sure, "Play some records, make some music, play that game on your phone that you downloaded and haven't tried yet...Heck, find something!"
Did that, and enjoyed https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rBIBy7ytyM. But doing all this by ourselves doesn't speak volumes on the forum as such, 😉. That's where communication starts. As I wrote just before. Starting with good intentions, with responsability, with a tiny bit of consciousness on what you write and what one will read. And correcting oneself if gaps or worse arise between members. I simply, but conscientiously wrote what I did, inviting whatever person of whatever gender or X person to stop aiming below someone else's belt - which is a prime sexist trade, to me, in whatever direction- and to stop such crap. That simple call for simple and correct interpersonal behaviour again was received in total misunderstanding. Not any haughty, unjust projection should have any place here. It's the essence of maintaining a forum in correct spirit. And if someone openly communicates a request to be unsubbed, his or her wish should be fulfilled, if the already guided link to do so autonomously should not work for itself. We're here for the music, mainly, not for projecting whatever that's unjust and incorrect, and leaving others trying to cope with the distortions coming with that. One may have a bad day, or two, but not work it our interpersonally here (or wherever). M. ________________________________ Van: Kevin Kennedy <the...@gmail.com> Verzonden: woensdag 1 juli 2020 1:05 Aan: list 313 <313@hyperreal.org> Onderwerp: Re: FW: What this list is and isn't about Joe: You're not helping. Not at all. Please keep your sideshow baiting antics elsewhere before this turns into a roast-of you. I will bring up the Detroit tradition of 'snapping' on you if necessary. You've hung out with some of the Detroit family...you CAN get roasted, salted and shook...then sold by the bag for peanuts. Denise: This may be fun to you to antagonize others today-but I'd absolutely love to see better from someone who is a respected academic. One of the many themes of Detroit Techno is escapism, maybe we should all consider escaping from arguing about politics and who said what and semantics. At the end, all our coffins will be the same size (or our urn a similar amount of ashes). Second, y'all mfers name-calling and picking fights aren't sh!t. Be an adult please...and miss me all the way with the 'well she started it' BS. Sometimes it's better to sit on your hands until they're numb than type out hot garbage that will be a permanent record. Play some records, make some music, play that game on your phone that you downloaded and haven't tried yet...Heck, find something! Because in my opinion, the above is extremely counterproductive. On Tue, Jun 30, 2020 at 6:50 PM Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com<mailto:madb...@hotmail.com>> wrote: oh boy/girl/X (and I write X as to write inclusively here - at no specific person in that sense, if present) Denise. Stop centering yourself endlessly. I conscientiously wrote whatever gender has whatever under the belt. You yourself ranted at whoever being shaped to small for you. Look what you wrote a few hours ago. Look what you write. I don't take that. Return to sender. M. ________________________________ Van: Denise Dalphond <denisedalph...@gmail.com<mailto:denisedalph...@gmail.com>> Verzonden: woensdag 1 juli 2020 0:45 Aan: Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com<mailto:madb...@hotmail.com>> CC: Daniel Bean <danbean....@gmail.com<mailto:danbean....@gmail.com>>; Joe Marougi <jmaro...@gmail.com<mailto:jmaro...@gmail.com>>; Rob Taylor <barringtonphelo...@gmail.com<mailto:barringtonphelo...@gmail.com>>; The Archiver <thearchi...@thearchiver.net<mailto:thearchi...@thearchiver.net>>; U&I Design <uandidesigndetr...@gmail.com<mailto:uandidesigndetr...@gmail.com>>; list 313 <313@hyperreal.org<mailto:313@hyperreal.org>> Onderwerp: Re: What this list is and isn't about Why is anyone on this list concerned with my genitals? I don’t understand. You’ll never get close to them. Maybe you wanna go talk to a therapist. When someone tells you they’re female and you still say he or X, it makes me think you’re stupid. Oftentimes, people that act homophobic and sexist, also act racist. On Tue, Jun 30, 2020 at 6:35 PM Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com<mailto:madb...@hotmail.com>> wrote: anything D-related (in broad sense) would be welcome for me, on this forum - Kent proposals did well for that? But why would anyone post snide comments, that freeze the atmosphere? Regardless of what he/she/X has under the belt, and the size of it. A forum requires some form of connection (which D techno/house music is in itself), but to me, it also requires some engagement in wanting to preserve at least some essential spirit of that connection. A web forum requires digital communication, which just requires at least a minimal bit of estimation of how one's communication will or could be read or understood - and bridging miscommunication gaps, if happening, is as essential. (ps, I don't think Joe compared BLM to KKK, he connected BHI to them, and this requires nuance too). € 0.02 Mario -- FBK Absoloop/Orange 82
