Thanks a lot all for your insights On 11/15/19, Kotian, H P <[email protected]> wrote: > Hi > I suppose, your thoughts were around people management taking into > consideration one's disability. > > I think you should express yourself if the occasion demands.One should of > course be mindful of the circumstance but subordinates to gossip and that to > go without any response It will only give wrong signals and provide extended > tolerance, > You should not allow that to happen. Otherwise you may have to pay dearly > for it. > > Harish > -----Original Message----- > From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf > Of Kanchan Pamnani > Sent: 15 November 2019 13:30 > To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning > the disabled.' > Subject: Re: [AI] Bargaining power being limited by disability > > It is an important factor in some cases and in some cases it is the most > important factor but in some cases it is a trivial factor and in some cases > it is irrelevant. > I have found that if I know technology well then sometimes factors become > irrelevant or trivial. > If I plan a little earlier I can mitigate some of the problems that > disability brings. > I am only human and sometimes I let go and leave it to others to do things > for me because it is easier but in the long run my conscience bites me. I > suppress the feeling and justify to myself that its best left to the > sighted. Then I pull myself together and try to learn how to do what I had > delegated. Sometimes I win and sometimes I give up. With age I guess I am > giving up more independence but I don’t like it and I have planned on > pulling myself together and making disability less important or trivial or > irrelevant as much as I can. > Kanchan > -----Original Message----- > From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf > Of bhawani shankar verma > Sent: 15 November 2019 13:08 > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning > the disabled. > Subject: Re: [AI] Bargaining power being limited by disability > > I agree and it is true that Disability is a supervening factor. > > -----Original Message----- > From: Asudani, Rajesh > Sent: Friday, November 15, 2019 11:28 AM > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning > the disabled. > Subject: Re: [AI] Bargaining power being limited by disability > > Disability is a supervening factor. > It affects not only bargaining power, but all facets of life. > > Let the deniers deny that endlessly to boast their self confidence. > > For Instance, my son is celebrating his eighth birthday today and I find > myself highly restricted to do anything significant for the occasion, while > my wife is busy arranging and planning without blaming me. > > > सादर / With thanks & Regards > राजेश आसुदानी Rajesh Asudani > सहायक महाप्रबन्धक AGM > बाजार आसूचना ईकाई MIU > भारतीय रिजर्व बैंक Reserve Bank of India नागपुर Nagpur > > 0712 2806846 > > President > VIBEWA > Co-Moderator > VIB-India > President > DARE-Disability Advocacy, Research and Education A-pilll = Action coupled > with Positivity, Interest, Love, Logic and laughter > > -----Original Message----- > From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf > Of turab chimthanawala > Sent: 14 November 2019 18:04 > To: accessindia > Subject: [AI] Bargaining power being limited by disability > > Hi all, > While I have come a long way in terms of acceptance and independenb > operation with disability, a couple of days back as I was upset with my > mother for calling out out my domestic help for a filthy kitchen (out of a > fear that she might not come to work the following day). I experienced a > curb on my bargaining power principally owing to disability. > I have experienced this feeling on several occasions in the past as well : > unable to confront Uber drivers for talking on the phone while driving, once > overpaying a Rickshaw as he dropped me despite my destination being > obstensibly out of his way, daily hesitating to check office clerks for > gosipping loudly near my seat and many more. > While the general answer to this, is greater confidence and independence, I > believe this too has its own limitations... > While Mumbai has been extremely kind and helpful enabling independent living > for over a year, there are occasions where I struggle to call out > mistreatment/ injustice fearing the repurcussions. > Eagerly await insights. > Best > Turab > > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.noclick_noclick_com/[email protected]/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > [email protected] > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.noclick_noclick_in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Disclaimer: > 1. 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