I am so glad the discussion is veering towards the real story.
Yes she was killed by her husband and that is sad.
Had he been alive the law would have taken its own course.
But we have to look at the background of this story-
Did her parents and peers mentally and or physically veer her towards
marriage.
So did she get pressurised into marrying.
If she did then was it OK for her to marry some person who otherwise would
have been an unfit husband.
This is the situation in Society where girls are forced into matrimony. Not
much attention is given to what kind of husband she is getting.
The parents of the girl and the broker manuplate the girl . Sometimes the
girl herself accepts and sometimes she reconciles. This happens to a lot of
girls but since we are on accessindia I will say it happens to many visually
challenged girls.
Some marriages end like this one, some go on where the girl is constantly
tortured and some end when the girl runs away.
I met a bright young girl from this group whose parents were trying to get
her married to a distand relative by paying a hefty dowry. She was able to
get out of the mess before the marriage and she was able to get her parents
to accept the situation. Today she is happily working and lives in a hostel.
For obvious reasons her name is not disclosed. I dont know about her future
but I wish her the best and hope she finds someone who cares for her.
The other aspect is that visually challenged people need to feel and touch.
This makes marriage necessary in Indian society. This is natural for both
sexes so lets not deny this too.
Kanchan Pamnani
Advocate & Solicitor
9, Suleman Chambers,
Battery Street, Colaba,
Mumbai - 400 039.
----- Original Message -----
From: "Asudani, Rajesh" <[email protected]>
To: "AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerningthe disabled." <[email protected]>
Sent: Thursday, October 03, 2013 10:01 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Tulasi R an ex-NAB Karnataka student got killed
What had motivated her to marry such a guy?
Any clues?
Was it blind girl marrying any guy out of no choice?
It may sound politically incorrect but many blind girls marry any tom dick
and harry who is ready to marry them, sometimes even matches are arranged
by paying hefty sums
..
Now, don't please harangue that it happens with sighted girls also, and
blindness has nothing to do with it.
The fact that A happens without B, is no reason to deny Causative or
correlative role of B with A...
-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On
Behalf Of JYOTHI
Sent: Wednesday, October 02, 2013 11:20 AM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] Tulasi R an ex-NAB Karnataka student got killed
police arrested her husband and he doing another drama that is
drinking poison.... He consumes alcohol a lot.... I cannot say 1
reason y he murdered because there are lot of reason I can list out
some of them like doury, hiding disability, communication gap, etc. He
is uneducated fool and unemployed.... Big lier....
On 10/2/13, Umesha Economics <[email protected]> wrote:
Unable to believe! I knew her. she was working at mysore. she was a good
girl. she invited me to her marriage. but due to inconveniences I could
not
attend. let her soul be rest in peace. and it is possible only if the
killer
is sentenced to death.
Umesha
----- Original Message -----
From: "madhu" <[email protected]>
To: "'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerningthe disabled.'" <[email protected]>
Sent: Tuesday, 01 October, 2013 8:41 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] Tulasi R an ex-NAB Karnataka student got killed
Very shocking news She also had done course in Mitra Jyothi.
-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On
Behalf
Of Srinivasu Chakravarthula
Sent: Tuesday, October 01, 2013 7:51 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: [AI] Tulasi R an ex-NAB Karnataka student got killed
I'm very sad to share the news of sad demise of Tulasi R. She was
student
of
NAB Karnataka and then JSS Polytechnic Mysore. She was also a trainer at
JSS. Got to know that it was a murder by her husband last night.
She was known to me and was a very good girl. She even had a plan to
take
up
self employment and about two two years ago, I reviewed her business
idea
of
setting up a centre for all utility collection service like telephone
bill
etc.
Lost a very good friend.
May her soul be rest in peace.
Regards,
Srinivasu
http://srinivasu.org Twitter: @csrinivasu
about.me/srinivasuc
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