Re: g_b Laxmi on Bigg Boss

2011-11-01 Thread Sushant
Like I was nt intersted to watch big boss I used to hate that programme but 
when I came to know that some transgender queen is also in big boss I keep on 
watching regularly without fail and proud on laxmi ...*nd everyone should 
be love to see her 
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From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay adit.b...@gmail.com
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Date: Tue, 1 Nov 2011 01:24:16 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Reply-To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: g_b Laxmi on Bigg Boss

I do not watch Big Boss regularly, but I must say that I have been very
impressed by the quiet dignity with which Laxmi has conducted herself in
the House.
Best,
Aditya B

On 31 October 2011 08:35, Vikram Kapoor ej_se...@yahoo.com wrote:

 **


 I'm surprised this hasnt come up yet - is anyone watching Bigg Boss? What
 do you think of Laxmi's portrayal of the hijra community (or just herself)?

 To just get it started, Laxmi is part of Season 5 of Bigg Boss, the Indian
 version of UK's Big Brother, through which Shilpa Shetty resurrected her
 career a few years back.
 Laxmi is one of 15 contestants, and the only openly GLBT representative.
 For those of you who know her personally, her entry into the house was
 raunchy and promising at best!
 She flirted shamelessly with the hosts, and made no qualms about her
 sexuality, body or boobs. In the first week, we even saw her giving all the
 girls a 'feel' of her fake boobs!

 Anyway, it has been a month, and Laxmi has grown from someone who 'scared'
 all the girls with her hijra like anger bursts, to being one of the most
 liked contestants on the show, by the housemates.
 To a recent question by Sanjay Dutt, she was named the 'most genuine
 person' in the house by Akashdeep Sehgal, and 'the most likely to win' by
 Juhi Parmar.

 If you're not watching it, do catch up on Youtube! For those of you who
 do, I'd love to hear what you think!

 VK

  




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Re: g_b Re: Hi...

2011-11-01 Thread asfan
Oh my goodness!!!  I didn't know he made a spelling mistake
How stupid of poor ole me!!  I am so dumb!!  



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Sent: Tuesday, 1 November 2011 9:57 AM
Subject: Re: g_b Re: Hi...


  
He wrote wrong word.Correct word is Mail or Email bounces back
regards
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Sent: Monday, 31 October 2011 8:22 AM
Subject: Re: g_b Re: Hi...


  
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Subject: g_b Re: Hi...


  
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g_b File - Personal Advertisements

2011-11-01 Thread gay_bombay

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g_b File - E mail problems?

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g_b File - Photo Album

2011-11-01 Thread gay_bombay

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g_b File - just in case you did not know

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g_b File - Tired of too many mails?

2011-11-01 Thread gay_bombay

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g_b Fw: For a Basso Profundo, a New Literary Tune [2 Attachments]

2011-11-01 Thread asfan





http://www.nytimes.com/2011/11/01/books/alan-hollinghursts-strangers-child-is-a-departure.html?nl=todaysheadlinesemc=tha28

  
 

October 31, 2011
For a Basso Profundo, a New Literary Tune
By CHARLES McGRATH
Alan Hollinghurst, whose new book, “The Stranger’s Child,” is just out, does 
not immediately seem like the kind of writer whose first novel included what 
amounts to a field guide to the variety of male genitalia. “There are only so 
many ways one can describe a penis,” he told British Esquire not long ago, 
“and I think I’ve covered most of them.” 
 
Mr. Hollinghurst, 57, is courteous, dignified, a little formal. He has a voice 
so deep and rumbling that at The Times Literary Supplement, where he was an 
editor for many years, he was nicknamed Basso Profundo. These days with his 
short, neatly trimmed gray beard, he could easily be cast as a supernumerary 
in a Wagner production. 
 
The profundo part may also have been a tribute to Mr. Hollinghurst’s 
formidable erudition. He’s known in literary circles for compiling something 
called Nemo’s Almanac, a demonically difficult quiz that requires participants 
to identify obscure quotations from obscure writers. Yet “of all my writer 
friends,” said Edward St. Aubyn, a fellow novelist, “he’s the one who knows 
the most about the other arts — music, painting, architecture.” 
 
“He was a marvelous editor, very reserved in his judgments,” Jeremy Treglown, 
a former editor of the supplement who hired Mr. Hollinghurst, said recently. 
“I learned to listen to his silences.” 
 
Mr. Treglown also recalled that Mr. Hollinghurst’s résumé mentioned that he 
meant to pursue an interest in gay literature. “Given that he was coming to 
work for Rupert Murdoch, that was a pretty clear statement of intent,” he 
said. 
 
In 1988, while still working at the Literary Supplement (he left in 1990 and 
worked part time for a few years afterward), Mr. Hollinghurst published “The 
Swimming Pool Library,” a novel that did for gay sex and desire more or less 
what John Updike’s “Couples” did for the heterosexual kind: described it in 
prose that was lush, finely wrought and unusually explicit. 
 
In New York last week Mr. Hollinghurst said that his intention had been to 
take gay life as much for granted as most novels take life among 
heterosexuals. 
 
“I was aware that I had this very great stroke of luck, really, to have this 
large subject and a chance to do something both explicit and unapologetic,” he 
explained. “I did have a feeling of novelty about the whole thing. It was 
interesting to me that it hadn’t happened before. Gays hadn’t really been 
written about much in literary fiction, and the kind of writing there was 
about gays’ sexual lives tended to be pornography.” 
 
Over the next 15 years Mr. Hollinghurst published three more novels: “The 
Folding Star” (1994),“The Spell” (1998) and “The Line of Beauty” (2004). Each 
was well received (“The Line of Beauty” won the Booker Prize); and even as his 
prose grew more elegant, Jamesian even, each in one way or another continued 
his project of chronicling gay life in Britain in the second half of the 20th 
century. 
 
“When I started out, I did think of myself as a gay writer, though not only as 
a gay writer,” he said. “I wanted to write for a readership outside the ghetto 
and suggest that gays didn’t spend all their time being madly gay.” 
 
He went on: ” I think that gay writing, gay fiction, had its point, its 
urgency, through all those years, and then the AIDS crisis added another huge 
story. But lately, with all the social and legal changes, and the way the 
perception of gay people has changed, I feel that gay writing is already 
dissolving into the main body of writing. I sort of feel we’ve moved on.” 
 
The new book is something of a departure. It’s a historical novel of sorts, 
spanning almost 100 years, and told in five discrete sections, set in 1913, 
1926, 1967, 1978 and 2008, in which new characters are introduced and old ones 
fade into the background, only to re-emerge, older and greatly altered. There 
is a gay tryst scene, but by Hollinghurst standards a pretty tepid one, and 
one of the main characters is a woman. 
 
At the center of the novel is a bisexual Rupert Brooke-like poet named Cecil 
Valance, who while visiting the home of an Oxford chum, writes a poem, 
destined like Brooke’s “The Old Vicarage, Grantchester,” to enter the national 
mythology. The work is second rate at best, and like Valance himself, who dies 
in World War I and becomes a cult figure, it’s a little mysterious. Was it 
written for the Oxford boyfriend or for his teenage sister, whom Valance also 
makes a pass at, and why does it so capture the public imagination? 
 
In the end “The Stranger’s Child” is a study in the vagaries of literary 
reputation, the untruths of biography and even of the shifting nature of the 
British class system. The novel has been mostly well reviewed — Thomas Mallon 
in The New York Times 

g_b KASHISH 2012: Call for film submissions

2011-11-01 Thread Solaris Pictures

KASHISH 2012: Call for film
submissions
 
 
We are back
with a bang! India’s Biggest Queer Film Festival returns for its third edition
in 2012. Submissions are now open for all categories, including for the
competition section. Filmmakers from India and across the world can submit
features, documentaries and short films that highlight/focus on Gay, Lesbian,
Bisexual, Transgender, Queer themes and expressions.
 
KASHISH
Mumbai International Queer Film Festival is the first and only gay 
lesbian film festival in India to be held in a mainstream theatre and the only
queer festival to receive clearance from the Ministry of Information and
Broadcasting
 
KASHISH
2012 will be held in Mumbai from May 23-27, 2011 simultaneously at two venues -
a mainstream multiplex theatre and at Alliance Francaise de Bombay. The
festival is organized by Solaris Pictures and Bombay Dost in association with
The Humsafar Trust.
 
While the
landmark first edition was held at PVR Cinemas, Juhu, from April 22-25, 2010
and screened 110 films from 25 countries, the second edition was held at
Cinemax, Versova between May 25-29, 2011 and proved to bigger, bolder and
queerer. Both the years, the festival was held simultaneously in South Mumbai
at Alliance Francaise de Bombay.
 
The second
edition in 2011 screened 124 films from 23 countries over five days and had
67.5% capacity turnout with about 6225 audience footfalls. Seven films were
awarded with the KASHISH 2011 trophies. The guests featured A-list Bollywood
actors and actresses, eminent filmmakers and critics, young filmmakers and
actors as well as four international filmmakers - Q.Allan Brocka (USA), Rikki
Beadle-Blair (UK), Georgette Okey (UK) and John Badalu (Indonesia).
 
LAST DATE FOR SUBMISSION: JANUARY
15, 2012  
 
Rules for submission:
 
·    Filmmakers from India and across the world can submit
features, documentaries and short films that highlight/focus on Gay, Lesbian,
Bisexual, Transgender, Queer themes and expressions.
·    There is no SUBMISSION FEE to submit the film. Also the
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resources in showcasing the films to the best possible extent.
·    All films, including those in the English language, SHOULD
be subtitled in English.
·    The festival has both competitive and non-competitive
sections.
·    Only films completed after January 1, 2009 can be submitted.
Only films completed after January 1, 2011 will be eligible for Competition.
·    LAST DATE FOR SUBMISSION: JANUARY 15, 2012 (postmarked). 
·    The festival encourages you to apply early since previews
begin mid November.
 
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