Re: g_b What is the perfect way Guys?

2011-06-16 Thread cuteboy
For the first time i read something nice coming from this aditya
may god bless u with sanity

--- On Thu, 16/6/11, Aditya Bondyopadhyay  wrote:


From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay 
Subject: Re: g_b What is the perfect way Guys?
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, 16 June, 2011, 12:31 AM


 



Gaypal,
No Comments.!! May you find the true reason why you are here on earth.!! 


I only hope for two things for you.


First, I hope that after you have spent a lifetime researching the researches 
of others as to the true reason for your sexual orientation, because you want 
to know the true reason why you are here on earth, you do not wake up one 
morning to realise that you spent so much time reasoning out life that it has 
in the meanwhile passed you by, and that you have never lived it.


Second, I hope that you realise before it is too late, that you should be glad 
of the fact that you do not have to be 'revolving around' dominance, 
competition or greetings while having anal sex with orgasm, simply because you 
are not non-human...and that being non-animal allows you to do it because of 
love, caring, affection, tenderness, and suchlike things that you come across 
while living life and not researching it.


Best,
Aditya B


On 15 June 2011 18:15, bestpal...@ymail.com  wrote:


 



So far, we have seen plenty of issues regarding gays and its discussion.Why we 
are here or more importantly? Do we actually find the true reason we are on 
earth.

Is life just about finding a job, building a family, buying a house and 
car?.Why do birds sing every morning?.Why does a rainbow appear after it 
rains?. Life is a mystery, one that is not easily understood,Incapable of being 
seen by mortal man-Finished in a moment, and a twinkling of the eye-Easily 
taken for granted.Life has a beginning and an end.

Futile when driven by selfish desires for fame and money, possessions and 
power.So, what do you think perfect way to lead gay life?. Does it have rules 
and regulations or someone make it happen?.

There are 'swingers',confused and marginalized 'bisexuals' with varying agenda 
in life or 'gays' who wants to settle down with men or women and continue the 
'wilder' aspect of life,'gays until graduation' or 'bisexuals until 
graduation', 'bi curious' who wants to have relationship out of curiosity, or 
for 'fluid sexuality'(changing preferences with no clear labels) or 
'pansexual/omnisexuals'(regardless of gender identity has potential for 
aesthetic attraction)

Does marrying guy or girl of same sex orientation improves the scenario?. Does 
people need to carry gay gene to next generation or lead life without progeny?. 
There is also surrogacy, test tube babies...hush hush many more!

In animals(non human)-Every male that sniffed a female was reported as sex, 
while anal intercourse with orgasm between males was only "revolving around" 
dominance, competition or greetings.some people believe that sexual orientation 
is innate and fixed; however, sexual orientation develops across a person's 
lifetime.For some people, sexual orientation is continuous and fixed throughout 
their lives. For others, sexual orientation may be fluid and change over time.

Gay men face options which include: "foster care, variations of domestic and 
international adoption, diverse forms of surrogacy (whether "traditional" or 
gestational), and kinship arrangements, wherein they might coparent with a 
woman or women with whom they are intimately but not sexually involved.

In contemporary Adlerian thought, homosexuals are not considered within the 
problematic discourse of the "failures of life". Christopher Shelley (1998), an 
Adlerian psychotherapist, published a volume of essays in the 1990s that 
feature Freudian, (post)Jungian and Adlerian contributions that demonstrate 
affirmative shifts in the depth psychologies.

Research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social, 
and cultural influences on sexual orientation, but no findings have emerged 
that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any 
particular factor or factors. Research suggests it is biological in nature, 
determined by a complex interplay of genetic factors and the early uterine 
environment. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles

There is klein grid which describes about -Sexual Attraction,Sexual 
Behaviour,Sexual Fantasies,Emotional preference,Social preference,
Lifestyle preference, and Self-identification!

Variety is the spice of life and reason for conflict, arguement and discussions.

So, with all these discussions, What do you think guys - the perfect way to 
lead a life and how do you feel the issue of necessity of contributing LGBT 
Community?. Are we overreacting?...panicking?...striving hard for 
rights?doing normal?

At the end LET US CH

Re: g_b What is the perfect way Guys?

2011-06-15 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
Gaypal,
No Comments.!! May you find the true reason why you are here on earth.!!

I only hope for two things for you.

First, I hope that after you have spent a lifetime researching the
researches of others as to the true reason for your sexual orientation,
because you want to know the true reason why you are here on earth, you do
not wake up one morning to realise that you spent so much time reasoning out
life that it has in the meanwhile passed you by, and that you have never
lived it.

Second, I hope that you realise before it is too late, that you should be
glad of the fact that you do not have to be 'revolving around' dominance,
competition or greetings while having anal sex with orgasm, simply because
you are not non-human...and that being non-animal allows you to do it
because of love, caring, affection, tenderness, and suchlike things that you
come across while living life and not researching it.

Best,
Aditya B

On 15 June 2011 18:15, bestpal...@ymail.com  wrote:

>
>
> So far, we have seen plenty of issues regarding gays and its discussion.Why
> we are here or more importantly? Do we actually find the true reason we are
> on earth.
>
> Is life just about finding a job, building a family, buying a house and
> car?.Why do birds sing every morning?.Why does a rainbow appear after it
> rains?. Life is a mystery, one that is not easily understood,Incapable of
> being seen by mortal man-Finished in a moment, and a twinkling of the
> eye-Easily taken for granted.Life has a beginning and an end.
>
> Futile when driven by selfish desires for fame and money, possessions and
> power.So, what do you think perfect way to lead gay life?. Does it have
> rules and regulations or someone make it happen?.
>
> There are 'swingers',confused and marginalized 'bisexuals' with varying
> agenda in life or 'gays' who wants to settle down with men or women and
> continue the 'wilder' aspect of life,'gays until graduation' or 'bisexuals
> until graduation', 'bi curious' who wants to have relationship out of
> curiosity, or for 'fluid sexuality'(changing preferences with no clear
> labels) or 'pansexual/omnisexuals'(regardless of gender identity has
> potential for aesthetic attraction)
>
> Does marrying guy or girl of same sex orientation improves the scenario?.
> Does people need to carry gay gene to next generation or lead life without
> progeny?. There is also surrogacy, test tube babies...hush hush many more!
>
> In animals(non human)-Every male that sniffed a female was reported as sex,
> while anal intercourse with orgasm between males was only "revolving around"
> dominance, competition or greetings.some people believe that sexual
> orientation is innate and fixed; however, sexual orientation develops across
> a person's lifetime.For some people, sexual orientation is continuous and
> fixed throughout their lives. For others, sexual orientation may be fluid
> and change over time.
>
> Gay men face options which include: "foster care, variations of domestic
> and international adoption, diverse forms of surrogacy (whether
> "traditional" or gestational), and kinship arrangements, wherein they might
> coparent with a woman or women with whom they are intimately but not
> sexually involved.
>
> In contemporary Adlerian thought, homosexuals are not considered within the
> problematic discourse of the "failures of life". Christopher Shelley (1998),
> an Adlerian psychotherapist, published a volume of essays in the 1990s that
> feature Freudian, (post)Jungian and Adlerian contributions that demonstrate
> affirmative shifts in the depth psychologies.
>
> Research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental,
> social, and cultural influences on sexual orientation, but no findings have
> emerged that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is
> determined by any particular factor or factors. Research suggests it is
> biological in nature, determined by a complex interplay of genetic factors
> and the early uterine environment. Many think that nature and nurture both
> play complex roles
>
> There is klein grid which describes about -Sexual Attraction,Sexual
> Behaviour,Sexual Fantasies,Emotional preference,Social preference,
> Lifestyle preference, and Self-identification!
>
> Variety is the spice of life and reason for conflict, arguement and
> discussions.
>
> So, with all these discussions, What do you think guys - the perfect way to
> lead a life and how do you feel the issue of necessity of contributing LGBT
> Community?. Are we overreacting?...panicking?...striving hard for
> rights?doing normal?
>
> At the end LET US CHILL OUT WITH FREE FLOW OF BLACK LABEL WHISKEY!!!
>
>  
>



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-- 
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Development Sector Consultant
Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India)

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g_b What is the perfect way Guys?

2011-06-15 Thread bestpal...@ymail.com
So far, we have seen plenty of issues regarding gays and its discussion.Why we 
are here or more importantly? Do we actually find the true reason we are on 
earth.

Is life just about finding a job, building a family, buying a house and 
car?.Why do birds sing every morning?.Why does a rainbow appear after it 
rains?. Life is a mystery, one that is not easily understood,Incapable of being 
seen by mortal man-Finished in a moment, and a twinkling of the eye-Easily 
taken for granted.Life has a beginning and an end.

Futile when driven by selfish desires for fame and money, possessions and 
power.So, what do you think perfect way to lead gay life?. Does it have rules 
and regulations or someone make it happen?.

There are 'swingers',confused and marginalized 'bisexuals' with varying agenda 
in life or 'gays' who wants to settle down with men or women and continue the 
'wilder' aspect of life,'gays until graduation' or 'bisexuals until 
graduation', 'bi curious' who wants to have relationship out of curiosity, or 
for 'fluid sexuality'(changing preferences with no clear labels) or 
'pansexual/omnisexuals'(regardless of gender identity has potential for 
aesthetic attraction)

Does marrying guy or girl of same sex orientation improves the scenario?. Does 
people need to carry gay gene to next generation or lead life without progeny?. 
There is also surrogacy, test tube babies...hush hush many more!

In animals(non human)-Every male that sniffed a female was reported as sex, 
while anal intercourse with orgasm between males was only "revolving around" 
dominance, competition or greetings.some people believe that sexual orientation 
is innate and fixed; however, sexual orientation develops across a person's 
lifetime.For some people, sexual orientation is continuous and fixed throughout 
their lives. For others, sexual orientation may be fluid and change over time.

Gay men face options which include: "foster care, variations of domestic and 
international adoption, diverse forms of surrogacy (whether "traditional" or 
gestational), and kinship arrangements, wherein they might coparent with a 
woman or women with whom they are intimately but not sexually involved.

In contemporary Adlerian thought, homosexuals are not considered within the 
problematic discourse of the "failures of life". Christopher Shelley (1998), an 
Adlerian psychotherapist, published a volume of essays in the 1990s that 
feature Freudian, (post)Jungian and Adlerian contributions that demonstrate 
affirmative shifts in the depth psychologies.

Research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social, 
and cultural influences on sexual orientation, but no findings have emerged 
that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any 
particular factor or factors. Research suggests it is biological in nature, 
determined by a complex interplay of genetic factors and the early uterine 
environment. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles

There is klein grid which describes about -Sexual Attraction,Sexual 
Behaviour,Sexual Fantasies,Emotional preference,Social preference,
Lifestyle preference, and Self-identification!

Variety is the spice of life and reason for conflict, arguement and discussions.

So, with all these discussions, What do you think guys - the perfect way to 
lead a life and how do you feel the issue of necessity of contributing LGBT 
Community?. Are we overreacting?...panicking?...striving hard for 
rights?doing normal?

At the end LET US CHILL OUT WITH FREE FLOW OF BLACK LABEL WHISKEY!!!