Your friend must focus on his Law degree and making his career as a lawyer. Speculation about your friend's future will then change to realisation that he is capable of looking after not only himself but also his parents. ----- Original Message ----- From: "Mohit Shah Shah" <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 4:08 PM Subject: [AI] A complex problem
Hi all, I have a very good friend who is partially blind. So, he is facing a very big problem. I asked him to ask about his problem in this group, but he doesn't want to insult himself or his family by doing that. He is 20 years old. He is currently pursuing his LLB degree in Pune. So, his maternal grandparents are very rich. They have a very big house which is worth crores of rupees. So, his dad says that the house should be divided equally between his mother and her brother after the deaths of his maternal grandparents. His dad says that his mother should get a part of the house so that she will then have the resources to help him (my friend) if he fails to do something substantial in his life. His dad also works very hard to collect more and more resources just to make sure that my friend doesn't have to face a lot of problems in his future. So, my friend is mostly upset because his parents keep arguing about this matter all the time. He says that his dad also uses abusive language while arguing with his mother. His dad tries to prevent him (my friend) and his mother from meeting his grandparents, because his dad feels that his grandparents don't care about his future. His maternal grandparents say that they can't divide that particular house because their son (my friend's maternal uncle) stays in that house. They are,however, willing to give another house to my mother which is not as expensive as the house that my dad wants. My friend says that both his grandparents and his father are really nice people. He says that his father is worried about his future because of his visual impairment. And his father believes that his mother should also help in building a better future for my friend. My friend is a very capable guy. He always comes first in exams. So, I'm sure that he will not require anybody's assistance for building his career. He is always upset because of the fights between his parents. He feels that he is the main reason for all their fights. He wants to show his father that he is not so worthless that he will require the assistance of his maternal grandparents. So, what can my friend do? My friend will be reading all your posts, so please do share your suggestions and views. Regards, Mohit Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ To unsubscribe send a message to [email protected] with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ To unsubscribe send a message to [email protected] with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
