Friends, it’s unbelievable that the manipulation was made only by the broker. Generally, arrange marriages in India are solemnized after proper interaction between both parties. The blunder was committed on the part of girl and her family as well. They were supposed to reveal the disability. Brokers are concerned only with the remuneration, not for the future compatibility of couples… As Vamshi, I’m also in the hunt of a “suitable” spouse, but with two basic conditions that my 100% blindness is revealed beforehand and I would meet the girl personally before taking any decision. And the purpose of personal meeting is to clarify her about my blindness and ascertain if she is giving her consent in any kind of family pressure?
On 10/5/13, Vamshi. G <[email protected]> wrote: > One more lesson emerging out of this issue is for persons who can hide > their disability. When I say this, a total blind person can not hide > the disability. It can be done only by those whose vision impairment > allows them to hide/not disclose it. Presently I'm looking for > marriage proposals. And I make it a point not only to disclose my > present vision condition that I have only 10% vision, but also let > them know that it will deteriorate to the extent of total blindness. > And the fact of today is that there is no treatment available for this > RP. I received one or two proposals wherein a girl told me that she > would help me, and she believes that the treatment comes. I clearly > told her that I want to marry someone who can live with my blindness, > and not someone who believes that my blindness can be got rid off. > Besides, I don't want the girl to feel that she is helping me by > marrying me. I straight away rejected the proposal. > > In the present case, I can only wish that the husband had committed > suicide before killing her so that she could have lived happily after > his death. > > > > > > > On 10/5/13, P. Subramani <[email protected]> wrote: >> Re: [AI] Tulasi R an ex-NAB Karnataka student got killedno point in >> sympathetising on the woman's side without ascertaining the facts, it >> seems >> that by all probabilities, the broker has cheated both the parties, >> coming >> to the pointview of the blind woman, well its just common sense to >> findout >> everything before entering into alliance and especially hiding disability >> is >> the worst crime, >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: Asudani, Rajesh >> To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues >> concerningthe disabled. >> Sent: Thursday, October 03, 2013 10:07 AM >> Subject: Re: [AI] Tulasi R an ex-NAB Karnataka student got killed >> >> >> I am not justifying murder, or barbaric husband. >> But, hiding disability is not a joke! >> One should not resort to such techniques for getting married!!! >> Divorce would have been appropriate, instead of death!! >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On >> Behalf Of sheik mohammedali >> Sent: Wednesday, October 02, 2013 11:34 AM >> To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues >> concerning >> the disabled. >> Subject: Re: [AI] Tulasi R an ex-NAB Karnataka student got killed >> >> rip. folks actually problem with the broker who had arranged her >> marriage. just because of not disclosing her disability before the >> marriage such an adversity. after marriage she herself had >> disclosed her disability and meanwhile many conflicts were occuring >> among. such a brutal person, there is a proverb in kannada "savira >> sullu heli ondu maduve madu". let me not translate it in this context >> at least, broker had commited blunder, and this barbarous husband was >> a drunker. when our society adopts the quality of humane? >> >> On 10/2/13, JYOTHI <[email protected]> wrote: >> > police arrested her husband and he doing another drama that is >> > drinking poison.... He consumes alcohol a lot.... I cannot say 1 >> > reason y he murdered because there are lot of reason I can list out >> > some of them like doury, hiding disability, communication gap, etc. >> He >> > is uneducated fool and unemployed.... Big lier.... >> > >> > On 10/2/13, Umesha Economics <[email protected]> wrote: >> >> Unable to believe! I knew her. she was working at mysore. she was a >> good >> >> girl. she invited me to her marriage. but due to inconveniences I >> could >> >> not >> >> >> >> attend. let her soul be rest in peace. and it is possible only if >> the >> >> killer >> >> >> >> is sentenced to death. >> >> >> >> Umesha >> >> >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> >> From: "madhu" <[email protected]> >> >> To: "'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues >> >> concerningthe disabled.'" <[email protected]> >> >> Sent: Tuesday, 01 October, 2013 8:41 PM >> >> Subject: Re: [AI] Tulasi R an ex-NAB Karnataka student got killed >> >> >> >> >> >>> >> >>> >> >>> Very shocking news She also had done course in Mitra Jyothi. >> >>> >> >>> >> >>> -----Original Message----- >> >>> From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] >> On >> >>> Behalf >> >>> Of Srinivasu Chakravarthula >> >>> Sent: Tuesday, October 01, 2013 7:51 PM >> >>> To: [email protected] >> >>> Subject: [AI] Tulasi R an ex-NAB Karnataka student got killed >> >>> >> >>> I'm very sad to share the news of sad demise of Tulasi R. She was >> >>> student >> >>> >> >>> of >> >>> NAB Karnataka and then JSS Polytechnic Mysore. She was also a >> trainer >> at >> >>> JSS. Got to know that it was a murder by her husband last night. >> >>> >> >>> She was known to me and was a very good girl. 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