Re: [Tango-L] Cabaceo SAYING NO

2010-10-19 Thread Trini y Sean (PATangoS)
Sean here. I should know better, but here are a few of my thoughts on the subject. --- Patricia Katz wrote: I see many leaders with very good potential stay at a level that is below their ability; these leaders don't take workshops or privates when very good teachers are in town. It seems most

Re: [Tango-L] Cabaceo SAYING NO

2010-10-19 Thread Balazs Gyenis
As for this whole card/cabaceo issue, I wonder if it is all over a single girl who can't say no? Gosh, how naive I was to think we managed to close this part of the discussion. No, if you want to point fingers, point towards me. I can't count the times I've heard followers complaining about

Re: [Tango-L] Cabeceo

2010-10-19 Thread Tom Stermitz
On Oct 19, 2010, at 2:59 AM, Vince Bagusauskas wrote: On the matter of cabeceo in general, I doubt it would work at many milongas in Australia, because either for seating arrangement or because of the very turned down light levels. And oh some women who take their glasses off for

Re: [Tango-L] Cabeceo

2010-10-19 Thread Vince Bagušauskas
Tom Stermitz said: Why are the lights turned down low? Notions of romantic lighting? In some places the lights could be so low that the candles on the tables are (almost) brighter. How can you see the dances? You need to have one of these: http://tinyurl.com/2f3e7lr How do

Re: [Tango-L] Cabeceo

2010-10-19 Thread edgecomb...@optusnet.com.au
How do you get the waiter's attention at a nice restaurant? Do you physically go into the kitchen to retrieve him. Many/most waiters seem to be oblivious even to someone standing on the table waving both arms in the air. And Yes, I have resorted to a trip to the kitchen - which stirs

Re: [Tango-L] Cabaceo SAYING NO

2010-10-19 Thread Jack Dylan
- Original Message From: Trini y Sean (PATangoS) patan...@yahoo.com From Sean.   These women need a serious reality check about their own abilities. Agree. Many beginner ladies can get dances with good leaders and they soon have an inflated sense of their own ability. Thereafter,