Re: [Tango-L] Social-ethical behaviors and protocols

2010-08-31 Thread Niki Papapetrou
On Mon, Aug 16, 2010 at 6:07 PM, Roger Patrick rougerpatr...@gmail.comwrote: Hi, If someone acts inappropriately on or off the dance-floor according to the opinion of a dancer, she/he has reason to choose not to dance with the person anymore. No-one claims everyone should have a

[Tango-L] Social-ethical behavior and protocol

2010-08-31 Thread Sergio Vandekier
Nick says: Women will put up with a fair bit in order to get a dance, whether that be arrogance or mediocrity or sleaze.. Milonga codes were developed over the years for a reason. Codes are not old fashioned capricious inventions; they all exist for an important reason. When you ignore them

Re: [Tango-L] Social-ethical behavior and protocol

2010-08-31 Thread Vince Bagusauskas
Sergio said, Milonga codes were developed over the years for a reason. Codes are not old fashioned capricious inventions; they all exist for an important reason. When you ignore them you are losing 90% of what Argentine Tango is about. I have it on good authority from someone who has returned

[Tango-L] socail ethical behavior

2010-08-31 Thread Nussbaum, Martin
Ah Niki, come to nyc, where the gender imbalance is in your favor! Entonces, most leaders here are very aggressive in trying to get tandas. Not only will they use verbal invites, but some, pretending to be gallant but really coming off as boorish, will even interrupt your conversations,

[Tango-L] so called ethical behavior

2010-08-31 Thread Charles Roques
Ah Niki, come to nyc, where the gender imbalance is in your favor! Entonces, most leaders here are very aggressive in trying to get tandas. Not only will they use verbal invites, but some, pretending to be gallant but really coming off as boorish, will even interrupt your conversations, extending

[Tango-L] social ethical behavior

2010-08-31 Thread macfroggy
Vince, this is so inaccurate! If the porteno is under 30, he probably goes to practicas where anything goes. As a dancer who has lived and taught tango with my milonguero parter in BsAs for many years, let me assure you that the codigos are still respected and observed in all of the

[Tango-L] World Champions

2010-08-31 Thread Jack Dylan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBItUyr_eBsfeature=player_embedded#! Are these the new World Champions? Jack ___ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l

Re: [Tango-L] social ethical behavior

2010-08-31 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
You may think of this what you wish, but here's an excerpt of my experience from a recent visit to Bs As dancing at a traditional afternoon milonga (3-10pm). My partner and I always set together and mostly danced with each other. On three occasions (out of four visits to that milonga), men

Re: [Tango-L] World Champions

2010-08-31 Thread macfroggy
Yes they are, in Tango Salon. Cherie http://tangocherie.blogspot.com -Original Message- From: Jack Dylan jackdylan...@yahoo.com To: Tango-L@mit.edu Sent: Tue, Aug 31, 2010 2:54 pm Subject: [Tango-L] World Champions

[Tango-L] Fwd: social ethical behavior

2010-08-31 Thread macfroggy
This type of behavior can happen with foreign people, but never with a PorteƱo couple. -Original Message- From: Dubravko Kakarigi dubravko_2...@yahoo.com To: tango-l@MIT.EDU Sent: Tue, Aug 31, 2010 3:10 pm Subject: Re: [Tango-L] social ethical behavior You may

Re: [Tango-L] social ethical behavior

2010-08-31 Thread Gordon Erlebacher
I have been to El Arranque a few times, which is a family Milonga. Friends sit together at tables, whether of same gender or not (at least they did at my table, which included my teacher, portena for all her life), and we invited people from our table directly and people sitting elsewhere with

Re: [Tango-L] social ethical behavior

2010-08-31 Thread Michael
Martin: The reason cabeceo doesn't work well in New York (and other places) is milongas are close to pitch black and women aren't trained to use cabeceo. Even if cabeceo isn't used, it would still be wonderful for the milonga to be illuminated so you could see who is there! Somebody commented

Re: [Tango-L] Social-ethical behaviour and protocol

2010-08-31 Thread Vince Bagusauskas
Hi Cherie, I am reporting what a tourist has observed. I warned a friend before she went to BsAs that the codigos are to be expected and to work with them. After going out to many places, including the famous and traditional milongas, her overall impression was that they approached her like

[Tango-L] Social-ethical behavior and protocols

2010-08-31 Thread Ruben Malan
Tango-L/[Tango-L] Social-ethical behavior and protocols Bad behavior and misconduct at milongas. Judging from the responses on the Tango-L it is not exclusive to us but I can't really speak for other nationalities. This free interpretation and disregard for the codigos of tango is just

[Tango-L] 8-31-10 Social-ethical behaviour and protocol

2010-08-31 Thread Patricia Katz
I returned last week from B.A. Among some milongas I attended such as Gricel, Canning, El Beso, Nino Bien, Cachirulo (Sat. night), Maipu 444 (Sun. night) Confeteria Ideal etc., I noticed that the cabaceo was used about 95% of the time. Some places were very bright, others dimly lit. The cabaceo

[Tango-L] Socio-ethical behavior and protocol - Summary

2010-08-31 Thread Sergio Vandekier
1- Cabeceo and other milonga codes are alive and are in use at most milongas in Buenos Aires. They are not always used at Practicas or in certain specific milongas. 2- The custom of asking permission to a male companion of a lady to request a dance from her is always used. 3- Some men may