[Tango-L] Invitation to connect on LinkedIn

2012-01-03 Thread Susan Lawrence via LinkedIn
LinkedIn Susan Lawrence requested to add you as a connection on LinkedIn: -- Van, I'd like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn. - Susan Accept invitation from Susan Lawrence

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation to connect on LinkedIn

2012-01-03 Thread Alexis Cousein
On 03/01/2012 23:42, Susan Lawrence via LinkedIn wrote: LinkedIn Susan Lawrence requested to add you as a connection on LinkedIn: All of us? My, my, that's going to be quite a network... ___ Tango-L mailing list

[Tango-L] Invitation to connect on LinkedIn

2011-07-26 Thread Lydia Henson via LinkedIn
LinkedIn Lydia Henson requested to add you as a connection on LinkedIn: -- Van, I'd like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn. - Lydia Accept invitation from Lydia Henson

[Tango-L] Invitation to connect on LinkedIn

2011-07-26 Thread Lydia Henson via LinkedIn
LinkedIn Lydia Henson requested to add you as a connection on LinkedIn: -- Van, I'd like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn. - Lydia Accept invitation from Lydia Henson

Re: [Tango-L] invitation to dance

2011-02-02 Thread Alexis Cousein
On 02/02/2011 05:04, sherp...@aol.com wrote: i notice over and over again, that this list is mainly made of up men who communicate only with one another...when a woman responds, she is cut off or ignored... I read you post to the end, just to be sure you don't accuse me of cutting you off, but

Re: [Tango-L] invitation to dance

2011-02-02 Thread barbara
Gee I thought it was only me! On 01/02/2011 10:04 p.m., sherp...@aol.com wrote: i notice over and over again, that this list is mainly made of up men who communicate only with one another...when a woman responds, she is cut off or ignored...if this is how you dialogue, it must be an indicator

[Tango-L] invitation to dance

2011-02-02 Thread Patricia Katz
Well said! Always the Same, same, same. Patricia http://www.torontoargentinetango.blogspot.com -Original Message- From: tango-l-boun...@mit.edu [mailto:tango-l-boun...@mit.edu] On Behalf Of barbara Sent: Wednesday, February 02, 2011 1:19 PM To: tango-l@mit.edu Subject: Re: [Tango-L

Re: [Tango-L] invitation to dance

2011-02-02 Thread Huck Kennedy
On Wed, Feb 2, 2011 at 11:19 AM, barbara barb...@tangobar-productions.com wrote: On 01/02/2011 10:04 p.m., sherp...@aol.com wrote: i notice over and over again, that this list is mainly made of up men who communicate only with one another...when a woman responds, she is cut off or ignored...

[Tango-L] invitation to dance

2011-02-02 Thread sherpal1
thank you mr. huck for continuing to ignore me...why is a simple statement of my feelings about men ignoring women's tango advice so over the top...it further illuminates the inabilties of some male posters to take women's answers, suggestions and comments about tango and the list seriously.

Re: [Tango-L] invitation to dance

2011-02-02 Thread Alexis Cousein
On 02/02/2011 20:13, sherp...@aol.com wrote: thank you mr. huck for continuing to ignore me...why is a simple statement of my feelings about men ignoring women's tango advice so over the top... Because it lumps al men together and is overgeneralising, as I also said. it further illuminates

[Tango-L] invitation

2011-02-02 Thread sherpal1
i am a teacher of tangoi teach men to lead , i do not teach on the dance floor I charge for lessons...I have danced and studied tango since 1998 and I know what is necessary for a woman to follow from a man who is trying to lead. the assumptions that have been made about me, my

Re: [Tango-L] invitation

2011-02-02 Thread Trini y Sean (PATangoS)
--- On Wed, 2/2/11, sherp...@aol.com sherp...@aol.com wrote: what i said initially ,which was never met with a rejoinder(an answer to a reply) was this:  the man creates a space that invites the woman to move into, not pushing or shoving, but inviting  as gavito said, the lead moves the woman

[Tango-L] invitation to dance

2011-02-01 Thread sherpal1
i notice over and over again, that this list is mainly made of up men who communicate only with one another...when a woman responds, she is cut off or ignored...if this is how you dialogue, it must be an indicator of how you dance( with all the hand wringing and complaining) totally

Re: [Tango-L] invitation to dance

2011-02-01 Thread Vince Bagusauskas
when a woman responds, she is cut off or ignored...if this is how you dialogue, it must be an indicator of how you dance( with all the hand wringing and complaining) totally self-focused men, ignoring the woman's point of view A little slack directed our way is necessary. I do think

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation refusal

2009-06-10 Thread Meister Richard K�hnlein (Der schnelle Shop)
I am living in the 21th century! - Original Message - From: Melina Sedo Detlef Engel ta...@tangodesalon.de To: TANGO-L digest system automatic Tango-L@mit.edu Sent: Sunday, June 07, 2009 7:40 PM Subject: [Tango-L] Invitation refusal Hey! We're living in the 20th century

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation refusal

2009-06-10 Thread Peter Turowski
I am living in the 21th century! Hey! We're living in the 20th century. betwixt and between... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1KEFgD6Dtg Refused Peter -- Peter Turowski tangope...@gmx.de www.tangopeter.de ___ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation refusal

2009-06-10 Thread Kathryn Johns
@mit.edu Sent: Sunday, June 07, 2009 7:40 PM Subject: [Tango-L] Invitation refusal Hey! We're living in the 20th century. ___ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation and refusal

2009-06-10 Thread Gary
John said: It's not a question of blacklisting, but of taking no for an answer. If a woman didn't want to dance with me 10 minutes ago, or last week, or in November 1962, I assume she doesn't want to dance with me now. I suppose I have less absolute settings. There are some women where

[Tango-L] Invitation and Refusal

2009-06-09 Thread Mario
In a setting where men are allowed to invite directly, why should women be not? Hey! We're living in the 20th century. Why should women not be allowed to invite a man, rather than sit around all night, because they're not noticed or unknown or because nobody knows how to use the Cabeceo in

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation refusal and dancing to anything.

2009-06-09 Thread Jack Dylan
From: roger ro...@websa.com.au Some people will dance to every tanda., indiscriminately. Perhaps they just love to dance and/or enjoy a wider taste in tango music than you do. Jack ___ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation refusal and dancing to anything.

2009-06-09 Thread C21DARI
In a message dated 6/9/2009 9:12:53 AM Eastern Daylight Time, ro...@websa.com.au writes: Has anyone else noticed that some people seem to dance to everything In reference to that sentence on your post, I have seen dancers dancing even to the National Anthon music (very common

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation and Refusal

2009-06-09 Thread Jack Dylan
From: Mario sopel...@yahoo.com   In other words..please, have patience and wait, ladies. Just one or two questions, Mario. Firstly, has any woman at a milonga, ever asked you to dance? If yes, how did you reply? Jack ___ Tango-L

[Tango-L] Invitation refusal

2009-06-07 Thread Melina Sedo Detlef Engel
Hi all. Dan asked: In the end, and dare I raise the question, Should a woman ever ask a man to dance at a milonga that is? If they're friends, dance partners etc. that's a different story. I don't think it generally fits in with the style, origins and etiquette of tango.