deepti mFrom a alum of Jaipur School.
Though in US it seems strange -- girls have to move in with their husbands
but not with extended families. In some cases -like one unique case of the
sister of a close friend of mine. She got a hi tech job abroad and her broad
minded father agreed to get her married to her (not earning??) boyfriend from
earlier days and help fund the son-in-law move to the new land Down Under:-)
Umesh
Subject: Fwd: MUST RESPECT WOMEN
Dunno who wrote it, but a well Versed, superb Expression !!!
Tomorrow you may marry a working woman, but you should marry with these facts
as well........ ......... ......... ....
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human
as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
sister hasn't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that
gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements;
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who
love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family
name;
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep
oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment
and that kitchen;
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a
mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you
are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows
that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than
you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men
at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing
to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy,
unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because
you won't like it, even though you say otherwise;
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours,
are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows
in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most
importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
So Guys, don't forget to love and respect this woman who will be your partner
for life...
--
Regards & Thanks,
Dipti M
"I like to be against the odds. I'm not afraid to be lonely at the top.With
me, it's just the satisfaction of the game. Just performance. "
; -BARRY BONDS
--
Regards & Thanks,
Dipti M
Bangalore - .
"I like to be against the odds. I'm not afraid to be lonely at the top.With me,
it's just the satisfaction of the game. Just performance. "
-BARRY BONDS
Dunno who wrote it, but a well Versed, superb Expression !!!
Tomorrow you may marry a working woman, but you should marry with these
facts as well........ ......... ......... ....
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as
human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
sister hasn't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that
gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements;
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who
love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family
name;
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment
and that kitchen;
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe
more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a
mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you
are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and
knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns
faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men
at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is
willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational
jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise;
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like
yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows
in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most
importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
So Guys, don't forget to love and respect this woman who will be your partner
for life...
Umesh Sharma
Washington D.C.
1-202-215-4328 [Cell]
Ed.M. - International Education Policy
Harvard Graduate School of Education,
Harvard University,
Class of 2005
http://www.uknow.gse.harvard.edu/index.html (Edu info)
http://hbswk.hbs.edu/ (Management Info)
www.gse.harvard.edu/iep (where the above 2 are used )
http://jaipurschool.bihu.in/
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