As to robots having male characteristics, I wouldn't worry. As soon as AI gets practical, there will be an explosion of fembots created for exactly the same reason that VCR and internet availability exploded on the scene. There will attempts to ban them in Iran but people will find clever ways to hide them as with their private satellite dishes. Births in the western world will plunge well below replacement levels. In another galaxy, aliens observing us will just shake their heads and sigh ( especially "Greys" who have no "junk")
As to good jobs remaining, the Technological Priesthood will never die. We alone know the rituals and magic spells (i.e. software) that make it all work. Few in the US seem to understand that Bernie Sanders is the most relevant Presidential candidate because jobs are going away en masse and he is brave enough to bring up Socialism. Tax cuts And other conservative ideas are nonsense since stimulus of the 1% will likely increase job losses, at this point in time.