Re: [Tango-L] Men's strategies

2011-06-18 Thread NANCY
As it happens, it is only milongueros who have arranged for the next tanda with me while dancing with another.  They do it by raising their eyebrows or winking or moving their index finger in a next one gesture as they pass by my table. and They certainly do not stop at the table and

[Tango-L] Digital language

2011-06-18 Thread Sergio Vandekier
Digital sign language in Argentina is different from that in the USA. The index finger shown alone (with the other fingers flexed in the hand, the dorsum towards the addressee the palm side towards the addresser and with an upward motion, means the same as showing the middle finger in the

Re: [Tango-L] Men's strategies

2011-06-18 Thread Andrew RYSER SZYMAÑSKI
--- On Fri, 17/6/11, hbboog...@aol.com hbboog...@aol.com wrote: ...when a man dances he must 'PUT ALL THE MEAT ON THE FIRE this means he must give all of his attention to the music and the woman he has in his arms at the moment. Any man, no matter what his name is disrespecting the woman

Re: [Tango-L] Men's strategies (3)

2011-06-18 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Very nice write-up Steve. And, just in case anyone is questioning Steve's ability to remember all those details, I was sitting with him once or twice at a milonga - he was taking copious notes after every tanda and still managed to get the dances. Way to go Steve!  

Re: [Tango-L] Men's strategies

2011-06-18 Thread Gordon Erlebacher
There are no rules that hold for everybody all the time. So if you are any good you will be in the outer lane, close to the tables Tete was obviously good, and could dance with whomever he wished. Nonetheless, he often chose to dance in the middle and not on the outer lane because of his

Re: [Tango-L] Men's strategies

2011-06-18 Thread sherpal1
Andrew, I am not sure the woman initiates the process...what really happens is that an old friend or desirous partner sees her on the floor or at a table, he nods, she nods and then he invites her to the dance after he finished the one he is currently dancing. Women who initiate are very

[Tango-L] Men's strategies

2011-06-18 Thread sherpal1
Gordon, you are correct, but also you will see some of the worst dancers in the middle too.beware..sherrie -Original Message- From: Gordon Erlebacher gerlebac...@fsu.edu To: tango-l@mit.edu Sent: Sat, Jun 18, 2011 1:06 pm Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Men's strategies There are no rules

[Tango-L] Men's strategies (3)

2011-06-18 Thread sherpal1
Steve. it is so incredible how you guys give all this outpouring of support and appreciation for what other men tell you, but pretty much attack, deny and ignore what women tell you. It seems to me that Nancy and I (although I do not know her) are pretty experienced in the realm of dancing in

Re: [Tango-L] Men's strategies (3)

2011-06-18 Thread Trini y Sean (PATangoS)
Hi Sherrie, I don't think it was Steve that was contradicting you.  I believe he only shared his personal experiences.  I am also surprised that yours and Nancy's experiences are being pooh-poohed, as if with the hundreds of male dancers in BsAs have only one way of asking a woman to dance and

Re: [Tango-L] Men's strategies (3)

2011-06-18 Thread sherpal1
Trini, absolutly, Steve was not a contradiction but a wonderful exposition of his experiences, which to me, are quite valid...the problem is the lack of affirmation of other non-argentine tangueros towards us, non argentine tangueras, who have similarly valuable and valid experiences. My

[Tango-L] Digital language

2011-06-18 Thread sherpal1
thanks Sergiofor the support and info, sherrie -Original Message- From: Sergio Vandekier sergiovandekier...@hotmail.com To: Tango-L List Sent: Sat, Jun 18, 2011 12:24 pm Subject: [Tango-L] Digital language Digital sign language in Argentina is different from that in the USA. The