My brother and I are congenitally blind. This had an impact on the marriage of my sighted sister for some time. Many people suspected that her children would inherit the disability of their maternal uncles. Regards.
On 12/22/22, Ved <[email protected]> wrote: > In my case, we were two brothers and four sisters. All including myself, got > married without any consideration of disability. Let me tell you that I > belonged to a rural belt in U P where people are considered to be most > backwards and conservative. In rural U P, disabled persons are sometimes > mocked and teased but it looks that family reputation stands more strongly > than the disability consideration when it comes to matters like marriage > etc. > > > > From: [email protected] <[email protected]> On > Behalf Of Cauvery Krishna > Sent: 22 December 2022 06:08 AM > To: [email protected] > Subject: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your > disability. > > > > Hi, Access Indians, > > This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to ask > this. > > I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later stage > of my life. > > I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good with > technology, and I am independent also. > > But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage and > they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage with > my brother. > > They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent person > and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly > stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job. > > They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me. > > My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good as > well. > > But because of me and my disability he is not getting married. > > If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me what > can I do now. > > Thank you. > > Cauvery Krishna. > > -- > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the > person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; > > 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails > sent through this mailing list.. > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ > --- > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups > "AccessIndia" group. > To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an > email to [email protected] > <mailto:[email protected]> . > To view this discussion on the web visit > https://groups.google.com/a/accessindia.org.in/d/msgid/accessindia/CAK%3DRgBAdwXh07H9hgv_R_dTU55FoNRru83LK6sn6YLaLVJtiUw%40mail.gmail.com > <https://groups.google.com/a/accessindia.org.in/d/msgid/accessindia/CAK%3DRgBAdwXh07H9hgv_R_dTU55FoNRru83LK6sn6YLaLVJtiUw%40mail.gmail.com?utm_medium=email&utm_source=footer> > . > > -- > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the > person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; > > 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails > sent through this mailing list.. > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ > --- > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups > "AccessIndia" group. > To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an > email to [email protected]. > To view this discussion on the web visit > https://groups.google.com/a/accessindia.org.in/d/msgid/accessindia/00b101d915b1%244edde560%24ec99b020%24%40gmail.com. > -- కాకర్ల నాగేశ్వరయ్య K. Nageswaraiah -- Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ --- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "AccessIndia" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To view this discussion on the web visit https://groups.google.com/a/accessindia.org.in/d/msgid/accessindia/CACvtp9B0aWnCPGjYEuf-j_ZOssKjd2ky-LyOfHyuttt_vyFHiA%40mail.gmail.com.
