g_b A TOTALLY DIFFERENT KINDA COMING OUT PARTY

2006-04-07 Thread Scarberian



Subject: A TOTALLY DIFFERENT KINDA "COMING OUT" PARTY  This is a MAD TV "Coming out" Party!! Enjoy the light hearted humour!!http://youtube.com/watch?v=mHqwyr8ZIFo
	

	
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g_b TELL ME WHY????

2006-03-01 Thread Scarberian



Have you ever wondered where the Backstreet Boys got all their Hit songs from Well guys, the secret is "OUT"here is the desi duo who was their "inspiration"enjoy ( Hahahahaahaha)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L_rK93ERHgQ
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g_b Interesting article

2006-02-12 Thread Scarberian



Interesting articleinteresting point of viewhttp://www.dailykos.com/story/2006/2/6/172635/1891
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g_b INFO FOR TUHIN

2006-02-08 Thread Scarberian



Dear Tuhin,I came across a website which looks very comprehensively into the whole "HIV and AIDS" epidemic. I found it very informative as I hope you will tooit may help answer many of your questionsor at the least give u contacts ( real doctors and professionals)who may answer specific questions you may have..here is the weblink 4 u and the rest of the membership who are interested:http://www.gay.com/health/hiv/treatment/?sernum=2208Regards  Scarb***Date: Tue, 7 Feb 2006 16:44:18 + (GMT) From: Tuhin Roy [EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: Life and Death question.. Dear All,I am in a big confusion and very disturbed. The thing which I am going to write may seem a bit vulgar, but after going through the mail, you can understand why I have written this. Please help me and post this messege. I am trying my best to make the language as sober as possible.***Hello Friends,I have three queries. Last Sunday i.e. on 5th of Februaury 06, I had physical with a guy. I don't know whether he was HIV positive or not. Now I am very much afraid. I am stating my queries one by one:1) While going physical he penetrated me without condom. As soon as I realized that it wasn't safe,
 I pushed him out. He penetrated hardly for 4-5 seconds. Then he dropped the idea of penetrating and started playing with his organ on my anus, finally came on it, may be some semen have entered my place. But then I cleaned my place with tissue paper.I want to know if he was HIV positive, what are the chances that I got infected.2) I know that HIV survives in blood, seminal and vaginal fluids. But in the saliva of a HIV positive person some amount of virus is found. While doing oral his saliva came in contact with my seminal fluid, again the same question as above.3) In spite of all chances of myself getting infected, I want to make test. The incubation period of HIV is about 4-5 years and the incident took place hardly few days ago. So, when should I take the test? I want it to be absolutely confidential. I reside in Delhi. So, I want to know the right place and obviously cost for making the test in Delhi.I know that I have
 asked too many questions. But at least you can understand why. I am very disturbed, am not able to concentrate on anything. It is a question of my life and death. Please help me. I want AUTHENTIC REPLY, please take this query seriously. Please don't confuse and frighten me further with different contradicting answers, already I am scared to death, but please do help me.Regards,Tuhin
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g_b SHOCKING

2006-01-23 Thread Scarberian



Not sure where this scene was captured.could be India, Pakistan, Singaporecould be Middle East.but this could happen anywhere around the globeto anyoneall makes you wonder what's happening to your kids, neices, nephews when they are left alone with their nannies.its chilling!http://www.neethu.com/abbasiya  
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g_b THE CHRISTMAS KANGAROO - link valid for 7 days only

2005-12-23 Thread Scarberian



Below is a Hilarious "Saturday Night Live" spoof about errr...well why dont you just download it and watch it...im sure you will find it quite amusingYou can click on the following link to retrieve your file. The link willexpire in 7 days and will be available for a limited number of downloads.ChristmasKangaroo.wmvhttp://s10.yousendit.com/d.aspx?id=0FSMCK80E2RCS2ZWRDFDHDTJQW (5461KB)If you have any questions, please email [EMAIL PROTECTED].The YouSendIt Team
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g_b Interesting article posted in AL JAZEERA

2005-12-17 Thread Scarberian



  You've got more than mail ...  Friday 16 December 2005, 14:17 Makka Time, 11:17 GMT   
   One of the postcards that visitors to the site can send to partnersRelated:  UN plea to keep Aids fight promises  Aids kills 3.1m this year  Fast facts:
 HIV/AidsTools:  Email Article   Print Article   Send Your Feedback People practising unprotected sex may soon find something more worrying than spam waiting for them in their inbox.Health authorities in Los Angeles County, California, have created an internet site where visitors can anonymously notify sexual partners that they may have been infected with a sexually transmitted disease (STD).The site, www.InSPOTLA.org, went online on Wednesday. It offers various electronic postcards that can be emailed simultaneously to as many as six sexual partners who might be infected with an STD.One card reads: "You're too hot to be out of action", and features the back of a man covering his behind with a towel. It goes on: "I got diagnosed with an STD since we played. You might want to get checked too."The site provides information about how to avoid contracting several of the most common STDs.Another card reads: "It's not what you brought to the party, it's what you left with. I left with an STD. You might have too. Get checked soon."  'Powerful tool'The service was developed by a non-profit group called the Internet Sexuality Information Services. It is co-sponsored by the AIDS Healthcare Foundation, with funding from the Los Angeles County.Karen Mall,director of prevention and
 testing for the foundation, said: "Face-to-face communication is really the way to go, but some people can't do that."Mall said that around60,000 of the 10 million residents of Los Angeles County currentlyhave HIV, the Aids virus, and a quarter of them do not know about it.Jonathan Fielding, the county public health director, said: "This website will be a powerful tool in reducing the spread of STDs, including HIV, in LA County."A similar
 site was launched in San Francisco in 2004, and 750 people visit it every day, officials say, with some 500 electronic post cardsbeing sent outeach month.Weblink: http://english.aljazeera.net/NR/exeres/AF9D2D9D-EDDE-4B43-B69C-56FC03D61694.htm
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g_b The Encounter At The Bar

2005-11-22 Thread Scarberian



Saleemwalks into a bar and sees agorgeous hunk nursing a drink.Walking up behind himSaleem says, "Hi, there, good lookin'! How's itgoing?"Having already downed a few power drinksthe tipsyhunkturned around, looked him straight in the eye and said, . .. ."Listen! I screw anybody, any time, anywhere, your place, my place, inthe car, front door, back door, on the ground, standing up, sittingdown, naked, with clothes on, dirty, clean, it just doesn't matter to me. I've been doing it ever since I got out of college.I just flat-ass love it!"Eyes now wide with interest,Saleemresponded with a huge smile,"No kidding! I'm a lawyer, too! What firm are you with?"
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g_b My First Condom

2005-11-19 Thread Scarberian



FIRST TIME CONDOM... (Author Anonymous) I recall my first time with a condom, I was 16 or so.  I went in to buy a package of condoms. There was ahandsome man behind the counter, and he could see thatI was new at it. He handed me the package and asked,if I knew how to wear one.  I honestly answered, "No."  So he unwrapped the package, took one out and slippedover his thumb. He cautioned me to make sure it was ontight and secure.  I apparently still looked confused. So he looked allaround the store. It was empty. "Just a minute," hesaid, and walked to the door, and locked it.   Taking my hand, he led me into the back room,unbuttoned his shirt and removed it . He removed hispants and then his undies and laid it aside. Turnedaround and spread his creamy butts, "Do these
 exciteyou?" he asked.   Well, I was so dumb-struck that all I could do wasnod my head.  He then said, it was time to slip the condom on. As Iwas slipping it on, He bent down on a desk.  "Well, come on", he said, "We don't have much time."  So I climbed on him. It was so wonderful, thatunfortunately, I could no longer hold back and POW, Iwas done within a few minutes.  He looked at me with a frown. "Did you put thatcondom on?"  I said, "I sure did," and held up my thumb to showhim. 
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g_b SEX, LIES BEEF CAKE IN THE BOLLYWOOD INDUSTRY

2005-08-11 Thread Scarberian



Interesting article I thought you may find at least a bit tickling.enjoy!!!
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SEX LIES  BEEFCAKE
Well after fashion designer Jatin Kochchar had shut shop for the day, the doorman reported a persistent young man at the studio gates. The youth’s voice – a shade agitated – crackled out at Kochchar over intercom : "Don’t you remember me ?… We met at Aamir Rajpal’s," he added helpfully. 
Rajpal runs a grooming house for aspiring models in New Delhi. "No, I’m sorry, we couldn’t have. I was never at Rajpal’s place," Kochchar tried to tell the young man. "But I don’t blame him for finding that hard to believe. At that party he was introduced to and later ‘serviced’ someone who claimed to be me," says Kochchar.
The young man is not alone. If glamour circuit stories are any indication the lid is about to blow off the Indian fashion and entertainment world’s best-kept secret: the male casting couch. 
Men demanding sexual favours from nubile young men in return for that crucial big break, that elusive walk on the ramp or that plum role in a forthcoming production or even just a role in an ad film. In many cases, the answer is: yes.
Circumspection is still the name of the game. A few weeks ago, during television talk show, babyface he-man Mr. Grasim International 2000 – Aryan Vaid – casually mentioned the time he was propositioned by another man. The anchor, actress Archana Puran Singh, did not bat an eyelid. She accepted it for what it was : a little discussed but well-known reality of their world.
But now, asked to elaborate on the "proposition’ he experienced, Vaid expectedly shies away. "I would not like to talk about details. It would create enmity within the industry," he says. Just on the verge of launching a big-time Bollywood career, Vaid is hardly going to do a Manoj Prabhakar on the male casting couch.
More and more people are ready to speak out though. "The male casting couch definitely exists in India," says writer and former film journalist Shobha De. "There is no gender bias any more. 
The big players are influential film directors and movie producers, fashion choreographers and photographers and ad executives. There are gay gossip columnists who only promote their pets. Gay critics play favourites as well." Powerful gay men who select young men for sex and stardom.
The concept is not new. Hollywood’s powerful gay mafia – or Velvet Mafia – has long been notorious. India now has none too. "A few actors and a bunch of film-makers are part of this gay clique. They are all whizkids, all fast-selling names at the box office. 
So not many have the guts to expose them," says Bharati Pradhan, film columnist and former editor of Star and Style. On January 30, a website on Indian films alluded to the phenomenon revealing the names of some top actors and directors who have had close encounters with the male casting couch.
Former actress Asha Sachdev relates the story of Aftab Ahmed, a student at the acting school she runs. A big-time director-producer came up to Ahmed and said, "You want a role. I’ll give you one." He was also very explicit about what he expected in return. 
The scared Ahmed immediately went the reported this to Ashadidi as her students call her. Says Sachdev, "I called up the guy right away and told him to keep his hands off. It’s crazy, the kind of demands my students have to put up with. A lot of them have complained to me about how they were approached by a director or a producer. It’s disgusting. I always tell my boys to keep their distance. It’s not worth it."
Not just top-bracket Bollywood film directors or a Bangalore-based fashion designer whole "harem of boys: has given the country some of its most famous male models, but even model coordinators, film "extras", agencies, hair stylists and almost anyone who liases between the model or the star, can play out his demand on the couch.
Take, for instance, an upper-end discotheque in the Capital well past midnight. The dance floor is crowded out with young, gyrating bodies. The opening beats of Freddie Mercury’s I Want To Break Free throbs from the DJ’s console. One swarthy young man, lithe body perfectly outlined in a white turtle neck and red sweatpants, sways rhythmically and alone.
But his eyes are alert, darting quickly every few minutes to the long bar which runs through the disco. Almost an hour later, he stops mid-dance, a wide grin split across his face, as he pushes his way off the dance floor. He walks to the bar and through a small crowd that surrounds New Delhi’s famous drag queen hair stylist : Sylvie.
Dressed in faux leopard skin hotpants, Sylvie is surrounded by an admiring clutch of young, good-looking men, most of whom are waiting hungrily on the threshold of ramp modelling. Sylvie rumored to be close to some of the powers that be, runs the International Designer Training Academy in south Delhi, a grooming school for aspiring models.
The celebration more realistically the commodification, of the Indian male body 

g_b PLEASE VOTE FOR KAYSAR!!!!!!!!!!!

2005-08-06 Thread Scarberian






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g_b Labeling

2005-05-15 Thread Scarberian





Whenwelook ata glass half filled with water, some of us may see it as a glass half full of water,while othersmay see it as a glass half empty of water. Both observations are correct, but it is up to each one of us to decide which of the two observations brings about a positive approach of looking at it. 

In the same way, whendealing with people,it is all too easy to label people and their behavioural patternsin a negative manner, and perhapsthatis so because we areconditioned byeither society's or our own interpretation of what a typical behaviourpattern should be regarded as.It is quite interesting to observe how labels could be shifted.. 


Label ShiftingThe following list was published in Handbook of Cognitive Therapy Techniques, by Rian McMullin. 




A person who...
Could be called...
Or could be called...

changes one's mind a lot
wishy-washy
flexible

expresses one's opinion
egotistical
honest, assertive

is emotionally sensitive
sick, fragile
alive, caring, open

is selective in choosing a mate
afraid to commit
patient, careful, discriminating

gets depressed sometimes
neurotic
normal human being

isn't good at a game
stupid, inferior
hasn't practiced

isn't orderly
sloppy, piggish
spontaneous, carefree

pleases others
social phobic
likable

believes what others say
gullible
trusting

loves another strongly
dependent
loving

gets anxious
weak, cowardly
learned to, was taught

is nontraditional
malcontent, heretical, immoral
independent, uninhibited, free

is helped by another
manipulated
cared for

is not working hard on a task
lazy
relaxed

is sure of something
conceited
self-confident

stands up for personal rights
argumentative
gutsy

thinks before making decisions
indecisive
careful

takes risks
harebrained
brave

sticks to projects
compulsive
determined

gets excited
hysterical
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g_b Message for Smarterboy

2005-02-23 Thread Scarberian





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please remove me and "garamjism" from your mass distribution list at your earliest convinience. I have tried repeatedly to get in touch with you over the past several days...each time my mail being returned back to me. I am hoping you will get this message.
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g_b Re: Benny Hinn (Fraudster or Miracle Healer)

2005-01-26 Thread Scarberian




Hi,

I am writing this e-mail in respsonse to fun-dude's response Re: Benny Hinn. I recently watched an expose documentary from one of Canada's most reputed TV channels CBC. They apparently did a documentary on Benny Hinn and tried to dig into where all the money donated to his ministry goes..and guess what? You guessed it.he is a fraudter GALORE When the media caught up to him in Toronto at his hotelhe ran like a rat exposed to light As for his supposed "healing powers"...that is all fake too.have you noticed that when he is on stage, he wears an ear piece from which he is given information about the person he is to be treating next on the stage...all the personal info of the "patient" is taken from the patient before hand by his staff..intervies of his "cured" pateients post his "healing" session showed nothing has changed except for the fact that benny's account keeps blossoming to no end.

If you dont believe meread it for yourselfI am attachinga link from CBC's archives that will give you Benny's background and all the dirt he doesnt want people to see. 

http://www.cbc.ca/fifth/main_miracles.html


Now I dont want anyone to get me wrong and think that i am "attacking" any religion specifically but I do feel that Benny Hinn is a total fraud...just like Jim Baker (convicted and jailed for defrauding his flock while leaving in a mansion with his dog's kennel having air conditioning.and being an adulterer while preaching against adultery!!!), Jimmy Swaggart ( another adulterer who was caught redhanded with prostitutes by police and later cried hsi eyes out to his flock and asked for forgiveness.what a load of crap it all was). Then you have Oral Roberts ( who claimed God was speaking to him .all later exposed to be BULLSHIT good enough to fertile the sahara dessert into a lush tropical forest)

I dont want the members here or Fun dude to think that I am disparaging any particular religion but I do think that people always take things witha grain of salt - especially when they are being solicited for money in the name of God. Religion is not the problem here.unscrupulous people who prey on naive peopel desperate enough to believe in "miracle healings"...and looting them blind in the name of religion are the real problem. It not only sheds a bad light on their religious organization but tends to make all of us less trusting in our fellow brethren.

I know my e-mail may not seat well with fun dude and may rub soem members teh wrong way - which is not my intention here.I just hope that everyone will look at this issue with an open mind and draw their own conclusion. If my e-mail causes any discomfort to any member in any way, I do regret that...but in no way would that detract me from voicing my own opinion on this Evangelical "miracle healer" crap.

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2004-12-30 Thread Scarberian






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