the past, many have complained that they see too many personal advertisements on the list. So a restriction of 2 personal advertisements per month has been imposed. You may, if you wish, place your advertisement in the classified section at www.gaybombay.info as well. In case you want to reply to a members personal advertisement, kindly click on the persons email address. This will ensure that your reply goes to the concerned person and not to entire list which is what happens when you hit the reply button. So please reply directly to the advertiser and not to the whole group in case your reply is personal. Regards modera...@gaybombay.in Email: modera...@gaybombay.in E Groups: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay http://groups.google.com/group/Gaybombay http://groups.google.com/group/GayIndia Public archives at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Rss feed: http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml GB Internet Radio at http://www.gaybombay.in/gbradio Web Sites: www.gaybombay.in www.gayindia.org Orkut: http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?uid=15084918632470824129 Blogs: http://gaybombay.blogspot.com http://gaybombay.wordpress.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/gaybombay http://twitter.com/gayindia Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/gaybombay http://www.facebook.com/gayindia Yahoo! Groups Links * To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ * Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional * To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/join (Yahoo! ID required) * To change settings via email: gay_bombay-dig...@yahoogroups.com gay_bombay-fullfeatu...@yahoogroups.com * To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: gay_bombay-unsubscr...@yahoogroups.com * Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
g_b File - PLEASE NOTE-URGENT
Hello All Please remember and understand that any post you send to the mailing list or as a reply to any mailing list message reaches everyone in the mailing group who is subscribed to the list.so send only relevant messages and only those messages that you intend to share with everyone. if you want to reply to a personal email, please click on that person's email, compose an email and then reply. dont hit the reply button as the email then goes to all subscribers of the group.If you send a personal reply to someone looking for mate, by simply hitting the reply button, it shall not be carried. Naturally, the person to whom you wanted to reply shall not get your email. So, please be considerate and send the reply directly to the person by copying his email. Regards Moderator
g_b File - Tired of too many mails?
Tired of too many emails from this group? Hi All I know that this group has been generating too many emails. Many subscribers are flustered at the number of mails. Some of you might be thinking of leaving the group because you do not like your mail box to be clogged with mails. But just in case you do not know, you have the option of receiving all your emails in a digest mode or you can opt for no email mode. That way, you can see what's new on the website and still keep a clear mailbox. You will never receive mail from us if you do that. YOU choose when to visit us ... and you can check out what you like and can skip over what doesn't interest you. (Or choose Daily digest ... once or twice a day, you will receive an email -- text only -- listing all new postings ... just click on the messages link at the top of the digest to go to the web archive to see any attachments.) How ? Depending on what you opt for, you can send mail to: Digest Mode:- gay_bombay-dig...@yahoogroups.com No Mail Mode:- gay_bombay-nom...@yahoogroups.com Regards modera...@gaybombay.in
g_b File - Photo Album
Hi all, I just created a photo-site. You can view the photos at the following link - http://gaybombay.picsquare.com/album/Default Album There will be no nude pictures in this album. Members are welcome to send pictures of men, preferably south asian though not necessarily so. But please do send non nude, non porno pictures. Once you send the pictures, I shall try and add them to the album. Regards Moderator
g_b File - Essentials
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g_b File - Personal Replies To Advertisements
Hello please reply to the concerned person directly in case you want to reply to someone who has posted a personal email. please CLICK ON THE PERSON'S EMAIL ADDRESS while replying to him . this will enable you to send a mail to the person with whom you want to communicate. if you click on the reply button, the message will go the entire group. it is unfair and many persons have complained that they do not want personal correspondence in their box. Individual personal replies to one another will NOT BE CARRIED on this list until and unless it is relevant to the entire group regards moderator modera...@gaybombay.in
g_b File - just in case you did not know
Hi. I am sure you are enjoying reading the thought provoking, at times funny, at times informative mails and also seeing the JPGs/pictures that members post on this list However, at times you may get a lot of mail and it may flood your email box. If you feel flustered and feel that there are too many emails, I'd like to remind you that you don't have to leave just to stop us from clogging your inbox. You have the option of 1) getting your mails in digest form (however you will not be able to see the pictures in this format) Daily digest ... once or twice a day, you will receive an email -- text only -- listing all new postings ... just click on the messages link at the top of the digest to go to the web archive to see any attachments.) 2) or you can view mails directly on the web... and choose the option ... you can see what's new on the website and still keep a clear mailbox. You will never receive mail from us if you do that. YOU choose when to visit us ... and you can check out what you like and can skip over what doesn't interest you. 3)no email option I hope this helps. The commands for choosing the various modes are listed below. Warm Regards modera...@gaybombay.in = == To write to the list -email to: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com To unsubscribe, send an email to: gay_bombay-unsubscr...@yahoogroups.com Want to read each mail individually? Mail to gay_bombay-nor...@yahoogroups.com Tired of too many emails? Want all your daily mails together in digest form? E-mail to gay_bombay-dig...@yahoogroups.com (You will not be able to see pictures/jpgs) Don't want mails at all yet want to be a part of the group? Mail to gay_bombay-nom...@yahoogroups.com Want to directly read mails on Internet? http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/
g_b Sadly - I AM - doesn't live up to its hype
The movie, I AM, has been over-hyped and is a disappointment. The quality of acting is high but one cannot get connected to any of the characters or the plots. The four stories seem abrupt and superficial. If these stories were meant to send a message then, I regret to say, they do a woefully inadequate job. The movie may appeal to some members of the high class intelligentsia but certainly not to the Indian masses. Another irritating aspect is the liberal mix of Kashmiri, Bangla, Marathi and English with Hindi. You tend to disconnect slightly when you are forced to read subtitles. The part about the the child abuse survivor did not do justice in bringing out the pains of a survivor. The over-hyped Rahul Bose's gay character and his run-in with the homophobic policeman is simply too inadequate to have much of an impact. And, yes, Rahul Bose has a longish lip kiss with a handsome hunk, but I wonder if I should waste two hours in a movie theater to watch that! At the end of the movie the viewer is not left with a feel good factor and that in itself will sound the death knell for the movie at the box-office. As members of the queer community we should support this movie and flock to the theaters but privately, I can't imagine how a director like Onir could make this stuff. It will, quite certainly, be a flop at the box office. Alas! yet another gay Indian movie will bite the dust. It's a ONE STAR category movie. I expect quite a lot of brickbats for my candid posting. So bring them on guys. Am waiting :-) Deephttp://gaynotes.blogspot.com
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Re: g_b at 47 years, is too late to discover an alternate sexuality? (reply)
I had a friend, George Hobensack, from New Hope, Penn. He discovered he was gay in his forties. He had a marvelous time for the remaining forty years of his life,( until he was hit and killed by a truck croosing the street in front of his Antique Shop !) So, Each man has his own life to live I always knew I liked men. I dressed up in my mother's castaway clothing and high healed shoes when I was seven years old. So, each man has his own life to live... Best wishes for your life, Gordon Micunis, Santa Fe, NM -- In a message dated 4/30/2011 1:44:10 A.M. Mountain Daylight Time, sbd...@yahoo.com writes: Hi to all of you! I've been a member of this group for around a month or so and have been reading with interest all the posts on this site. I must admit, this group is extremely lively and the interaction that I see is quite intellectually stimulating and totally unlike most other LGBT sites that I've visited. Kudos to the moderator for this - and to the members too. I'm new too, to life in the LGBT space - at 47 years of age is it too late to discover an alternate sexuality? I wonder? Having been straight all these years, happily married and a responsible father to boot, it has been a complete surprise to discover that I am now getting turned on by the idea of a sexual encounter with men! It started just a few months back during an overnight bus journey when the young man seated next to me explored my body during the dark of the night - initially repulsed, I found myself stirring with excitement and responding to his caresses and now I seem to spend a lot of my alone time fantasising about such encounters. Does this make me gay? I don't know but am honest enough to admit that my mind is open on the issue. I'm based in Mumbai and have been tempted to attend the sessions that you are organising but find myself hesitant - what am I letting myself in for? What repercussions? Am I ready for this? etc... maybe time will help me come to terms with the reality? Until then, I shall continue to read and enjoy the posts here - and, maybe, contribute my little sound bites too. Sujit
g_b German man turns woman, Kashmiri lover refuses to marry
German man turns woman, Kashmiri lover refuses to marry Sunday, 01 May 2011 11:19 Kashmir Monitor http://www.kashmirdispatch.com/headlines/01053077-german-man-turns-women-kas hmiri-lover-refuses-to-marry.htm Srinagar: A close relative of a well known New Delhi based Kashmiri businessman has run into legal trouble after his lover from Germany moved a local court here seeking relief. According to sources the court of Chief Judicial Magistrate, Srinagar witnessed one of the strangest cases in recent times that has baffled the police and the judiciary alike. The story goes like this. A young man from Kashmir got closely involved with a man hailing from Germany. The two soon became very close and 'developed' homosexual relation. Over the period of time the two were 'together', the German 'beloved' gave numerous gifts to his Kashmiri lover running into lakhs of rupees. Such was the level of intimacy between the gay couple that the German wanted to marry the boy from Kashmir 'legally'. Perhaps informed that homosexuality was still a crime in India, the German then decided to do the unbelievable. Thinking that he could have a happy life with his Kashmiri boyfriend the German decided to go in for a sex change operation. The sex change operation is an extremely costly affair in European countries with average bill of over 1-2 million. The German claims that he spent around Rs.30 lacs on the surgery. Despite the costs and the risks, the German reportedly went in for the operation. The operation was successful and he came out of operation theater as a woman. Thinking that now he (she) could marry her long time boyfriend, the German boy turned girl came all the way to Kashmir, only to get the shock of her life when the boyfriend refused to marry her. Shocked and numbed by the volte face the German has decided to fight back. She hired a lawyer in Srinagar to seek justice. In the petition filed before the CJM, the German has reportedly accused the Kashmiri boy of fraud cheating and even rape. But the counsel for the Kashmiri boy argued that basic petition was flawed as the sexuality of the German is not clear. I told the judge that it was a case of two *** les. If it is front **le then the case falls under section 376 o IPC and if it is the back **le then section 377 of IPC will apply. I told the judge to decide on which lines should I based my arguments on, said advocate Bilal Ahmed. He added that since the two were having a live in relationship, charges of rape do not apply and that the German should file a civil suit instead. According to sources the police too is confused as to on what lines should they file their case report. Considering the German was a man and now is a woman, we will wait for observations of the court, a police official said. Email: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/post?postID=DCvNIbdTv_3_C5j5flK54H ZuyqMJgNC-L4S3BWR464eSfMgGEAMLax1OSqSI6REqIgVM3LQEejINlemMrw modera...@gaybombay.in E Groups: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay http://groups.google.com/group/Gaybombay http://groups.google.com/group/GayIndia Public archives at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Rss feed: http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml GB Internet Radio at http://www.gaybombay.in/gbradio Web Sites: www.gaybombay.in www.gayindia.org Orkut: http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?uid=15084918632470824129 Blogs: http://gaybombay.blogspot.com http://gaybombay.wordpress.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/gaybombay http://twitter.com/gayindia Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/gaybombay http://www.facebook.com/gayindia