Re: Replying to messages

2003-09-02 Thread Ari Davidow

At 02:17 AM 9/2/2003 -0400, you wrote:
I was just pissed that people
replied to the list when the message said
specifically please reply privately, and this happened with
two
successive threads. I'm not saying you should curtail
meaningful
discussion.
This list is not a strip mine. Replies =should= always be to the
list so that everyone can be enlightened, and so that discussion, where
relevant, can ensue. If nothing else, replies to the list are then on
record, and if Shamash ever fixes their search engine (or I finish moving
us to another platform), the next person along with that question can
find it just by searching.
Folks who consider the list their private free consulting group are the
anti-social folks we want to discourage ;-).
ari


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Re: Replying to messages

2003-08-29 Thread I. Oppenheim
On Fri, 29 Aug 2003, Wendy wrote:

 When someone asks a question, unless it's something that you feel is
 important for the whole list to see, please reply offline!  This
 especially goes for those who specifically request replying offline.
 Just check the header when replying and make sure you're not sending it to
 the list.

Unless the subject in question is off-topic, it is
courteous to share the discussion with your friends on
the list, rather than keeping it private.


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Re: Replying to messages

2003-08-29 Thread Lori Cahan-Simon
I agree with Irwin.  Many times responses to requests are interesting 
and generate a lively discussion.

I. Oppenheim wrote:

On Fri, 29 Aug 2003, Wendy wrote:

 

When someone asks a question, unless it's something that you feel is
important for the whole list to see, please reply offline!  This
especially goes for those who specifically request replying offline.
Just check the header when replying and make sure you're not sending it to
the list.
   

Unless the subject in question is off-topic, it is
courteous to share the discussion with your friends on
the list, rather than keeping it private.
Groeten,
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Re: Replying to messages

2003-08-29 Thread Lionel Mrocki
Wendy wrote:

 Please, a note of courtesy:

 When someone asks a question, unless it's something that you feel is
 important for the whole list to see, please reply offline!  This
 especially goes for those who specifically request replying offline.
 Just check the header when replying and make sure you're not sending it to
 the list.


I couldn't disagree more with this posting.  This is the first time in ages
that I've felt compelled to write something to the list.

(Ari, please let me know (on-list) if my thoughts here are misguided.)

For starters, any posting to the list has the default reply address as the
list.  By design,. that suggests that that's where most replies should go.

Secondly, as I understand it, this list is primarily an open discussion
forum.  Sure, if you don't want folks to respond to your posts publicly, then
you are at liberty to request that, but generally, the subscribers to the list
expect to post their replies to the list, unless the reply simply doesn't
relate to jewish music (and is therefore off-topic, or O.T.), or is of a
personal, private or confidential nature which warrants an off-list reply.

(A note of caution: Many replies which have been intended to be private have
inadvertently been posted to the list.  It's one of the real risks one takes
when participating in the list, and anyone expecting private responses ought
to be prepared to take the likely risk that it will happen.)

Thirdly, I have learned so much about jewish music from reading postings
between all manner of people, nearly all of whom I've never met, and never
would have the opportunity to meet here down under, that it would be an
absolute travesty if folks made many of their responses private.  Threads
often take unpredictable turns and divergences which would never occur if the
list never saw the unfolding conversation.  Under these circumstances, I only
wish that folks would rename the threads so that they more clearly represented
the new key topic of that thread of conversation.

Fourthly... if you want to stay private... with the greatest respect, use the
phone.  This kind of open communication could never exist before the internet
became a commonplace phenomenon.  Why bother having the internet if you don't
want to take advantage of its power?

Perhaps its time for some list housekeeping.  Those who are more recent
arrivers to the WWW and the internet generally are often unaware of the
expected netiquette and unwittingly get themselves into a bit of hot water,
or are simply unaware of the options they have to improve their experience of
the net.

Perhaps Ari (or someone else) could construct a page (the address of which
could be included on the footer of postings) where folks could be directed to
get some pointers about this list.  It could;

   * explain the difference between a moderated and an unmoderated list and
 define this one,
   * outline the list netiquette,
   * give directions on how to unsubscribe,
   * outline the methods and the basic pros and cons of the various forms of
 list participation (i.e as a digest, as seperate emails, using web
 access),
   * indicate basic guidelines re HTML/Text only posting (and how to set your
 email client to do that),
   * outline the attachments policy and provide alternate ideas for those
 who wish to make such resources available to listers,
   * provide pointers on accessing and searching the archives,
   * even, dare I say it, give participants an idea of how they might
 determine for themselves, if their posting is on-topic and explain why
 that is an issue,
   * list some other forums which have been set up for the more common
 off-topic threads of conversation. (ie, predominately political issues,
 halachic matters, music which is not jewish, etc.)

Re the on-topic issue, I say determine for themselves quite deliberately
because I understand that what is or isn't on-topic is often a matter of
opinion, and we don't want to see some sort of righteousness or dogma
dictating what people can or can't write about.  Nor do we want to see
slanging matches developing over interpreting the finer points of the law
of the list.  The list netiquette could indicate how to politely suggest ways
that a lister could review the appropriatness of their own posts.

Sorry for the verbosity,

Lionel.

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Re: Replying to messages

2003-08-29 Thread MaxwellSt
In defense of Wendy's original posting:

I believe that she meant that notes between individuals such as "Where should I send the money for that CD?" etc. should be sent between individuals and not posted to the list. We all have a limited workday/weekend/lifespan, and so if the note is not really intended for everyone, make it so.

But if it's a note of potentially general interest--the various replies that come in to all the questions that cross this list--of course, they should be welcome there. And it's also fine, I think, to post the little one-line responses like "Thanks for the help, everyone!" or "Way to go, Lorele!" 

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Re: Replying to messages

2003-08-29 Thread Ari Davidow

 When someone asks
a question, unless it's something that you feel is
 important for the whole list to see, please reply offline!
This
 especially goes for those who specifically request replying
offline.
 Just check the header when replying and make sure you're not sending
it to
 the list.
I couldn't disagree more with this posting. This is the first time
in ages
that I've felt compelled to write something to the
list.
Lionel and several others accurately reflect list policy. This is
a 
community - we WANT people to respond here, and we want those 
conversations. Without those responses going to the list, there would
be 
NO deeper conversation - no responses or feedback to anyone's thoughts
or
opinions. That would be bad for the community.
 
Also, do please note that this list has an owner. It is my job to let

people know if there are problems with posts (and to fix changed 
addresses, temporary absences, etc.). If you have a question about
list 
policy, please check with me
first.

 
Thanks,
 
ari


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Re: Replying to messages

2003-08-29 Thread Freda B Birnbaum
On Fri, 29 Aug 2003, I. Oppenheim wrote:

 On Fri, 29 Aug 2003, Wendy wrote:

  When someone asks a question, unless it's something that you feel is
  important for the whole list to see, please reply offline!  This
  especially goes for those who specifically request replying offline.
  Just check the header when replying and make sure you're not sending
  it to the list.

 Unless the subject in question is off-topic, it is courteous to share
 the discussion with your friends on the list, rather than keeping it
 private.

I agree.  Often other people ARE interested, and it saves the trouble of
writing privately and asking for it for me, too; and the trouble of
replying to several such individuals.  One on-list reply takes care of it.

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