Re: [Tango-L] Male / Female - defining the roles

2010-10-29 Thread Mario
I would like to post a few videos that 'get me'. This first one exemplifies the perfect dance for me. The man is intensely focused on the music and guiding the dance. The woman is divine and utterly beyond description for me in fulfilling her part of the divine dance. The only

Re: [Tango-L] Male / Female defining the roles

2010-10-23 Thread Trini y Sean (PATangoS)
Well, Mario, that's certainly a perspective we haven't covered in depth on this list, have we? I actually agree with you, with the exception of what happens between really good friends. Most men I know would prefer to ask, in part, I'm sure, because women are usually terrible at accepting

Re: [Tango-L] Male / Female defining the roles

2010-10-22 Thread Mario
OK...sure, if you know someone and you think that the music is copasetic (sp?) and you want to dance..sure between friends ...ask him but I'm just putting out a philosophy of why not to... to let the guy feel it first and then ask you...and why this has more of a chance of providing a