Re: (,) compassion
seeing the sick constantly can certainly do that to a person. which isn't of itself a bad or good thing, but it must be acknowledged that not everyone wants to be (reminded) Their discomfort at being reminded of the ultimate end and the is poor excuse for heaping more difficulty on those who are already suffering. Such people are egocentric and selfish in the extream. Such people are uncivilised. However, sometimes people in pain can be disagreeable I agree. They often become more disagreeable when the people around them add to their discomfort and inconvenience by acting out their fear. __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com To unsubscribe, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Mailinglist from Sztuka Fabryka http://www.sztuka-fabryka.be/ Yahoo! Groups Links * To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ma-network/ * To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] * Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
Re: (,) compassion
I am 72 and have clients who are in their 60s who still want to get rid of the pain. I am amazed at their strength to get through the negative and therefor value and respect themselves. The negative people around them have to make some changes too. YES!!! --- guido bondioli [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: seeing the sick constantly can certainly do that to a person. which isn't of itself a bad or good thing, but it must be acknowledged that not everyone wants to be (reminded) Their discomfort at being reminded of the ultimate end and the is poor excuse for heaping more difficulty on those who are already suffering. Such people are egocentric and selfish in the extream. Such people are uncivilised. However, sometimes people in pain can be disagreeable I agree. They often become more disagreeable when the people around them add to their discomfort and inconvenience by acting out their fear. __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com http://www.picturetrail.com/lavonasherarts __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com To unsubscribe, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Mailinglist from Sztuka Fabryka http://www.sztuka-fabryka.be/ Yahoo! Groups Links * To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ma-network/ * To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] * Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
Re: (,) compassion
You are probably right about that. Stay strong. LaVona --- guido bondioli [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: However, sometimes people in pain can be disagreeable. If I didn't know the person very well, and I didn't know what was going on with them -- that is, I didn't kow that they were ill or that they were going through a break-up, I would probably be annoyed. and you wouldn't ask what was going on either. You would just act out your annoyance and become part of the problem. __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com http://www.picturetrail.com/lavonasherarts __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com To unsubscribe, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Mailinglist from Sztuka Fabryka http://www.sztuka-fabryka.be/ Yahoo! Groups Links * To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ma-network/ * To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] * Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
Re: (,) compassion
regarding sickness:tamara, you are one side of the coin, the other is much more...something.this something is, people do not want to be reminded of the(ir) frailty. seeing the sick constantly can certainly do that to a person. which isn't of itself a bad or good thing, but it must be acknowledged that not everyone wants to be (reminded). On 3/29/06, Tamara Wyndham [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I must say I was surprised to read that. I have cared for sick people. While I am normally squeamish to see certain illnesses in movies or to read about the gory details in a book, in the presence of a human being who is suffering I feel compassion. I do the best I can. The same when my friends have gone through break-ups in their relationships, I am patient and caring. Never occured to me that someone would react differently. However, sometimes people in pain can be disagreeable. If I didn't know the person very well, and I didn't know what was going on with them -- that is, I didn't kow that they were ill or that they were going through a break-up, I would probably be annoyed. - T --- ma-network@yahoogroups.com wrote: Date: Mon, 27 Mar 2006 22:08:24 -0500 From: Elizabeth [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: suicide guido bondioli wrote: People in CIVILIZED countries are very ugly toward sick people... Also when you get divorced or separated. It's as if being in their vicinity will infect them. Being near an ill person raises acute awareness of our personal human fragility and real temporariness on earth. Being near partners separating reminds us of the hardest weakest part of our own relationship. For me, the Fragility and the ambiguity of life are frighteningly intolerable alternating with exhilarating, as is walking on the edge of a geyser, exhaling over the house of cards, being in a hurry passing the wispy glass sculpture. Tamara Wyndham http://www.tamarawyndham.com "We have convictions only if we have studied nothing thoroughly." -- E.M. Cioran, The Trouble With Being Born __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com To unsubscribe, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Mailinglist from Sztuka Fabryka http://www.sztuka-fabryka.be/ YAHOO! GROUPS LINKS Visit your group ma-network on the web. To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to the Yahoo! Terms of Service . -- When hot fluid strikes hotter exhaust manifolds, the risk of fire is serious. But when hot fluid hits someone in the face, it can be even more severe. To unsubscribe, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Mailinglist from Sztuka Fabryka http://www.sztuka-fabryka.be/ YAHOO! GROUPS LINKS Visit your group "ma-network" on the web. To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to the Yahoo! Terms of Service.
