g_b File - E mail problems?

2011-05-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hi

Have you stopped getting emails from this group suddenly? It is highly unlikely 
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membership until and unless the person repeatedly spams or sends 
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 you might not be getting your mails is because  your email is on the bouncing 
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g_b File - Personal Advertisements

2011-05-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hi All
 
2 personal advertisements seeking mates a month are allowed on the list. It’s 
unfair to others if you post your advertisement every few days. In the past, 
many have complained that they see too many personal advertisements on the 
list. So a restriction of 2 personal advertisements per month has been imposed. 
You may, if you wish, place your advertisement in the classified section at 
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the person’s email address. This will ensure that your reply goes to the 
concerned person and not to entire list which is what happens when you hit the 
reply button. So please reply directly to the advertiser and not to the whole 
group in case your reply is personal.
 
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g_b File - PLEASE NOTE-URGENT

2011-05-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hello All

Please remember and understand that any post you send to the mailing
list or as a reply to any mailing list message reaches everyone in the
mailing group who is subscribed to the list.so send only relevant
messages and only those messages that you intend to share with
everyone. if you want to reply to a personal email, please click on
that person's email, compose an email and then reply. dont hit the
reply button as the email then goes to all subscribers of the group.If you send 
a personal reply to someone looking for mate, by simply hitting the reply 
button, it shall not be carried. Naturally, the person to whom you wanted to 
reply shall not get your email. So, please be considerate and send the reply 
directly to the person by copying his email.

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g_b File - Tired of too many mails?

2011-05-01 Thread gay_bombay

Tired of too many emails from this group?  

Hi All

I know that this group has been generating too many emails. Many 
subscribers are flustered at the number of mails. Some of you might 
be thinking of leaving the group because you do not like your mail 
box to be clogged with mails.

But just in case you do not know, you have the option of receiving 
all your emails in a digest mode or you can opt for no email mode. 


That way, you can see what's new on the website and still keep a 
clear mailbox. You will never receive mail from us if you do that. 
YOU choose when to visit us ... and you can check out what you like 
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g_b File - Photo Album

2011-05-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hi all,   I just created a  photo-site. You can view  the photos at the 
following link - http://gaybombay.picsquare.com/album/Default Album 

There will be no nude pictures in this album. Members are welcome to send 
pictures of men, preferably south asian though not necessarily so. 

But please do send non nude, non porno pictures. Once you send the pictures, I 
shall try and add them to the album.

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g_b File - Essentials

2011-05-01 Thread gay_bombay

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g_b File - Personal Replies To Advertisements

2011-05-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hello

please reply to the concerned person directly in case you want to
reply to someone who has posted a personal email.

please CLICK ON THE PERSON'S EMAIL ADDRESS while replying to him .
this will enable you to send a mail to the person with whom you want
to communicate.

if you click on the reply button, the message will go the entire
group. it is unfair and many persons have complained that they do
not want personal correspondence in their box.


Individual personal replies to one another will NOT BE CARRIED on
this list until and unless it is relevant to the entire group

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g_b File - just in case you did not know

2011-05-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hi.


I am sure you are enjoying reading the thought provoking, at times 
funny, at times informative mails and also seeing the JPGs/pictures 
that members post on this list

However, at times you may get a lot of mail and it may flood your 
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If you feel flustered and feel that there are too many emails, I'd 
like to remind you that you don't have to leave just to stop us from 
clogging your inbox. 

You have the option of

1) getting your mails in digest form (however you will not be able 
to see the pictures in this format)
Daily digest ... once or twice a day, you will receive an
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messages link at the top of the digest to go to the web archive to 
see any
attachments.)



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g_b Sadly - I AM - doesn't live up to its hype

2011-05-01 Thread Deep
The movie, I AM, has been over-hyped and is a disappointment. The
quality of acting is high but one cannot get connected to any of the
characters or the plots. The four stories seem abrupt and superficial.
If these stories were meant to send a message then, I regret to say,
they do a woefully inadequate job.
The movie may appeal to some members of the high class intelligentsia
but certainly not to the Indian masses.
Another irritating aspect is the liberal mix of Kashmiri, Bangla,
Marathi and English with Hindi. You tend to disconnect slightly when you
are forced to read subtitles.
The part about the the child abuse survivor did not do justice in
bringing out the pains of a survivor. The over-hyped Rahul Bose's gay
character and his run-in with the homophobic policeman is simply too
inadequate to have much of an impact. And, yes, Rahul Bose has a longish
lip kiss with a handsome hunk, but I wonder if I should waste two hours
in a movie theater to watch that! At the end of the movie the viewer is
not left with a feel good factor and that in itself will sound the
death knell for the movie at the box-office.
As members of the queer community we should support this movie and flock
to the theaters but privately, I can't imagine how a director like Onir
could make this stuff. It will, quite certainly, be a flop at the box
office. Alas! yet another gay Indian movie will bite the dust. It's a
ONE STAR category movie.
I expect quite a lot of brickbats for my candid posting. So bring them
on guys. Am waiting :-)

Deephttp://gaynotes.blogspot.com


g_b Have a nice Sunday! and who wants make a friends, mail or IM me;-)

2011-05-01 Thread petertian3




Re: g_b at 47 years, is too late to discover an alternate sexuality? (reply)

2011-05-01 Thread nirbokj
I had a friend, George Hobensack, from New Hope, Penn.  He discovered  he 
was gay in his forties.  He had a marvelous time for the remaining forty  
years of his life,( until he was hit and killed by a truck croosing the street  
in front of his Antique Shop !)
 
So, Each man has his own life to live
 
I always knew I liked men.  I dressed up in my mother's castaway  clothing 
and high healed shoes when I was seven years old.
 
So, each man has his own life to live...
 
Best wishes for your life,
 
Gordon Micunis,  Santa Fe, NM

--
 
 
In a message dated 4/30/2011 1:44:10 A.M. Mountain Daylight Time,  
sbd...@yahoo.com writes:

 
 
 
Hi to all of you!

I've been a member of this group for around a  month or so and have been
reading with interest all the posts on this site.  I must admit, this
group is extremely lively and the interaction that I see  is quite
intellectually stimulating and totally unlike most other LGBT  sites that
I've visited. Kudos to the moderator for this - and to the  members too.

I'm new too, to life in the LGBT space - at 47 years of  age is it too
late to discover an alternate sexuality? I wonder? Having  been
straight all these years, happily married and a responsible father  to
boot, it has been a complete surprise to discover that I am now  getting
turned on by the idea of a sexual encounter with men! It started  just a
few months back during an overnight bus journey when the young  man
seated next to me explored my body during the dark of the night  -
initially repulsed, I found myself stirring with excitement  and
responding to his caresses and now I seem to spend a lot of my  alone
time fantasising about such encounters. Does this make me gay? I  don't
know but am honest enough to admit that my mind is open on the  issue.

I'm based in Mumbai and have been tempted to attend the sessions  that
you are organising but find myself hesitant - what am I letting  myself
in for? What repercussions? Am I ready for this? etc... maybe time  will
help me come to terms with the reality?

Until then, I shall  continue to read and enjoy the posts here - and,
maybe, contribute my  little sound bites too.

Sujit






g_b German man turns woman, Kashmiri lover refuses to marry

2011-05-01 Thread moderator
German man turns woman, Kashmiri lover refuses to marry 

Sunday, 01 May 2011 11:19 Kashmir Monitor 

http://www.kashmirdispatch.com/headlines/01053077-german-man-turns-women-kas
hmiri-lover-refuses-to-marry.htm

 

Srinagar: A close relative of a well known New Delhi based Kashmiri
businessman has run into legal trouble after his lover from Germany moved a
local court here seeking relief.

According to sources the court of Chief Judicial Magistrate, Srinagar
witnessed one of the strangest cases in recent times that has baffled the
police and the judiciary alike.

The story goes like this. A young man from Kashmir got closely involved with
a man hailing from Germany. The two soon became very close and 'developed'
homosexual relation. Over the period of time the two were 'together', the
German 'beloved' gave numerous gifts to his Kashmiri lover running into
lakhs of rupees.

Such was the level of intimacy between the gay couple that the German wanted
to marry the boy from Kashmir 'legally'. Perhaps informed that homosexuality
was still a crime in India, the German then decided to do the unbelievable.

Thinking that he could have a happy life with his Kashmiri boyfriend the
German decided to go in for a sex change operation. The sex change operation
is an extremely costly affair in European countries with average bill of
over 1-2 million.

The German claims that he spent around Rs.30 lacs on the surgery. Despite
the costs and the risks, the German reportedly went in for the operation.
The operation was successful and he came out of operation theater as a
woman.

Thinking that now he (she) could marry her long time boyfriend, the German
boy turned girl came all the way to Kashmir, only to get the shock of her
life when the boyfriend refused to marry her.

Shocked and numbed by the volte face the German has decided to fight back.
She hired a lawyer in Srinagar to seek justice. In the petition filed before
the CJM, the German has reportedly accused the Kashmiri boy of fraud
cheating and even rape. But the counsel for the Kashmiri boy argued that
basic petition was flawed as the sexuality of the German is not clear.

 I told the judge that it was a case of two *** les. If it is front **le
then the case falls under section 376 o IPC and if it is the back **le then
section 377 of IPC will apply. I told the judge to decide on which lines
should I based my arguments on, said advocate Bilal Ahmed.

He added that since the two were having a live in relationship, charges of
rape do not apply and that the German should file a civil suit instead.

According to sources the police too is confused as to on what lines should
they file their case report. Considering the German was a man and now is a
woman, we will wait for observations of the court, a police official said.

 

 

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