g_b two attempts to take on homophobes

2014-10-20 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
Here are two recent attempts to take on homophobes which are worth seeing, 
though this first one is frankly a bit of a train wreck:


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This isn't really the fault of the person defending gay rights, Senator David 
Norris of Ireland in this extended clip from Russia Today. Norris is a 
wonderful and hugely entertaining man. He fought and won the case to 
decriminalise homosexuality in Ireland and has been an important voice for 
human rights across all areas - as he says in this clip he doesn't even talk 
about homosexuality all that much and it seems he came to RT assuming he was 
going to talk about Gaza.




But he's confronted with an interviewer who is perhaps sort of well meaning in 
her own way, but is incredibly confused and fixated on a few things and cannot 
see how prejudiced this makes her from the start. It is almost painful to see, 
yet it is the reason this clip is worth seeing because I think this sort of 
confused prejudice that conflates homosexuality with Western propaganda and 
sees all sorts of problems coming from it like falling population is exactly 
the sort of argument I can see similar TV anchors making here in India. The 
clip is worth seeing as a way to make us think how to counter it.




Norris, I have to say, could do a slightly better job of it. He misses the 
obvious retort to her constantly harping on about how gay couples have fewer 
children by pointing out that its because of all the problems they face when 
they try to have children by surrogacy, or adopt children unwanted by straight 
people, which is sort of where this programme starts. He and she just talk past 
each other on the population decline issue, and there are a few other moments 
where this happens.




But really, who can blame him, because he's dealing with her nonsense in real 
time and you can see he can hardly believe what he's hearing and there are few 
great moments where he calls her out on it and says she's talking lies or 
nonsense. Or there's his wonderful dismissal of this weird term she keeps using 
'homonormativity' and towards the end he clearly decides just to give up and 
have fun, and starts talking about Putin riding around barechested and you can 
see the Russian anchor nearly have a heart attack on air at that point. Norris 
just lets go his inner camp old man and its great.




(I was lucky enough to meet Norris in Ireland some years back and he was a 
blast! I called his office out of the blue and he agreed to meet almost at 
once, and showed me around Leinster House, the Irish Parliament, while pointing 
out to me in very loud whispers all the scandals that the different Irish 
Parliamentarians who were walking around were involved in. He was a real and 
very charming character and one who has used his personality and intellect 
greatly for the general good).




As a corrective to that nutty interview, check this short clip from Australia. 
Its worth seeing just for the contrasting impressions you get of the two people 
involved - Bob Katter, an Australian politician who has been very homophobic in 
the past and really looks like he has a boomerang stuffed up his backside, its 
like he's almost ill at have to talk about this at all, and Josh Thomas, a 
young and quite happily camp actor and TV writer, who goes quite adorably - to 
use one of his own terms - manic and starts waving his arms around.




Its worth noting that Katter is not the standard hardline anti-progressive 
homophobe. As Thomas says, he's actually done really good things, supporting 
his farmer constituents, and also Aboriginals, not a position many Australian 
right wing politicians have taken. But this is what makes his homophobia and, 
even more, his refusal to apologise for past open expressions of it so 
mystifying. Its like he knows - and has even almost admitted it - that he was 
wrong in the past, but he just can't bring himself to do what Thomas tells him 
to do (adorably!) which is just say sorry:






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g_b In and out and in the closet

2014-10-20 Thread Richard A Ammon mic...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
“People came out after the high court verdict in 2009 because they thought 
everything was OK,” activist Anuja Parikh told NBC News. “Now that the Supreme 
Court has taken a massive backwards step, the people who came out of the closet 
are suddenly afraid because they can’t go back in.”
...But the Delhi Supreme Court reinstated the colonial law in December, 
threatening fragile gains made by the LGBT community. Many who had felt 
comfortable openly admitting who they were became terrified...
India's Gays, Lesbians 'Suddenly Afraid' After Court Ruling - NBC News


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g_b It matters that you don't just give up

2014-10-20 Thread dunn...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
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However difficult life may seem ... it matters that you don't just give up. The 
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g_b India talk show changes views on gays

2014-10-20 Thread gay_bombay moderator modera...@gaybombay.in [gay_bombay]
India talk show changes views on gays
 About 1.7 million people called in to protest the country's anti-gay law
20 October 2014 | By Darren Wee
http://www.gaystarnews.com/author/darren-wee
 [image: Indian actor Aamir Khan said Khan said LGBTI people should not
feel fear or shame in accepting their sexual preference.]
Photo via Facebook


Indian actor Aamir Khan's hit talk show Satyamev Jayate last night tackled
the taboo topic of alternative sexualities, with many viewers saying the
program changed their perception of LGBTI people.


Guests included transgender woman Gazal Dhaliwal and her parents, popular
psychologist Deepak Kashyap and LGBTI activists.


Khan listened sympathetically as his LGBTI guests told their coming out
stories. Several stressed the importance of parental relationships in
shaping their lives and fighting depression and suicidial thoughts.


Khan said LGBTI people should not feel fear or shame in accepting their
sexual preference, which they were born with.


Doctors explained that homosexuality was not a disease and could not be
cured with yoga while lawyers explained the colonial origins of Section 377
of the penal code, which criminalizes gay sex.


The show has a reach of 129.6 million and had a massive impact on viewers.


The hashtag #FreedomForLGBT became the top trending topic globally on
Twitter and 1.7 million missed calls were made to a hotline set up by the
show to protest the anti-gay law.


Veena Chowdary wrote on the show's website, 'In a span of 1 hour you have
changed the way I used to feel about LGBT. Hope your work towards making
the society better continues.'


Divyaraj Gadhvi tweeted, 'I pledge today I will never crack jokes on
homosexuals or transgenders. Become sensitive on this issue.'


India recriminalized gay sex in December last year.
http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/india-supreme-court-finds-sodomy-law-constitutional-throws-issue-back-lawmakers111213


Watch the show with English subtitles below:


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g_b Happiness is

2014-10-20 Thread dunn...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
Happiness is not about how much we possess but how little we bicker over 
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only work on ourselves, to grow in grace. The only thing we can do about people 
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g_b Kindness always inspire others to be kind

2014-10-20 Thread dunn...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
No life is complete without a touch of madness. - Paulo Coelho (Living life to 
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Paulo Coelho said, There are moments when you must be prepared to take a risk 
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