I deem there is a need to create awareness of social inclusion in relation, romance and love as well.

When we are making our efforts in overall social inclusion and mainstreaming in every aspaect of our life, why to leave the area of relation and romance then!

Smiles!

Thanks,

Amit Bhatt
----- Original Message ----- From: "Asudani, Rajesh" <[email protected]> To: "AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled." <[email protected]>
Sent: Friday, December 27, 2019 11:41 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Blindness and being friend-zoned by potential partners


I agree that blindness does limit one's chances of being thought of as potential partner. I did not have any love inclination from opposite side except one in nine years of my academically illustrious college life.

If you compare figures with my sighted counterparts, I would perhaps be the last.

This is so, me thinks, because any disability, and more so the blindness, makes a person static, and takes away dynamism. By dynamism, I mean the ability to sense in real time ever changing surroundings and react to them.


For instance, I never thought that in a film song, heroine appears in seventeen different dresses, let alone admiring even one.



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-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Rahul Bajaj
Sent: 26 December 2019 01:28
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] Blindness and being friend-zoned by potential partners

Sometimes, it may very well be unconscious bias. People may not even realize that they are excluding someone as a potential partner when they actually are.

Rahul


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On Dec 25, 2019, at 3:50 PM, sheik mohammedali <[email protected]> wrote:

Yes I also second this.
Strong reason is that since we do not make eye to eye contact they might not be able to express their feelings and vice versa. and first impression would be sympathetic when they see us with a stick or escort. That is why we cannot expect the actual true love feelings with the sighted partner. But still there are exceptional cases like many of us have got married to the sighted partners but how many are love myrriages?.

Thanks and best regards,
Ali
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of Rahul Bajaj <[email protected]>
Sent: Wednesday, December 25, 2019 2:17 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: [AI] Blindness and being friend-zoned by potential partners

Hi, all,

Based on your lived experience, is it true that being disabled increases the likelihood of a potential partner only considering you a friend, rather than looking at you in romantic terms? If so, why?

Rahul


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