g_b deleting history

2007-03-31 Thread abbey fifty
Thanks guys, for responding and advising me on the query. I specially thank Karwan Khursheed, Zaid and SSPunedost for their suggestions. I have already implemented them (except the browser one, for now ) Thanks a ton again! Abhay P.S. BTW, I have met SSPunedost perhaps 2 or 3 years ago - does he

g_b Erasing history of visited sites

2007-03-24 Thread abbey fifty
Hi Normally one can erase list of sites visited by hitting the tools, internet options, clear history OK,and apply buttons followed again by OK. Can the experts inform whether this really deletes all history or can some computer expert - for example a guy visiting to repair the PC or laptop - get

g_b Dr.Rani Bang workshop on youth and sexuality

2006-12-15 Thread abbey fifty
Hi Just learnt that Doordarshan will show a 10 min clip of the workshop not on Sunday 17, but next Sunday 24th same time, ie 11 AM in its programme Antarang BTW, Cooper, this workshop WAS FOR GENERAL PUBLIC AND NOT JUST THOSE AFFECTED. And she regularly conducts such workshops. After the

g_b Dr.Rani Bang workshop on TV

2006-12-12 Thread abbey fifty
Hi I forgot to add in yesterday's posting that Doordarshan covered part of this workshop on sexuality and interviewed Dr.Rani Bang and some of the organisers and participants. They have said it will go on air on Sahyadri Channel on Sunday 17th Dec at 11 AM in a programme called Antarang - it will

Re: g_b falling in love with bisexual

2006-04-03 Thread abbey fifty
Hi One can very well understand your dilemma. 1.First, it is as ethical or unethical for a bi to have more than one partner of any sex, as it is for any straight human. If one is already having sexual gratification from one partner, then to have another is, according to current social norms and

Re: g_b being a bisexual is like a coragious soldier who keeps giving fight on both the fronts at a time

2006-03-28 Thread abbey fifty
Hello Mr.Kanoji and others After reading moderators views, I am steadily forming the opinion that perhaps some persons who are nearly 100% gay are too rigid in not allowing the possibility of others being attracted to both sexes. It is well established (as I have read expert opinion on this list

Re: g_b Re: In reiteration of Aditya's Gist of the long brawl on married gits

2006-03-22 Thread abbey fifty
I am 100% with you. Please refer to my post about marraige - a liberal view and you will find the thinking is very similar. I wonder how only one person reacted to that provocative post of mine, and that too he was agreeing with me! A Karna Mehta [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: just a

Re: g_b Let the whole world say that gay can not have sex with females

2006-03-18 Thread abbey fifty
Hi Thanks, coolclump and others who have empathised with married gays. Obviously, getting married is not an easy decision; I for one feel if you can help it ( that depends on parental/societal pressure and ones ability to withstand this pressure ) then gays should not marry only for parents sake

g_b Marraige and morality - a liberal view

2006-03-18 Thread abbey fifty
I will be grateful to the moderator for allowing this without cuts! It is for those who agonise over the ethical dimension of marriage, promiscuity and dishonesty. I submit my views as under: 1.Should persons marry opposite sex knowing they are attracted physically to same sex? Ideally, no. Those

Re: g_b Let the whole world say that gay can not have sex with females

2006-03-08 Thread abbey fifty
. But I would rather live with this than a wife with whom I need to develop intimacy and Achieving sex with one women against my instincts. abbey fifty [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Guys, I'd like to make two points: 1. I share Sumeet Mehra's experiences and having done the deed, ( marrying )the best

Re: g_b Let the whole world say that gay can not have sex with females

2006-03-06 Thread abbey fifty
Guys, I'd like to make two points: 1. I share Sumeet Mehra's experiences and having done the deed, ( marrying )the best option is to try hard to adjust. And the best policy is NOT to try getting hard - just befriend your wife, get intimate in all other ways, and then very slowly, get physical as

Re: g_b Re: Bollywood and Gay Cinema

2006-03-01 Thread abbey fifty
For the first time, I agree that Vikram has been less than sober in his assessment of Sameer's mail. Vikram is usually extemely sober and reasoned and I was trying to get myself to agree to him but found it difficult. Abhay --- Salil [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Dear Vikram, While I appreciate the

Re: g_b Re: Lucknow - update and suggestions (2)

2006-01-15 Thread abbey fifty
actually do have a support structure and yet get married and cheat on their wives. Aditya On 14/01/06, abbey fifty [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hello Parth I am purposefully repyling to you in a way that the reply is public so that others in my situation may benefit. You say your profession

Re: g_b Re: Lucknow - update and suggestions (2)

2006-01-13 Thread abbey fifty
Hello Parth I am purposefully repyling to you in a way that the reply is public so that others in my situation may benefit. You say your profession is of a psychiatrist. Hence this message. In our times ( I am 45 plus ) there was no support group - anyway I am not in Mumbai - and being gay was

Re: g_b something to wear

2005-12-20 Thread abbey fifty
Please think of something that is sober, normal wear yet distinctive and only which g members will notice or care about. For this reason pink T shirts, low cut jeans, studs in ear are out. Something like an elegant pen in the pocket with a special emblem a wrist band? Abbey --- Manoj [EMAIL

Re: g_b Happy Birthday Hema Malini

2005-10-18 Thread abbey fifty
Thanks, naughty confessions for the pics of Hema. Indeed, even as I adored boys from my childhood, Hema was my only female idol. I had pics of her plastered across my hostel room! She remains an idol till this day because of her beauty, dignity, poise, independant thinking and courage. Abhay

Re: Re: g_b Marathi Movies - A Treat in itselves.......... Read add your views.

2005-06-11 Thread abbey fifty
Hi Marathi movie fans One of the first films of Sumitra and Sunil Sukhtankar was on AIDS - titled Jindagi Jindagi. This movie had two gay characters as central to the movie. But the movie dealt with AIDS and how these two gays cope with it but not on the gay theme as such. But I must say that

Re: [gay_bombay] start accepting the agony, depression (of married gays)and dont preach..

2004-09-22 Thread abbey fifty
I am in complete agreement with Aaakash. The only counterpoint would be 1) you say you are in married hell - then how is it quiet? 2) Why not be bold and face friends society etc? The answer is , 1) Ultimately its individual judgement - whether to go through married 'hell' or individual

Re: [gay_bombay] Married Gays- Clarification

2004-09-14 Thread abbey fifty
HI Finally, I am finding atleast a few persons taking the side of married but gay men. From my observance of various mails, TV interviews and articles, I know that HST is very clear that there are shades and shades of gay men. Infact they (HST) are insistent (and righly so ) that all shades must

[gay_bombay] Dear Mr.Dasgupta

2004-08-24 Thread abbey fifty
Mr.Dasgupta's article is balanced, reasoned and very well written. There is little to disagree in the contents of what he has written, except that as a layman I am unaware of the 'connections' of gay activists with media, aid agencies etc. But I want him to know why such outbursts (from gay