I agree with you Avinash.
   What's wrong in discussing a major important issue of search for
potential life partner? When we are discussing about far less important
things like exchanging the contact information and other stuffed, posting a
search for spouse is completely acceptable since most of our members of
blind and also this creates awareness but not whilates the list guidelines.
By the way, people hardly know about AI guidelines. It would be helpful if
the   guidelines are circulated once in a month or two to   update all new
members.  To be honest, I don't know the guidelines. Regards,
-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf
Of avinash shahi
Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 1:58 AM
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend

Mohib, before asking this, why didn't you think liking and softness varies
widely?
Some people are fond of Rani Mukherjee, and some are of Kajole?
And, DU, yes DU. that's my friend's personal choice. In fact, I also asked
him, why not from JNU? he said, no JNUites are difficult to handle after
marriage,smiles.
Finally, I wonder, why people unnecessarily jump for regulating posts?
perhaps due to right to speech and expression, here right to textual freedom
at play.
I am well-aware of AI's guidelines, and I had mentioned this well in front.
So please, don't attempt to regulate which is not warranted.
Since majority of members blind here, seeking for blind partner should be
facilitated on the list,if possible.
But it would be better if people ask their queries and help off the list.
Don't trouble those, who have nothing to do with such posts, and their
in-box get flooded with this thread.
On 4/19/13, Mohib Anwar Rafel <mohibra...@gmail.com> wrote:
> just asking of inquisitiveness, if her voice is not soft?
>
> On 4/19/13, srikanth bolla <presidentsrika...@gmail.com> wrote:
>> Guys I don't understand why this platform is not right to discuss 
>> social issues. We are here to discuss various issues and solve 
>> problems faced by visually challenged people.  I don't see this 
>> notification is wrong since this platform has big number of people, I 
>> feel marriage search is completely valid.  I think all list members 
>> should vote and make new guidelines for this platform rather than 
>> depend on the old draft of guidelines made by someone whom we don't 
>> know.  When we are discussing about marriages and other social, 
>> cultural, sexual issues of disabled people, why is marriage research 
>> email wrong? Regards,
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On 
>> Behalf Of B. R. Nautial
>> Sent: Thursday, April 18, 2013 11:33 PM
>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
>>
>> of course! this is not the right platform for this kind of mails and 
>> this is equally true, these people also know this so, moderator 
>> should have taken this issue seriously. These people should be 
>> warned.
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "bhawani shankar verma" <bsvermad...@gmail.com>
>> To: <ndgadhv...@gmail.com>; <accessindia@accessindia.org.in>
>> Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:48 AM
>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
>>
>>
>>> please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group
>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>> From: "N D Gadhvi" <ndgadhv...@gmail.com>
>>> To: <accessindia@accessindia.org.in>; 
>>> <accessindia@accessindia.org.in>
>>> Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM
>>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
>>>
>>>
>>>> Hello. Asking for just curiosity.  why she should be grajute from 
>>>> only d u?
>>>> -----Original message-----
>>>> From: Syed Imran
>>>> Sent:  19/04/2013, 7:27  am
>>>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
>>>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other 
>>>> person is blind in the bride's family?
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] 
>>>> On Behalf Of avinash shahi
>>>> Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18
>>>> To: accessindia
>>>> Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
>>>>
>>>> Dear All
>>>>
>>>> I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for 
>>>> marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so 
>>>> thought, my friend will get some help from here.
>>>> First I will mention my mail friend's traits:
>>>> He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, 
>>>> fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed 
>>>> with SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location 
>>>> South Delhi.
>>>>
>>>> now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be 
>>>> graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have 
>>>> exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be 
>>>> suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have 
>>>> command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in 
>>>> socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking,
>>>> 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks 
>>>> alcohol, if not then fair enough.
>>>> Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their 
>>>> families.
>>>> willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list.
>>>> --
>>>> Avinash Shahi
>>>> MPhil Research Scholar
>>>> Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru 
>>>> University New Delhi India
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Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru University New
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