Re: [Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-11 Thread Tango For Her
I haven't had time to read through the posts. But, I have an interesting, probably, quite different, tid bit: I am 6 feet tall. Tall enough to comment. I have had a very bad left foot. So, I have learned to lead in rather different ways. Don't laugh! :o\ Here goes: I do this just once in

Re: [Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-11 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
- Original Message From: Carol Shepherd [EMAIL PROTECTED] ... It is very difficult for many women to dance comfortably while being held in the small of the back, particularly if the lead pulls his arm in towards himself. When dancing with any woman in chest-to-chest embrace, it is

Re: [Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-11 Thread jackie ling wong
i'm not laughing but i am totally smiling. this is why i love this dance. good for you for figuring out how to make it work with a bad foot. one of my favorite phases is it's all good. before anyone jumps on me, believe me, i am known for my focus on technique... but you have to also

Re: [Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-11 Thread Jay Rabe
One of the more important aspects IMO is that both the tall partner and the short partner must maintain the integrity of their posture by standing straight. That is, the taller avoids bending towards the shorter, whether with upper torso or even his head. The shorter likewise avoids bending

Re: [Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-11 Thread Crrtango
Even with all the suggestions on adjusting the body to adapt to smaller or taller people, sometimes the reality is that the difference is too great. I am 6 ft. tall and can dance with most followers, but there are some women who are too short to comfortably dance close embrace with. It has

[Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-10 Thread jackie ling wong
i have two very tall guys... like alex krebs... in my beginner close embrace class. i have tried everything and still they come very close to stepping on their partner's feet. i can dance with them because i really extend but others have problems. they are beginners so i understand the

[Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-10 Thread Alex
Tom Stermitz used me as an example in one of his classes. I'm 6'-4 tall with my high heels on. The follower was about 5'-0. Tom can explain the geometry better than I, but the distance from the floor to the point where were connect is the same for both of us. If you visualize our legs starting at

Re: [Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-10 Thread Michael
does anyone have any special advice that they find resonates with the giants? are there any differences?in emphasis? jackie wong ** Jackie: Since the man follows the woman, the size of the woman's step is to a large

Re: [Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-10 Thread Tom Stermitz
They (both leader and follower) have to rearrange their concept of leg length. Both leader and follower have the SAME leg length, if you measure length from the connection point, i.e. the tummy or solar plexus or wherever it is. In other words, the leg actually goes up into the tummy. It

Re: [Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-10 Thread Niki Papapetrou
I had a similar discussion with a (tall) friend with whom I used to dance quite regularly. I remember him saying that when he danced with followers much shorter than him, he made a conscious effort, not to adjust his own height, but to 'lead from the diaphragm' rather than from the chest. On Mar

Re: [Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-10 Thread jackie ling wong
thanks michael. i agree with everything but the small of the back statement. as mentioned before, when i reach back as a follower, i want to be able to extend my leg which, from what i understand from talking to movement specialists, starts below the ribcage. also, if the connection is