I have always observed that we waste far too much time in framing guidelines 
about what cannot be discussed instead of focusing on what can be discussed.. 
A platform like AccessIndia can be very effectively used to discuss all aspects 
of blindness.. 
Half of the posts here are made to urge the moderator to close a discussion. 
Wouldn't it be more prudent to simply have the discussion and get over with it? 
Of course, spam messages, etc should never be allowed, but I, for one, see no 
harm in discussing such pertinent issues or in congratulating someone on the 
list for their achievement.. 
We must remember that this list is meant to facilitate discussions, not to 
hinder them.. 
Needless to say, these are purely my own views.   

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On Apr 19, 2013, at 9:10 AM, "srikanth bolla" <[email protected]> 
wrote:

> Guys I don't understand why this platform is not right to discuss social
> issues. We are here to discuss various issues and solve problems faced by
> visually challenged people.  I don't see this notification is wrong since
> this platform has big number of people, I feel marriage search is completely
> valid.  I think all list members should vote and make new guidelines for
> this platform rather than depend on the old draft of guidelines made by
> someone whom we don't know.  When we are discussing about marriages and
> other social, cultural, sexual issues of disabled people, why is marriage
> research email wrong? Regards,
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf
> Of B. R. Nautial
> Sent: Thursday, April 18, 2013 11:33 PM
> To: [email protected]
> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
> 
> of course! this is not the right platform for this kind of mails and this is
> equally true, these people also know this so, moderator should have taken
> this issue seriously. These people should be warned.
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "bhawani shankar verma" <[email protected]>
> To: <[email protected]>; <[email protected]>
> Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:48 AM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
> 
> 
>> please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "N D Gadhvi" <[email protected]>
>> To: <[email protected]>; <[email protected]>
>> Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM
>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
>> 
>> 
>>> Hello. Asking for just curiosity.  why she should be grajute from 
>>> only d u?
>>> -----Original message-----
>>> From: Syed Imran
>>> Sent:  19/04/2013, 7:27  am
>>> To: [email protected]
>>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person 
>>> is blind in the bride's family?
>>> 
>>> 
>>> -----Original Message-----
>>> From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On 
>>> Behalf Of avinash shahi
>>> Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18
>>> To: accessindia
>>> Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
>>> 
>>> Dear All
>>> 
>>> I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for 
>>> marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, 
>>> my friend will get some help from here.
>>> First I will mention my mail friend's traits:
>>> He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, 
>>> fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with 
>>> SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South 
>>> Delhi.
>>> 
>>> now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be 
>>> graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have 
>>> exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be 
>>> suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have 
>>> command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in 
>>> socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking,
>>> 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks 
>>> alcohol, if not then fair enough.
>>> Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their 
>>> families.
>>> willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list.
>>> --
>>> Avinash Shahi
>>> MPhil Research Scholar
>>> Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru 
>>> University New Delhi India
>>> 
>>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing 
>>> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on:
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