Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-25 Thread graywolf
And that caterer is one of your best sources of new clients, make damn sure she likes you. William Robb wrote: If you are planning on taking up weddings as a money earner, remember that you are working for the bride and groom, but you are working with the caterer and the minister. If you

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-25 Thread Cotty
On 25/1/07, graywolf, discombobulated, unleashed: That puts it in a nutshell! Thanks Tom. Coming from you that's a welcome compliment. -- Cheers, Cotty ___/\__ || (O) | People, Places, Pastiche ||=|http://www.cottysnaps.com _ -- PDML

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-25 Thread mike wilson
From: P. J. Alling [EMAIL PROTECTED] Date: 2007/01/25 Thu AM 12:45:06 GMT To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. Public schools? William Robb wrote: - Original Message - From: Cotty Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. I'd

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-25 Thread P. J. Alling
a wedding. Public schools? William Robb wrote: - Original Message - From: Cotty Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. I'd choose the bottom. What is it about Brits and bottoms? Cotty went to school in America. That explains _everything_

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-25 Thread graywolf
Damn, now my hat is too tight. I think I shall mention why I (and and I imagine some of the others) do not like doing weddings. I do not deal well with innuendos, slurs, insults, being yelled at, crying brides, angry mothers, nasty relatives, and the feeling that a riot is just about to erupt.

Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread J and K Messervy
I have been asked whether I'd be interested in photographing the wedding of the brother of an acquaintance. Now, I'm a very keen amateur and have been really into photography for about 15 months. I'm really thrilled to have been asked (the request was based on my work in my online gallery),

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Cotty
On 24/1/07, J and K Messervy, discombobulated, unleashed: I have been asked whether I'd be interested in photographing the wedding of the brother of an acquaintance. Oh crikey. Can --- worms !! Make sure you have good insurance. If it all goes wrong, blood will be spilt. Seriously - if

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread David Savage
If they're spending bottom dollar realise that your not a pro wedding photographer I'd suggest going for it. It may lead to a part time job that would help pay for itself, or cure you of wedding photography for life :-) I was asked by the secretary at work to photograph her wedding. She wasn't

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Colin J
James Messervy wrote: I have been asked whether I'd be interested in photographing the wedding of the brother of an acquaintance. You must be very flattered. However, consider why you have been approached. The usual reason is that professional wedding photographers appear to be expensive,

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread William Robb
- Original Message - From: J and K Messervy Subject: Asked to do a wedding. I have been asked whether I'd be interested in photographing the wedding of the brother of an acquaintance. Any and all tips, tricks and advice would be greatly appreciated! From an email I sent

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Cotty
On 24/1/07, William Robb, discombobulated, unleashed: Wedding photography is as stressful as you care to make it. I tend to make it pretty stressful myself. Some things I discovered that helped alleviate this: They have a pretty even chance of being divorced within a few years, so the

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread cbwaters
saying you shouldn't take the job. But if you do, tread lightly, you're on thin ice. Cory - Original Message - From: J and K Messervy [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 4:20 AM Subject: Asked to do a wedding. I have been asked

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Amita Guha
Along the lines of what Colin said, have you ever shot a wedding you were attending, just for fun? My husband and I do that - we bring full kits with flashes, diffusers, etc. We stay out of the way of the pros, and in return the pros are usually pretty nice to us. It is a great way to practice. We

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread J. C. O'Connell
going to be some pressure in those type situations/jobs. jco -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of J and K Messervy Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 4:20 AM To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List Subject: Asked to do a wedding. I have been asked whether

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Godfrey DiGiorgi
On Jan 24, 2007, at 1:20 AM, J and K Messervy wrote: ... Any and all tips, tricks and advice would be greatly appreciated! Once upon a time in my ill-spent youth, I had an arrangement with a local wedding photographer to do BW candids at weddings where he did all the formally posed shots. My

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread J. C. O'Connell
-Discuss Mail List' Subject: RE: Asked to do a wedding. By all means read a good book on the subject. I bought Pro Techniques of Wedding Photography on HP books ISBN 0-89586-632-3 about 10 years ago and found it enormously helpful for a whole bunch of things. I dont think you will learn as much

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Mark Roberts
William Robb wrote: Wedding photography is as stressful as you care to make it. and... You may as well charge like a Rolls Royce, the pictures won't be around long enough to prove they are a Chevette. and... Remember what the truly important pictures are, and get them. and... Hedge your bets

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Jack Davis
:-)) J --- William Robb [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: - Original Message - From: J and K Messervy Subject: Asked to do a wedding. I have been asked whether I'd be interested in photographing the wedding of the brother of an acquaintance. Any and all tips, tricks and advice

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Bob W
] On Behalf Of J and K Messervy Sent: 24 January 2007 09:20 To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List Subject: Asked to do a wedding. I have been asked whether I'd be interested in photographing the wedding of the brother of an acquaintance. [...] I know there are people with pro experience on here, so

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread John Francis
choose the plague pit every time. -- Bob -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of J and K Messervy Sent: 24 January 2007 09:20 To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List Subject: Asked to do a wedding. I have been asked whether I'd

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Feroze
. -- Bob -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of J and K Messervy Sent: 24 January 2007 09:20 To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List Subject: Asked to do a wedding. I have been asked whether I'd be interested in photographing the wedding

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Markus Maurer
- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Amita Guha Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 4:46 PM To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. Along the lines of what Colin said, have you ever shot a wedding you were attending, just for fun? My husband and I do

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Markus Maurer
-Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of J. C. O'Connell Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 4:53 PM To: 'Pentax-Discuss Mail List' Subject: RE: Asked to do a wedding. By all means read a good book on the subject. I bought Pro Techniques of Wedding Photography

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread J. C. O'Connell
-Discuss Mail List Subject: RE: Asked to do a wedding. I said No when asked lately for the first time because of a recommendation of a client to photograph a wedding for good money because I feared the risk. But, with 2 (well known digital) Pentax bodies with external flash instead of my film

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Bruce Dayton
I suppose I better chime in here, since I actively do weddings. First thing you need to determine is if they are really looking for a cheap pro or just someone to take some nice shots for them. If it is the latter, then their expectations should be low and you would probably be safe to move

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Digital Image Studio
On 25/01/07, Bob W [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: If somebody offered me the choice between photographing another wedding, and rolling around naked in an open plague pit whilst licking a leprous dog's bottom, I would choose the plague pit every time. I'm with you there, rolling about, don't

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Cotty
On 24/1/07, Bob W, discombobulated, unleashed: If somebody offered me the choice between photographing another wedding, and rolling around naked in an open plague pit whilst licking a leprous dog's bottom, I would choose the plague pit every time. I'd choose the bottom. -- Cheers, Cotty

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Markus Maurer
and a 50/90/135mm for party events. greetings Markus -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of J. C. O'Connell Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 10:40 PM To: 'Pentax-Discuss Mail List' Subject: RE: Asked to do a wedding. dont forget, your memory card(s

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Tom C
I didn't realize so many people here were preachers. Tom C. From: Bruce Dayton [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. Date: Wed, 24 Jan 2007 14:32:10 -0800 I suppose I better chime

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Christian
Cotty wrote: I'd choose the bottom. Somehow this does not surprise me. -- Christian http://photography.skofteland.net -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Cotty
On 24/1/07, Markus Maurer, discombobulated, unleashed: How about PJ's, do they engage assistants? Certainly not paid. PJs are a lonely breed. I have, however, seen some toting the odd acolyte, so it certainly is possible to find a guru. The trouble is, those that you need to follow don't want a

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Cotty
On 24/1/07, Christian, discombobulated, unleashed: Cotty wrote: I'd choose the bottom. Somehow this does not surprise me. I meant if it was down to either a wedding or a bottom -- Cheers, Cotty ___/\__ || (O) | People, Places, Pastiche ||=|

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Markus Maurer
What exactly are you trying to say here Tom? Markus -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Tom C Sent: Thursday, January 25, 2007 12:01 AM To: pdml@pdml.net Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. I didn't realize so many people here were preachers

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Cotty
On 24/1/07, Cotty, discombobulated, unleashed: Better to read about their experiences in books. The best PJs are basically 'people-people' - they are better with human interaction than they are technically with a camera. Oh yeah, determination that would make me and you ashamed. Just re-reading

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Paul Stenquist
The naked part doesn't bother me. But the plague pit and the leprous dog's bottom are a bit of a turnoff. But then, when I think back to that wedding I shot last month... Paul On Jan 24, 2007, at 5:56 PM, Digital Image Studio wrote: On 25/01/07, Bob W [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: If somebody

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Markus Maurer
-Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Cotty Sent: Thursday, January 25, 2007 12:06 AM To: pentax list Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. On 24/1/07, Markus Maurer, discombobulated, unleashed: How about PJ's, do they engage assistants? Certainly not paid

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread William Robb
- Original Message - From: Cotty Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. I'd choose the bottom. What is it about Brits and bottoms? William Robb -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread William Robb
- Original Message - From: Cotty Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. Better to read about their experiences in books. The best PJs are basically 'people-people' - they are better with human interaction than they are technically with a camera. This is much the same for the wedding

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread P. J. Alling
I was going to make this exact comment, but then figured someone else had already. I wasn't disappointed. Christian wrote: Cotty wrote: I'd choose the bottom. Somehow this does not surprise me. -- -- The more I know of men, the more I like my dog.

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread P. J. Alling
Public schools? William Robb wrote: - Original Message - From: Cotty Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. I'd choose the bottom. What is it about Brits and bottoms? William Robb -- -- The more I know of men, the more I like my dog

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Markus Maurer
Well explained, thanks. greetings Markus -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of William Robb Sent: Thursday, January 25, 2007 1:07 AM To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. - Original Message - From: Cotty

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Godfrey DiGiorgi
On Jan 24, 2007, at 3:25 PM, William Robb wrote: I'd choose the bottom. What is it about Brits and bottoms? I could answer but I suspect it would be TMI. G -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread J. C. O'Connell
Brits dont have bottoms, they have bums. jco -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Godfrey DiGiorgi Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 8:02 PM To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. On Jan 24, 2007, at 3:25 PM

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread Stan Halpin
Like Amita and others, I have shot around the edges of weddings (informal shots to supplement the pro's product) but haven't taken the full load. I've had good feedback on what I've done (but what can you expect? They got more than their money's worth from me! And besides, I had the advantage

RE: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread J. C. O'Connell
. jco -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Stan Halpin Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2007 10:43 PM To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List Subject: Re: Asked to do a wedding. Like Amita and others, I have shot around the edges of weddings (informal shots

Re: Asked to do a wedding.

2007-01-24 Thread graywolf
That puts it in a nutshell! Cotty wrote: On 24/1/07, Markus Maurer, discombobulated, unleashed: How about PJ's, do they engage assistants? Certainly not paid. PJs are a lonely breed. I have, however, seen some toting the odd acolyte, so it certainly is possible to find a guru. The