I apologize for this being a late submission on this topic, but I was out
of town all weekend.
I would like to offer a few responses to some of the many points that have
been raised in this thread -- hopefully without being redundant.
1. Finding the right term. I used harassment. Marty writes
Well, Alan is asserting that Most Jewish parents experience
attempts to convert their children as assaults on their families that
are completely beyond the pale of acceptable conduct -- which is to say
that expression of certain viewpoints, aimed at getting certain entirely
lawful results,